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Title: Slaves
Post by: Siorse on 12 September 2015, 03:51:03 pm
Do any of you get a lot of "slave" offers??
I get the odd one on AW via e-mail, but recently I've had a few texting and phoning as well..
I would never take a booking off one (can you call it that?!), they want to do your shopping, do housework, clean things etc etc..
And pay for the privilege!  ???
Are they actually for real? Has anyone ever booked one??
It's just beyond my comprehension lol.
Then again, I know there's a lot of fetishes out there..  ;)
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: lucylou15 on 12 September 2015, 04:01:06 pm
Yes they are great fun just find out what sort they want to be then let the fun begin  ;D
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: cheesypeas on 12 September 2015, 05:50:19 pm
These penniless random geezers read far too much SM porn lol :)

No... because they want to be in your space,
and hang around, jerking-off about about doing
this and that in your house for free. >:(
I think they're mainly fantasists...who get a
buzz out of any response.

I prefer fee paying domination clients.
No blurred lines. :)
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Curvygal on 12 September 2015, 06:26:12 pm
I get the emails yeah but mostly they end with 'oh I have no money but it would just be such an honor to serve you...'  I've never had a genuine offer from someone wanting to pay. 

I wouldn't accept to be honest anyway - well I'm mostly outcall with the odd hotel incall day so logistically it wouldn't work, but aside from that - as Cheesy said, it seems to me like they just want to be in your space with you giving them orders.  I'd rather do domination.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: MsDee on 12 September 2015, 08:36:56 pm
Yes and I refuse to waste my time with any of these fantasists.  If a man wants to be your slave he has to prove it by passing a few tests you set him.  Once you do that you find they disappear.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: PissedOffPrincess on 13 September 2015, 09:51:25 am
I got the longest ever email from someone wanting to be my slave.
It included links on how he wanted me to treat him and instructions and was something I would want paid to read it was so long.

I skimmed it and sent a reply which has not yet been answered.
He offered to fly to meet me for a 4 hour booking.

I asked why he would fly from Dublin to Belfast.

Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: MissFlint on 13 September 2015, 10:02:28 am
These penniless random geezers read far too much SM porn lol :)

No... because they want to be in your space,
and hang around, jerking-off about about doing
this and that in your house for free. >:(
I think they're mainly fantasists...who get a
buzz out of any response.

I prefer fee paying domination clients.
No blurred lines. :)
I completely agree, they never have any money and think by being your slave they can get in your way for free! As if you would actually enjoy having some irritating, wimpy guy hanging around!  I also prefer being dominated at least they realise they have to pay for our services. 
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Mirror on 13 September 2015, 10:23:56 am
Do any of you get a lot of "slave" offers??
I get the odd one on AW via e-mail, but recently I've had a few texting and phoning as well..
I would never take a booking off one (can you call it that?!), they want to do your shopping, do housework, clean things etc etc..
And pay for the privilege!  ???
Are they actually for real? Has anyone ever booked one??
It's just beyond my comprehension lol.
Then again, I know there's a lot of fetishes out there..  ;)

Yes I've always found them to be very demanding, want to exchange lots of texts, phone calls, emails, come and clean or whatever at times that suit them, and without paying.

One badgered me whilst I was very ill a few years ago. He eventually worked out that if he did come around (and why would I have someone I knew nothing about roaming around my property unsupervised?), I'd be in bed being ill. That didn't seem to appeal to him.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Erotic flower on 13 September 2015, 10:43:20 am
I'm glad to read other people's comments on  these irritating people calling themselves slaves.
Oh mistress please can I come over and serve you nonsense !
None of them ever did they were time wasters fantasists too. I tell them to look at my private gallery lol.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: lucylou15 on 13 September 2015, 10:54:02 am
They ain't all trying to get a freebie...I have ones that pay very well for my time.

Wouldn't say I got these from adultwork though.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: cheesypeas on 13 September 2015, 11:48:40 am
Lu, That's a paying domination client. I'm fine with that.
I was griping about the freeby hunters who say they're 'slaves' lol. :)
Funny... they want to do the same chores!

Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Curvygal on 13 September 2015, 02:15:50 pm
Lu, That's a paying domination client. I'm fine with that.
I was griping about the freeby hunters who say they're 'slaves' lol. :)
Funny... they want to do the same chores!

Yeah the domination clients are a different thing.  The ones who say they want to be your slave and serve you are always timewasters in my experience.  The ones that want to book and then say they want to be treated as a slave is a different thing.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: geordie on 13 September 2015, 05:56:04 pm
I had one earlier, rang me, 'can I do your shopping and housework for you?' I said no thanks, I'm capable of shopping and cleaning myself... 'Can I get you gifts then?'... I said sure, if you pay my rates...'if I pay your rates will you dominate me?'... My profile States VERY clearly that I'm submissive and can't be a switch. Bye bye
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Nia Hope on 13 September 2015, 06:15:25 pm
I agree true slaves will pay your going rate to do jobs for you, I have a guy that painted my whole incall place and does DIY stuff for me but he pays me. I get loads of the freebie hunter slaves, they must think we are stupid! They try to make you feel they're doing you a favour. It's usually on specialist sites you'll get the real ones not on aw.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Siorse on 14 September 2015, 11:23:18 am
Yeah, this one was one of those ones wanting to do my shopping, cleaning etc., and pay me for it..
It just sounds too good to be true.. And when it does, it usually is!  ;)
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: cheesypeas on 14 September 2015, 11:27:42 am
See what is game is and what his proposals are.
You don't have to go through with it or give him
your address at any stage.

