I've been asked (on cam) a few times for this, but I just get one sentance in before they leave, never to be seen again!

I usually start off with laughing (ie LOL) or an insult about what it looks like, or how they couldn't please anyone...before they leave 

So I gather I must be doing something wrong - any tips?

That sounds about right. Did you ask them about it, so you could work off what they told you or start off with the LOLs?

Various porn sites have previews of videos of this sort of thing, so you could spend some time watching what they think will sell.

Who knows, perhaps they were expecting you to say 'that's not small, that's massive!'

HAHA at your last sentance!! Yeah, probably!!

I didn't think about looking on porn sites, d'uh Thanks for that.

Yep, I've asked, and I go with the *vibe* I get (because they usually all say similar, as in "it's 3 inches when erect" or "women always laugh when they see it" etc), but my intuition obviously isn't working in this specific area!

I shall watch porn. Market research

Ask them to hold there cock against everyday objects, like a TV remote control and really take the mickey saying things like "wow" you only just reach the red button, what a shame as my bf goes right up to the sky button" as them if they have a ruler to measure it.  Humiliation on cam is quite difficult (don't do camming anymore) as they often want you to do all the talking & get little back to bounce off them.

If a pre-arranged cam ask them to have felt tip pens etc to draw faces on their penis, fake hair etc and make them dance on cam.

I found with any humiliation bookings that they do enjoy being laughed at a lot, so just repeat what a tiny pindick they have, what a useless lover they would be.  That there only use would to be a sissy maid in pink frillies and maybe made to fluff big cocks for you (God sorry if this is too graphic ladies) anyway it used to get them going.  Cuckolding, sissification etc seems to work.  Hope that helps a little. XXX

You guys make it sound SO easy 

Thanks for the tips

I have been informed (FWIW) that to do it properly--aside from specifically-- it's best to do it more from a persona than from sincere desires to humiliate...this from experienced dom[me]s. We all know that we have all had episodes in every walk of our lives where this is exactly what our doctor ordered, but from the sources, sincerity is not best.

I realize with cam it's got to be even more challenging... And you all know I'm tightly wound and sometimes rigid but one of the reasons I avoid all of the dom-sub/humiliation stuff is because I haven't had my lessons, yet...

I'd be willing to bet that there's a couple good tutorials, online, in addition to what is available on AW.

-just the messenger-

....and I just got it COMPLETELY wrong!!! Guy comes into cam room, goes on and on about how he has a small willy and what would I say about it...I tried reassuring him, but he still went on about it and I was getting the 'Small Cock Humiliation' vibes, so the end of convo went:

me - "do you want me to love it or laugh at it"
him - "love it why laugh"
me - "I was just making sure I know what you want and you get what you want"
him - "not funy" *leaves room*

HO HUM!!