The only phone call I have had this week was this morning when I was asked for BB anal! For shame me cos for a split second I considered it.

That would have been even worse, because what if it was a timewaster? Then you'd have said yes, and felt like an idiot.

I know I have been kicking myself all day for even thinking it

I dont blame you. I have really stooped low this week. I have been going on dating sites pretending I want free sex, only to say I'd like to get paid once we're on the phone.

It gets on my nerves. 2 married men wanting a young guy to fuck them, and a super-closeted man wanting me to fuck him, but not be seen with me in public. Neither one of them willing to pay even $50 for their fantasy. This is what I run into on the dating sites.

I wish some places had the mentality of New York. And understand that, if you want someone to cater to your fantasy then you need to stop being so DAMN cheap and loosen up the wallets. Young guys like me are hungry and behind on bills...and they mother fucking ass with money and steady jobs cant even drop down $100. Shit makes me so angry      

the adult dating sites (encounter as we call them in the uk) are killing this business. if a guy wants free porn he googles it. If a girl wants to empty his load for free then the internet is there again

I won't dare bow down to it. I only give free sex to cute guys my age, not some 40 year old who just wants to get his rocks off. Fucking pervert, go hire a hooker 

I am starting to get a little more busy but not hugely and mostly this is down to sport being over and the weather cooling down but I dont think things are going to get a lot better until mid to late august and the holiday season is nearing the end and punters are sick of the sight of their families.

I've been escorting for about 3/4 months now and have always been busy, right from the start.
Then suddenly about three weeks ago everything went quiet.

If you've been using Adult Work since you started 3/4 months ago then what I call "the honeymoon period" is over.   It's the same for girls in parlours I think.  It just settles down a bit.  My first four months on AW I earned at least double what I do now    But new girls come along who are flavour of the month.  But remember there are always new clients coming along as well.

Try not to be paranoid about it ... easier said than done, I know.  Usually, just as I'm about to throw the towel in, I get a mad rush of bookings and everything is ok again.  I once went through around three weeks where EVERY SINGLE CLIENT cancelled.  I mean ALL of them.  By the end of it I knew every time the phone rang it would be a cancellation.  I honestly just sat down and cried.  I was "what the hell is going on?"   The following week about half of them rang to rebook, etc. etc.  But that made me seriously paranoid. LOL my head was doing overtime.

Quote from: PremiumBlonde on 23 July 2010, 03:14:56 am

I once went through around three weeks where EVERY SINGLE CLIENT cancelled.  I mean ALL of them.  By the end of it I knew every time the phone rang it would be a cancellation.  I honestly just sat down and cried.  

Thats all I can do tonight is just sit and and cry tonight. When I actually did get a booking tonight, I had taken an afternoon nap and didn't hear the phone go off  

Its the worse feeling. When I do cry, I think its absurd for me to cry because no one wants to pay me for sex at the moment. It seems unjustified to cry over it and makes me feel even more upset

I think we've all been there Joey. Sometimes it really gets to you and you take it personally. This job sends your emotions all over the place. You get a good week and you are buzzing and think you are the bee's knees. Then you get a bad week and think God what is wrong with me?

I have had the grand total of a one hour booking this week so far. I must admit it is partly my fault as I was unavailable Monday and Tuesday.

Yesterday I had a one hour booked in for 7pm who I had met before. I thought there was a reason why I didn't want to see him from last time but couldn't be sure. Anyway, he called in the morning to confirm as requested. He asked if he could change it from 7pm to 2pm which I couldn't so we agreed on 5.30pm. That irritated me. Then in the afternoon he texts me "Can you send me a pic to get me in the mood". I txt him forget it. Then he starts grovelling and apologising. I wouldn't see him. Just couldn't be arsed. 

But when it's ourselves we are "selling", when we know we have to look good, be charming, sexy and entertaining and the work isn't coming in we blame ourselves, our confidence is undermined.  It's a whole new level of 'rejection'.  

For a moment I thought you were expecting me to not cry and instead think of other reasons why LOL. But its true, there really isn't anything to make up an excuse for when you're having to downgrade to cheap sex because the place I live in is full of tight-wad fuckers who think a young 22 year old college guy is going to be happy to sleep with their FAT, out of shape ASSES. Why in the sandhill? when I bust my ass in the gym night and day, while they sit eating fucking tacos all day with a beer belly gut? Because they know they cant find ANYBODY else like me to give them the time of the day, ugly cheap sucker!    

Sorry, I just cant help it. I really want to say this to people!