I mean sometimes they dont even have security at night. I can imagine how one could be assaulted and nobody would witness it

It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.

No booking is ever going to be 100% risk free and whether there is security on duty or not is not going to stop something happening to you in a bedroom within a hotel.

I do find hotels safer than private homes though; the perception that there are other people around that can intervene is psychologically there and may cause a client to hesitate before doing something. In addition, the hotel has their booking details which makes them more traceable in the event of an incident.

I am outcall only and I far prefer hotel outcall appointments. There is a minimum standard of cleanliness/lack of clutter/facilities that you can rely on compared to the occasional hovel a client lives in.