I mean sometimes they dont even have security at night. I can imagine how one could be assaulted and nobody would witness it

I don't consider any booking safe, I was held at knife point in my incall place. I use the same precautions wherever the booking is held and whoever the booking is with new client or regular.

It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.

I'm simular regards dark, some punters want quite late appointments - either so it's immediately before they go to bed or perceived discretion. I have started pulling my finish time back mostly to fit with my life, but also safety and actual discretion.

I always ask for a deposit no exceptions.

It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.

Thankyou Gucci the request for the video is a good one

but often they dont even have security at night which is shocking.

Most hotels have a 24 hour desk (or at least a night porter), often a doorman late at night plus CCTV in public areas and the doors are electronically locked. What exactly is it that you want; I doubt many of us trying to work would appreciate armed guards patrolling the corridors?

Mitigating risk is the name of the game. 

Big hotels with night staff are generally much better than the smaller boutique hotels with no one on duty.

I love hotel outcalls as you can leave at your whim, but of course you have to do your safety checks as pertaining to the client themselves.  Never ever slide into the comfort zone of thinking anyone or anywhere is safe.

If you have a gut instinct something is wrong when you arrive at the hotel, leave.

If you have a gut feeling something is wrong with the booking, call the hotel and ask for the guest in the room - any decent client would be okay with a woman doing this; 

In general, I do find outcalls to hotels safe and I do prefer them over incalls to my apartment.