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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1455 on: 23 December 2012, 06:55:32 pm »
Dire isn't the word, in addition to it being quieter than normal, there have been riots in Belfast, where I was working. It was quiet before, but it has since gone silent. I mean my phone wasn't ringing, to the point I though it was turned off, or on silent.
I am home now, thankfully. But this last month has been a real struggle. So much so I am seriously considering not touring from the end of October of next year.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1456 on: 23 December 2012, 07:24:13 pm »
Dire isn't the word, in addition to it being quieter than normal, there have been riots in Belfast, where I was working. It was quiet before, but it has since gone silent. I mean my phone wasn't ringing, to the point I though it was turned off, or on silent.
I am home now, thankfully. But this last month has been a real struggle. So much so I am seriously considering not touring from the end of October of next year.

The riots haven't affected me as am living Bt7 out of the city where the hall is. Even clients came to me after inquiring if the area is safe from the riots. I explained where I am every things fine. The riots/protest will go on for a while yet especially with the people who believe so much. Even though the troubles are over the silent war goes on getting the upper hand from each sides. It was a catholic party who voted for the British flag to be removed the protestants are very angry about. I spoke to a client about this once to get a better understanding as the news over here I never watch. If I did all the time with every thing going on. It might affect me mess my head up. I've been here over a year now, in despite a Burglary and two men bashed my front door down. If any thing I am more mentally stronger than any thing, nothing will ever phase me again. I am built for this environment.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1457 on: 12 January 2013, 01:47:12 pm »
Is any one else finding their phone quiet? over the past couple of days. I feel that Belfast is suffering the most with recession. A regular wanted to see me last night but the road was blocked off. So lost money not good. The only reason am here was to escort now nothing sure makes me re-think. Ever since I met that guy business has gone down hill. When things get back on track my business comes first regardless. Like love doesn't pay my bills not doing this. Also the normal 9-5 job sounds daunting knowing where to start?. Any advice appreciated.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1458 on: 12 January 2013, 03:40:47 pm »
MD, the phones have been a bit quieter, this could be due to the middle of the month, and the blocking of roads in Belfast aren't helping.

But saying that, are you as concentrated in work as you could be? Falling In love can take the focus away from what's important, especially with this job. Remember this, men will come and go, but bank balances and property will stay. Meaning, think about you bottom line. What's more important, kisses and cuddles, or the freedom to do as you please? And think long and hard about telling him what you do as well, as that can end in disaster. Good luck.
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« Reply #1459 on: 12 January 2013, 05:58:58 pm »
MD, the phones have been a bit quieter, this could be due to the middle of the month, and the blocking of roads in Belfast aren't helping.

But saying that, are you as concentrated in work as you could be? Falling In love can take the focus away from what's important, especially with this job. Remember this, men will come and go, but bank balances and property will stay. Meaning, think about you bottom line. What's more important, kisses and cuddles, or the freedom to do as you please? And think long and hard about telling him what you do as well, as that can end in disaster. Good luck.


I made a decision yesterday to concentrate more escorting and yes he knows as his an ex client. What is more important to me is escorting really. Paying my rent and bills comes first. It's only been about four days dead with the odd one. To my surprise many missed calls this morning.  Today has been ok with bookings. It would be good to have the best of both worlds if only things was that simple.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1460 on: 12 January 2013, 11:12:34 pm »
MD- do you advertise on Escort Ireland?

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1461 on: 13 January 2013, 01:01:57 am »
Is any one else finding their phone quiet? over the past couple of days. I feel that Belfast is suffering the most with recession. A regular wanted to see me last night but the road was blocked off. So lost money not good. The only reason am here was to escort now nothing sure makes me re-think. Ever since I met that guy business has gone down hill. When things get back on track my business comes first regardless. Like love doesn't pay my bills not doing this. Also the normal 9-5 job sounds daunting knowing where to start?. Any advice appreciated.

i was in ireland for two weeks after boxing day   it started off really busy iBelfast and left New Years Eve to Go to Cork  apart from the Sat in Belfast  it was really really busy in both placeS untill the Tuesday of this week and then it just went deader than a guys dick on double viagra 

No reason, no idea why  it was like the end of the world  I'm home now and it going to bloody snow that that fucks me off big time as well

Do you use Escort Ireland  MD  as that is pretty good for Belfast and Ireland in General expensive but worth it, i wouldn't even go to Ireland without using it out their

I normally find that the first two week of after xmas are busy and then as soon as the kids go back to school in january it slow down considerably untill march

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1462 on: 13 January 2013, 05:06:45 am »
and then it just went deader than a guys dick on double viagra 

No reason, no idea why  it was like the end of the world  I'm home now and it going to bloody snow that that fucks me off big time as well

lol, double viagra that's a good one.

