Hello girls,

I am after some much-needed advice  .

I am an ebony escort.

I haven't "worked" for nearly 2 years now but with the lack of prospect of finding a well paid "normal" job I am considering returning back to escorting.

The thing is my body is not the same as it used to be  and because of this I am lacking the confidence that I will be still seen as attractive to customers.  My breasts are no longer pert 

I used to be agency but this time I want to go independent. So I'm thinking outcalls only or a hotel/room for bookings in central London.

If anyone has any suggestions or similar experience please advise.

 

Couldnt agree more  ( i think you and i sing from the same song book  )  While i dont go to london any more the whole business has changed a lot in two -3 years and not for the better in my opinion for whats it worth
 
Prices are lower which is ok  but  there more girls are out there offering bb and other stuff which makes it harder to compete   and  guys expect and rightly so, a good service for there money, and will often write review or feedback on aw /punternet
 

if your only doing outcalls then i would say you would have to be prepared to take appointments as and when  they come in  if you have good childminding in places   
 
if your only relying on adultwork to get you business then you really want to try and stand out amongs the  3000+++ other that are on there for london to get work

im mixed race and notice that any inperfections on darker skin with the exception of scars and keoloid types scars dont notice that much on ebony /mixed race skin  ( or maybe im just luckydont know really   )
what i mean is on pale skin stretch marks can look like the bodys been wipped  they can look like thin bruises and become raised up slightly but on darker skin they dont look like that to me  or maybe im looking at the wrong bodies 

bio oil is very good for stretch marks
spray tans if they are done properly ( not a 30 second job) hid them pretty well  i have spray tans every week even though im mixed race     
 
   

I can't talk for London as I'm up in Scotland but all I can say is you will find it a very different ball game (pardon the pun) from it was two years ago in the fact that the number of girls has increased MASSIVELY and the number of guys hasn't. Infact their money for spending is either the same or less 

I wouldnt worry about your body/boobs etc as I'm sure you are being over critical about yourself. 

My first move would be to get a profile up on Adultwork.  That will take you longer than before with looking after baby. 

I'm sure some single mums and london girls will come online soon and give you some good advice.

TC xx All The Best With Your Return xx

I was hoping the scene had picked back up......

Thanks, Paris for the spray tan idea!

Well I could do incalls in hotels but I would have to find some that others use for the same purpose.

Maybe stick your toe in the water by registering with an agency or working at a parlour?
Then you can get a better idea of how the land lies without having to fork out for hotels/advertising etc.

 i dont actually work in london     (cant stand the place - you hold the door open to be polite for some little old lady in tescos and she looks at you like your a bloody serial killer    and everyone is always in a rush   you can  have two hours to get somewhere but cos everyone is rushing you rush with them like a maniac )
   
   Several of my friends work and live there and all say its dead dead dead and your working twice as hard  to make even less than you did before 

Not sounding too good .

I just don't see my options here.......

Is it worth even returning? where would you say is the best place to advertise?

I will ask some of the other London girls too. I mean I don't need to be heavily booked but I need to make some extra money definitely!

 

i dont actually work in london     (cant stand the place - you hold the door open to be polite for some little old lady in tescos and she looks at you like your a bloody serial killer    and everyone is always in a rush   you can  have two hours to get somewhere but cos everyone is rushing you rush with them like a maniac )
   
   Several of my friends work and live there and all say its dead dead dead and your working twice as hard  to make even less than you did before 

We definitely sing from the same hymn sheet Paris. ROFL. 

Not sounding too good .

I just don't see my options here.......

Is it worth even returning? where would you say is the best place to advertise?

I will ask some of the other London girls too. I mean I don't need to be heavily booked but I need to make some extra money definitely!

Something else you have to consider Chantel.  I dont know how many clients you are hoping to see a week.  If it was say 4 a day - and one didnt show - and there are so many timewasters out there - it wouldnt be so bad (bad enough though) but if you are only planning on seeing four a week and one doesnt show then your money is cut by 25% - which in this day and age is a lot of money.

Just a thought I wanted to pass on.