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River

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #345 on: 23 February 2011, 06:36:48 pm »
River
Have you ever considered being a transgender mistress/ dominatrix?
There are not many out there. You seem to have the right attitude for it (going by your online posts) and would pay more money than escorting.
Think about it ;)
I know a few publications you could advertise in.
If interested pm me.
Well I do offer and enjoy mild BDSM restraint, cbt, humiliation, body worship
along with a host of other things.
Whips cans crops paddles floggers
along with the kit stored underneath the double bed in the 'office'
is quite scary!
 
The reason I've never gone into the full mistress thing is self-perception.
I used to go to loads of clubs
from TG when it was at its first venue at Opera on the green in Shepards bush,
Whiplash. rubber nipple club, later evolved into club rub, Domina at Oasis, submission and subversion,
and so on.
A used to date a mistress as well.
All this is a problem.
A true Domme has a certain mindset.
and while I love domming for pay and for pleasure in clubs
I know full well that my mental make-up is not that of a full blown Domme.
I would worry that clients would compare me to other mistresses and realise this.
I would feel I was conning them by not truely being that which they desire.
Hence no ads in T&T!






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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #346 on: 23 February 2011, 11:45:15 pm »
I've had a terrible jan and feb!!! and my rent needs paying lol.
I had a minimum amount of bookings and a maximum amount of time wasters!! Grrrrrrrr !

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #347 on: 24 February 2011, 10:30:49 am »
A true Domme has a certain mindset.
and while I love domming for pay and for pleasure in clubs
I know full well that my mental make-up is not that of a full blown Domme.
I would worry that clients would compare me to other mistresses and realise this.
I would feel I was conning them by not truly being that which they desire.

In some cases, that mindset comes from having their head so far up their arse, they can see daylight.

Clients who want to see someone who acts like they have a divine right to treat other people like shit will see such people. But for some others, BDSM play is play.

If you're honest about what you can offer, you will find a market.

(I thought I'd managed to post last night using my phone, so this may be slightly less tactful than the original version :) )
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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River

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #348 on: 24 February 2011, 03:49:44 pm »
A true Domme has a certain mindset.

In some cases, that mindset comes from having their head so far up their arse, they can see daylight.
Thanks Ian; I'll mull over this a bit more deeply.

On the arse thing.
I was once introed to a Dom.
Now everyone was in the scene to varying degrees.
But this was lunchtime in a regular pub.
The Dom introduced himself as "Thunder"
My reply (straight face)
"Hi Thunder pleased to meet you.
My name is: ' Overcast with scattered showers turning to sleet later'... "

For some reason he refused to look me in the eye or talk with me either!   ;D
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #349 on: 26 February 2011, 06:23:34 pm »
Scene ; Daytime, interior, Vikkis living room : (the sound of the wall clock ticking..)
Vikki lies on the floor holding her mobile phone .
Vikki ; "...Day nine without a booking...."(sighs deeply)
Being a good girl from now on.

Coty

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #350 on: 27 February 2011, 12:08:19 am »
Sods law with me. No bookings forever and now I have flu 4 calls today! GRRRRRR

Coty x

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #351 on: 27 February 2011, 08:01:37 am »
Is London really so dead? Supposed to be touring there next week but reading this thread I might cancel :-\. Had no similar problems in the North, this year's been great.

This may be too late to help, but I'm in London and was definitely busy last week. Currently off in the countryside recovering. ;D
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #352 on: 27 February 2011, 02:50:04 pm »
Awwww I hope your feeling better very soon Coty, and busy working through lots
of appointments xx
Being a good girl from now on.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #353 on: 27 February 2011, 04:28:27 pm »
Is London really so dead? Supposed to be touring there next week but reading this thread I might cancel :-\. Had no similar problems in the North, this year's been great.

This may be too late to help, but I'm in London and was definitely busy last week. Currently off in the countryside recovering. ;D

Thanks Emily, that's really good to hear. Was going to London anyway as well more than got my expenses covered now but was still a little apprehensive. Reading that some people are getting good work is very reassuring
CeCe

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #354 on: 27 February 2011, 04:47:03 pm »
Not too shabby now.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #355 on: 27 February 2011, 04:53:04 pm »
Hello Everybody,

You lucky bugger :) it has been absolutely dead here in Norwich, absolutely terrible...

Mak.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #356 on: 27 February 2011, 05:54:18 pm »
Awwww I hope your feeling better very soon Coty, and busy working through lots
of appointments xx

Thank you xxxx I hope so too. Feel even worse today. It's an awful virus. My daughter in law who lives with me is on day 12 and her mum day 15! I'm only day 6 so reckon will be another week till I'm working! So skint:-(( Wahhhhhhh Woe is me! LOL

Coty xxx

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #357 on: 10 March 2011, 08:50:41 pm »
Agggghhhhhh and I thought it would be better in March. 

So far two jobs this month, what a nightmare. Is it just me?

Coty

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #358 on: 10 March 2011, 08:55:05 pm »
I haven't had ANY this month.

I've tried everything I can think of.

It's DIRE :-(

Coty x


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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #359 on: 10 March 2011, 09:00:55 pm »
hello girls,

huge hugs xx

THANK U.............starting to think it was just me.

feb was more quiet than previous year & was looking forward to march but WORSE this week.....i might as well take a sleeping pill & wake up mon! ;)

im getting so frustrated.......dunno what to do either

where is everybody,hiding!come out to play pleasssssssssssssssseeeeeeee!!

lol
gemma xx