Talk about snow, not only that but in my town we also had football championship game and that's all I hear about all day long. Cold weather, football. Cold weather, football. Like everyone revolves their very lives around weather and sports. That's why I liked living in Miami because besides football there was sex, money and clubbing to focus on.

That said, it's been slow as hell here. I seen 2 clients so far this week. I just paid my rent. I'm so broke I can't even afford to go out tonight and have a drink. Luckily, next week I'm meeting a regular in another state and he just deposited $100 to my paypal account, but that takes 2 days to reach my bank account  :P

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1463 on: 13 January 2013, 10:50:39 am »
MD, the phones have been a bit quieter, this could be due to the middle of the month, and the blocking of roads in Belfast aren't helping.

But saying that, are you as concentrated in work as you could be? Falling In love can take the focus away from what's important, especially with this job. Remember this, men will come and go, but bank balances and property will stay. Meaning, think about you bottom line. What's more important, kisses and cuddles, or the freedom to do as you please? And think long and hard about telling him what you do as well, as that can end in disaster. Good luck.



I made a decision yesterday to concentrate more escorting and yes he knows as his an ex client. What is more important to me is escorting really. Paying my rent and bills comes first. It's only been about four days dead with the odd one. To my surprise many missed calls this morning.  Today has been ok with bookings. It would be good to have the best of both worlds if only things was that simple.
I have dated a client once before, but never again. I just feel like they are getting it for free, and that irritates me. Many ladies have done it, and are doing it, good luck to them I say. When I am done at the end of the day, the only male I want around me is a small, furry, flat faced one.
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1464 on: 14 January 2013, 12:35:02 am »
I feel I can handle it better when I'm getting clients throughout the week regularly than when it's really slow and I'm just waiting around for a call. It's like I am so wanting to meet a client and then when someone finally calls and books, I'm so exhausted from waiting around. For some reason I can't jump into being SO happy about. It's a weird feeling.

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« Reply #1465 on: 14 January 2013, 05:02:41 pm »
Blaine I know exactly what you mean, so today was very quiet phone rangtwice.
First client decided to hang up , I thought to myself im not calling back.
Then the 2nd one rang and spoke and I could barely understand him, normally I dont have a problem with clients who do not speak very good english. But omg this one was a joke. Then I said to him you will need tp book me using the AW system, he just couldnt get to grips with what I was saying. In the end I had to be very blunt and just say to him if you cant book then I cant see you.

But dont you sometimes find you have clients you want to see and then you get the ones where you think, if I didnt have to pay a bill I wouldn't be here.

OMG ladies whilst typing this message mr I need a translator has decided to send me his address. What is wrong with these men these days lol!

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« Reply #1466 on: 19 January 2013, 01:46:32 pm »
I went out with a friend for a meal and drinks last night (we were mad to go out in this weather but it's been awhile since we last met) and was surprised how many men there were in this bar on the prowl for girls.  I guess some men find it convenient to pick up a wg from a bar after work in this weather rather than trawling through the sites/agencies.

If you do find work slow maybe you should consider different approaches to marketing yourself or hitting a fancy bar in your city as there will always be horny guys there.

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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1467 on: 19 January 2013, 02:42:53 pm »
I usually go to places where you can sit and watch sports,news etc. and have a meal, It's suprising how you can meet men finishing work and having a drink/meal who you can catch their eyes and flirt with. He he  ;D It is sometimes better than your ad sites sometimes,it's easy to forget other ways of making your money.
I did that during the run up to Xmas when i thought I wasn't getting many calls. it turned out my phone had been without service because Orange had changed to EE and disconnected my number because I only used it for incoming calls from clients :FF

It took me days to realise this but by then I had made more buy hussying in various places. ;D
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« Reply #1468 on: 19 January 2013, 02:52:00 pm »
How many guys have the necessary readies in their back pocket though?
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Re: Slow at the minute or just me?
« Reply #1469 on: 19 January 2013, 02:55:19 pm »
I find that if the phone is slow to ring then camming is the place to try your luck, it might not pay immediately but having a little trickle in is better than a drought!