i am working ok and i do not take phone call. Only email in order to book.
I had some issue of stress/anxiety so honetly by email is great! i do not risk a lot as i am screening very well and i never had bad experience...yes, sometimes some stupid or TW but nothing dangerous or violent.
I felt more safe to the gentl club because for wealthy clients. but it is not realistic, it is a feeling. I had bad experience once there. the guy was leaving without paying...i run and i take my money finally! i felt safe because i was not alone. happens for 1 month girls didn t work and stay there to wait anyway! it is not happens to me hopefully!
is good you work daytime!
where i worked they didn t take money from us...clients only must buy a bottle at ?200/300 at least, then he can talk with girls...
i am not the best as indipendent but i arrive to cover cost and bills even i am very selective.
last year October was not so great for me! i won t same, but apparently is slow for many of us! i had some email, and some text today..i refused them i didn t feel right and seems not read my profile...
i had an amazing booking this morning now..i rest as tomorrow long booking hopefully with one of my best!
I used to work only through email when I started, and did well for a few months, but then the 'newness' of my profile wore off and I put my rates up a little bit (I was originally ?100/hr outcall only) so things dropped off a bit. I still take bookings by email but I don't have a permanent incall so a lot of the time I have to take 'right now' bookings which tend to come by phone I find. I had some anxiety issues for many years regarding phone calls but soon after I started working I had some therapy and it helped a lot, and this job has been great exposure therapy and done a lot to help my social anxiety (I no longer cry when my phone rings!), but talking on the phone still stresses me out and has no real screening benefits for me because I personally get a much better sense of people by how they type over how they talk. I've considered going back to my old rates/methods but I always feel like incall clients are better behaved than outcall clients with regards to finishing on time, (something about them being in your space vs the other way around?), and I usually do make more doing incalls, but it's a risk to pay out for hotel rooms all the time and I can't
really afford to just lose ?100 right now. I don't know. I wish I could afford to rent an incall place so I could have a permanent base but my income is too variable atm and there's no way I'm risking it without at least four months rent behind me. I definitely like the safety aspect of the brothel, as well as the social side, and that it's zero risk financially (I don't pay anything if I only have one or 0 bookings), but the girls I was with today were both saying it's way worse than it was this time last year. But anyway, we're wandering away from the thread topic so I'll stop wittering on. Good vibes for everyone and hope it picks up soon!