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cleojones

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Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« on: 03 May 2024, 03:15:44 am »
I mean sometimes they dont even have security at night. I can imagine how one could be assaulted and nobody would witness it

Mirror

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #1 on: 03 May 2024, 06:31:04 am »
I mean sometimes they dont even have security at night. I can imagine how one could be assaulted and nobody would witness it

I don't consider any booking safe, I was held at knife point in my incall place. I use the same precautions wherever the booking is held and whoever the booking is with new client or regular.
« Last Edit: 03 May 2024, 07:01:50 am by Mirror »

GucciGang

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #2 on: 03 May 2024, 08:05:00 am »
It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.

Mirror

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #3 on: 03 May 2024, 08:34:24 am »
It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.

I'm simular regards dark, some punters want quite late appointments - either so it's immediately before they go to bed or perceived discretion. I have started pulling my finish time back mostly to fit with my life, but also safety and actual discretion.

AnnaConda

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #4 on: 03 May 2024, 09:14:07 am »
No booking is ever going to be 100% risk free and whether there is security on duty or not is not going to stop something happening to you in a bedroom within a hotel.

I do find hotels safer than private homes though; the perception that there are other people around that can intervene is psychologically there and may cause a client to hesitate before doing something. In addition, the hotel has their booking details which makes them more traceable in the event of an incident.

I am outcall only and I far prefer hotel outcall appointments. There is a minimum standard of cleanliness/lack of clutter/facilities that you can rely on compared to the occasional hovel a client lives in.

cherryfcuk

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #5 on: 03 May 2024, 02:03:56 pm »
I always ask for a deposit no exceptions.

cleojones

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #6 on: 03 May 2024, 06:10:51 pm »
I don't consider any booking safe, I was held at knife point in my incall place. I use the same precautions wherever the booking is held and whoever the booking is with new client or regular.
was it an organized crime kinda thing or "just" a wacko? and um, no u cant compare hotel thats full of people vs incall. but often they dont even have security at night which is shocking.

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #7 on: 03 May 2024, 06:15:27 pm »
It’s rare I do them to be honest but I always ask for a video of the room along with a video of the door number before I go. That way I can get a feel for the vibe and what it’s like.

Also would never go without a deposit and not too late at night I’ve always been more of a day worker. It’s strange but I just do not feel safe going anywhere in the dark.
Thankyou Gucci the request for the video is a good one

Justine

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #8 on: 03 May 2024, 07:29:25 pm »
I no longer do outcalls and my last one was over 4 years ago but the idea of asking for a video and/or photos of hotel rooms and door numbers etc is a very good one and I'd be doing that certainly!

For what it's worth I've done hundreds of out calls to hotels in the past and never had a single issue with safety but  anyone considering them these days  should do whatever they need to feel confident and comfortable walking into the hotel room of someone they've never met before.
« Last Edit: 03 May 2024, 07:41:35 pm by Justine »

amy

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Re: Do you consider hotel outcalls safe
« Reply #9 on: 03 May 2024, 08:12:00 pm »
but often they dont even have security at night which is shocking.

Most hotels have a 24 hour desk (or at least a night porter), often a doorman late at night plus CCTV in public areas and the doors are electronically locked. What exactly is it that you want; I doubt many of us trying to work would appreciate armed guards patrolling the corridors?