He doesn't need your address to go shopping...
maybe that's a good start.
Play him...satisfy your curiosity
Let us know lol :)
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Siorse on 14 September 2015, 11:32:58 am
Hmm I might consider it lol.. I get quite a few offers, the ones that sound genuine (not the ones that send out multiple e-mails to
every WG on AW!), I'll keep their number and should I ever need a slave I might give it a try  ;)
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: cheesypeas on 14 September 2015, 11:52:27 am
Awww you got us interested now lol ;D
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: MollyG on 14 September 2015, 01:42:42 pm
If he's a true slave, take advantage of him. Don't give out any address untill he is proving to be worthy of your time hehe  ;D. A good slave will pay you, do what you please. Timewaster wannabe slaves write endless emails and won't pay to play
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Bluetits on 15 September 2015, 02:13:23 am
I think most of them don?t want to pay to do it, and even worse are the few emails I've had on AW wanting to be a face sitting slave! They think we all love RO so much and with simply anyone, that we?ll let them have our pussies in their face for free.
 
I've had a client who I've seen maybe twice a year over the last 4 years, very quiet and timid, who sent an email last week saying he?s lost his job and has no money so could he be my slave for a day and have a bj in return  >:( It would get him out of the house and surely I don?t need the money anymore anyway >:( He?d asked to pay by bank transfer the day before for a half hr booking to which I said no but that would've been dodgy if he has no money! He then says 'I know where you live so please reply to your slave; only joking.'
 
Blimey, even the nicest ones can turn into weirdos when they?re so sex starved and skint.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: MollyG on 15 September 2015, 03:12:09 am

 I've had a client who I've seen maybe twice a year over the last 4 years, very quiet and timid, who sent an email last week saying he?s lost his job and has no money so could he be my slave for a day and have a bj in return  >:( It would get him out of the house and surely I don?t need the money anymore anyway >:( He?d asked to pay by bank transfer the day before for a half hr booking to which I said no but that would've been dodgy if he has no money! He then says 'I know where you live so please reply to your slave; only joking.'
 
Blimey, even the nicest ones can turn into weirdos when they?re so sex starved and skint.

I don't know about the skint part, does he want sympathy? So weird and clearly trying to take advantage. Genuine clients wanting to be slaves are really not keen to mess with your head, they pay up. Does anyone notice the fake slaves targeting new girls a lot? By pretending to be submissive I think they are really trying to manipulate you into giving away free time. Very passive aggressive idiots. But I agree with previous posters, the genuine ones exists and will not mess around :FF
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: MsDee on 15 September 2015, 09:41:28 am
If a guy is genuine he will not only pay for your time but also spoil you that is the whole thing about slaves. 
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: cheesypeas on 15 September 2015, 09:53:06 am
He then says 'I know where you live so please reply to your slave; only joking.'
 
Blimey, even the nicest ones can turn into weirdos when they?re so sex starved and skint.

Bluey, That's a threat, no joke there....
He's not 'submissive' and not a 'slave'.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Bluetits on 15 September 2015, 10:39:04 am
That's right and when I first read it I got that sinking feeling and thought should I reply or not as obviously have to try not to rile them when they know where you live so I replied something like no, I am not up for it and it's my choice if I choose to reply to an email or not. However, he hasn't even read the email so I'm HOPING that when he wrote it, around 4.00am, he was perhaps drunk or just very horny and realised the error of his ways afterwards.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Curvygal on 15 September 2015, 12:35:53 pm
I think most of them don?t want to pay to do it, and even worse are the few emails I've had on AW wanting to be a face sitting slave! They think we all love RO so much and with simply anyone, that we?ll let them have our pussies in their face for free.
 
I've had a client who I've seen maybe twice a year over the last 4 years, very quiet and timid, who sent an email last week saying he?s lost his job and has no money so could he be my slave for a day and have a bj in return  >:( It would get him out of the house and surely I don?t need the money anymore anyway >:( He?d asked to pay by bank transfer the day before for a half hr booking to which I said no but that would've been dodgy if he has no money! He then says 'I know where you live so please reply to your slave; only joking.'
 
Blimey, even the nicest ones can turn into weirdos when they?re so sex starved and skint.

So you've to let him be your slave and give him a BJ?  Crikey.

And fuck him for the veiled threat, that's annoyed me on your behalf actually!
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: MollyG on 15 September 2015, 07:08:52 pm

And fuck him for the veiled threat, that's annoyed me on your behalf actually!

I would save the email Bluetits because he is not a nice guy, if he is capable of making a 'joke' like this.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Mirror on 16 September 2015, 07:57:37 am
I'd be making it clear that it doesn't matter whether he knows where you live, you are not afraid to go to the police if anything strange happens.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Bluetits on 16 September 2015, 11:05:30 am
Yes thx. I think if I hear from him again I will mention that as the fact that the thought entered into his head in the first place was still an intention to get me worried I think but he still hasn't read the first reply I sent him.  He's had various phone numbers but hopefully he won't phone again on another number, realising that I wouldn't want to see him again and leave it but unfortunately what we wish doesn't always happen. They can start up again months later as I've realised with other pests.

He's not a genuine slave just as I'm not Mr Universe.
Title: Re: Slaves
Post by: Curvygal on 16 September 2015, 03:14:15 pm
I'd be making it clear that it doesn't matter whether he knows where you live, you are not afraid to go to the police if anything strange happens.

Absolutely this.  I'd be making it clear he can't hold knowing where I live over me.   I'm sure nothing will happen, but yeah save the email just in case.