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anonymoussw

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Humiliation
« on: 22 December 2008, 11:19:45 pm »
Ok, so Saturday night (first all nighter) wants to be "used and properly humiliated". He suggested things like

  • Verbal abuse
  • Spit on him
  • Pissing on him
  • Shoving used "piss-stained"[verbatum] boxers in his mouth

that sort of thing. Don't get me wrong, I am not averse to a bit of kink and am happy to do stuff like this, and I definitely have some ideas of my own. I am however very conscious that overnight may be a long time and don't want to run out of ideas, so any suggestions would be welcome...

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Hermione

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Re: Humiliation
« Reply #1 on: 23 December 2008, 12:25:43 am »
This kind of service can only be given on your client's terms and within your clients boundaries. Everyone has their limits, and some of these are can seem arbitrary to the point of being silly but nonetheless should be respected.  The upside is of these bookings is that you don't and shouldn't decide how to fill the time.  If he expects you to know what he wants without his telling you, then you have someone disrespectful.
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UrbaneAspects

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Re: Humiliation
« Reply #2 on: 23 December 2008, 03:03:58 am »
whew...more power to you. I couldnt imagine doing a humiliation/bondage session any longer for an hour, once a month. I've done about 4 humiliation sessions, and I dont advertise in it at  all.

Also, be advised that there's alot of guys who mention stuff like that but are really just pulling your leg. Not all...and yes there's plenty out there with some true, fetish request but an all night for the 1st meet for a bondage session sounds...a bit too much.

In fact, if it was me I'd tell him I could do an hour or 2 first before I agree to something like that all night.
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anonymoussw

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Re: Humiliation
« Reply #3 on: 23 December 2008, 04:15:00 am »
Hehehehe. Well personally I quite like the idea :P though usually I would be the sub. But I am kinda kinky really :P He did say he likes normal sex and cuddling and stuff as well, so I am sure once he has cum a few times that way he'll get bored of it. But I don't really mind if it's all night.
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If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
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Joey

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Re: Humiliation
« Reply #4 on: 23 December 2008, 08:10:04 am »
Quote from: Hermione on 23 December 2008, 12:25:43 am
If he expects you to know what he wants without his telling you, then you have someone disrespectful.

she said it well. In fact, I never thought of it that way. Its like, how are we supposed to know what and how they want it?
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Violette

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Re: Humiliation
« Reply #5 on: 23 December 2008, 09:41:28 am »
Quote from: bennyboywonder on 23 December 2008, 04:15:00 am
Hehehehe. Well personally I quite like the idea :P though usually I would be the sub. But I am kinda kinky really :P He did say he likes normal sex and cuddling and stuff as well, so I am sure once he has cum a few times that way he'll get bored of it. But I don't really mind if it's all night.
I had an 'over-night' that lasted 2 hours! Sometimes it is the idea vs. reality. And usually after a few hours they are quite happy to pack you off home.
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