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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: xSweetCheeksx on 15 August 2014, 12:20:41 am
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Hi everyone, not been on here for a while so hope you're all well :)
So after quite an uncomfortable/painful booking today I thought I'd finally post this cause I wondered if i'm alone or not with the kind of pains I get.
So the positions I dread are when the guy is pretty much on top but practically pushes your legs behind your head and the one with him on top with your legs over his shoulders. Basically anything with legs in the air I get this horribly intense feeling to pee but it stops when not doing the position or sometimes I feel like I'm having air pounded into me cause my lower regions and lower stomach start to feel dead crampy and painful. It's so annoying cause I can hardly say no to such simple positions.
Anyone else or just me?
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Yes you can - and from the sound of it, should - say no.
The closer your knees are to your chest, the deeper the penetration can be. A number of things can affect whether that is nice or not, but if you are actively disliking it, just say their penis is too big for you in that position.
It is possible that the peeing feelings are a result of g-spot stimulation, but if you don't like it, who cares?
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Well yeah in future i'm not just gunna put up and shut up. But I read online the it's either the g spot thing like you said or cause it's pressing on your bladder. If it's the g spot, I can't find anything enjoyable about it to be honest x
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Well yeah in future i'm not just gunna put up and shut up. But I read online the it's either the g spot thing like you said or cause it's pressing on your bladder. If it's the g spot, I can't find anything enjoyable about it to be honest x
I find it not necessarily painful in these position but yes, definitely irritating my bladder. I mostly have to wee after I climax anyway. Very tight and tiny inside and some of them just push and push. Same sometimes happens to me in doggy.
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I started having this experience after hysterectomy - I don't know if you've had anything like that done, but it can definitely be a factor!
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I also find that position painful on any average and above sized guy. For the record, I'm very short and small myself.
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I also find that position painful on any average and above sized guy. For the record, I'm very short and small myself.
This is me exactly!
And no Dan I haven't had a hysterectomy.
And Charlotte I sometimes get it with doggy too. So annoying cause I want to look like I'm enjoying it not in pain.
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I hate these positons as it does irritate my bladder as it pushes against the urethra. If I do it too often I end up with a water infection or cyctitis. I just say no now as no amount of money is worth feeling uncomfortable or in pain.
If you don't like something don't do it. Not only can it affect your health it can affect your mental well being. This job comes with enough issues without us doing things we don't like just because it is seen as expected.
Mind you if a guy tried to shove my legs over my head now I would probably smack him one as due to my condition it is physically impossible for me to do this without excruciating pain