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Author Topic: Slightly annoyed with myself/guilt, and help for a client with peyronies  (Read 1200 times)

Treetop

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So before I'm told to look at health forums I'm not trying to fix a penis and I have spent time looking into it.  I have encoutered it before but I sort of need help with alternatives to the standard fs/ow as both are awkward and near impossible. so far we have between thighs while on my front works amazingly and he had never tried before. But he beats himself up over it and it's making me sad to see him upset. Does anyone have any "unorthodox" (not uh medical, medical i cam find but im looking for escoet tricks.) tips to make him enjoy and feel better? I feel like it's my job to make people feel better as he always cheers me up and gives me an amazing massage etc.

I struggle  when I have nice clients and I can't help sexually and they get sad too. I mean he mostly wants cuddles and for example today we spent a good hour with him teaching me the Waltz and foxtrot, but he always tries sex too.  He has a good time but always is painfully apologetic when it comes to the sex part and tries to make it work. I honestly don't mind no sex and I have a fab time but he misses being young so things/toys/anything to help please? Or way to geel less guilty that I can't help?

Kay

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It's difficult to say - is his penis so bent penetration is impossible? Is it painful for him?

I'd probably say something like, 'Look, we know penetration isn't feasible, so let's focus on making you cum another way...' Have lots of foreplay, give him oral, a nice oily hand job etc.
"There is no sin except stupidity" - Oscar Wilde

Rosesugar

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Tree top please dont feel guilty, you seem to be making him feel good  and theres limits to what can be done  other than him seeing a  surgeon for example .
Maybe he could get a referral from his gp

VoluptuousCurves

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Why would YOU feel guilty, it's not you that bent his cock!

I know what you mean about wanting to help but ultimately he's an adult and if he wants to find out possible techniques to help himself, he's perfectly capable of googling.
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
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English Green

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Yep you should not feel guilty it is not like you bent his knob. Whatever you're doing now seems to be working otherwise he would not come back to see you and pay you so you are already doing something right.

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BibiofLeeds

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There are several treatments for Peyronies as far as I know and as a grown man he can go seek these treatments out.Rather than feeling sorry for him and feeling guilty I think I would be starting to feel slightly annoyed that he isn't doing anything to try and sort it out and is trying to have sex when it isn't possible and making both of you feel bad.Although you shouldn't feel bad at all,it's his choice to live with it rather than getting help and his choice to come and see you knowing what the score is.
Yes our job is to give people a good time but we are not Social Workers and it seems to me he tries to do something he can't so he can have that 'there there' moment rather than going and having it dealt with if you see what I mean.
I had a client a bit like that and I started to get rather irritated with it,he couldn't get a stiffy because of health issues and was forever trying to persuade me to get him Viagra which I refused to do.Aside from the fact it would need at least 30 minutes to work so wouldn't be helpful on the next booking,it is not my place to sort out other peoples issues like that.He seemed to almost like spending his time struggling and moaning about his lack of erection instead of going and talking to his GP.
I didn't feel guilty and in the end I stopped feeling sorry for him.I'll do my best to help anyone but if they won't help themselves then what more can you do?He will have to settle for other stimulus in his bookings maybe a body to body massage with a happy ending?
« Last Edit: 17 June 2018, 06:34:03 pm by BibiofLeeds »