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Jadebear

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Weird Overnight - Worried
« on: 04 February 2021, 05:21:13 pm »
Okay, moral hats here, girls.

Last night, my duo partner and I, met a man who loved the idea of being financially dominated and humiliated. Laugh while he wanks and at his tiny willy, drink pee etc. He also seemed entirely coherent and repeatedly said what he wants us to do. We felt slightly uncomfortable about blackmail/extortion but we said we would do it consensually with proof, he agreed and then the Misstresses came out to play, so he gave us his cards to take money out and he'd wait and watch in the car. We took videos of him consenting and a signed note and what not.

This is the complicated part, we were sober as we don't drink/party and he had coke with him. We held our integrity and made sure that everything we did would not go too far. He said £50, we would say okay. Eventually, he had too much coke and had a seizure. Fortunately, I have a med background so he was fine after 2 minutes, we then asked if he wanted to go to the hospital, he said no and we drove 1 hour to drop him off at 5 am to ensure he was fine.

He is now saying he doesn't remember turning up, remember anything that we did, delete evidence, and that we took 5x the amount we did, he also has kids and nearly died and a wife. I am stressing that we're going to be done for extortion or blackmail. We genuinely try to be respectful of clients wishes in whatever they may be but this has left a bad taste as I may have unknowingly taken advantage regardless of the coherency at the beginning..

Any help please?

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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #1 on: 04 February 2021, 06:23:58 pm »
I don't suppose you know if he genuinely had a fit? Could it have been the plan to set you up?

Well at the moment you don't know what he is going to do with any of this so nothing you can do at the moment.

If he was a CUNT he could tell police he was forced to film evidence that he was the one asking for it.

He might just demand all the money back and say he will go to police if you don't.

Do nothing til you find out if he tries that.

I always find financial domination requests can be dangerous bookings i block anyone asking for this.

Sorry just seen the bit where you both had his bank card a took money out. That does not look good and will have CCTV i should imagine.

Do you have any messages before actually meeting him or emails where he is asking for this type of extortion service?
« Last Edit: 04 February 2021, 06:27:46 pm by English Green »

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« Reply #2 on: 04 February 2021, 07:14:08 pm »
I think he set you up and that blackmailing doms is his actual, undisclosed perve.

The fin dom is an excuse to create the drama and extort money from you. I don't accept fin dom clients as they often have unrevealed scenarios  and I find them quite 'dark' as punters.

I can imitate a pretty convincing siezure, it's not hard. That 2 minute fit seems really convenient. I've had first aid training and been around epileptics in seizure.

His bank statement will show how much you took, so it's a nonsense that he could base an argument that you took 5X more than you did. The CCTV on the ATM's will show the user. He's full of bull.

Keep all your evidence.  I'd not engage in ping pong communications as this may be his free wank fodder.
I'd be tempted to pre-empt him and go to the police first if you feel he's harassing you.

You've don't nothing wrong. Block and report here and UM and CE.
« Last Edit: 05 February 2021, 01:30:14 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #3 on: 04 February 2021, 07:23:28 pm »
This could be his "thing" and he gets off on it. Also if he's saying you took 5x more than what you actually DID take, surely bank statements will show that's wrong.
Perhaps he's also having 'after fun regrets', where once the deed is done they regret it and wish they didn't (I have it all the time when I eat too much dessert ;D) But that's really not your problem.

I think you should just ignore him. Sounds like he's playing games whatever it is.

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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #4 on: 04 February 2021, 07:57:46 pm »
I think he set you up and that blackmailing doms is his actual, undisclosed perve.

The fin dom is an excuse to create the drama that you're now entangled in.
I don't accept fin dom clients as there's usually unrevealed scenarios  and I find them quite 'dark' as punters.

I can imitate a pretty convincing siezure, it's not hard.
I've had first aid training and been around epileptics in seizure.

His bank statement will show how much you took, so it's a nonsense that he could base an argument that you took 5X more than you did. The CCTV on the ATM's will show the user. He's full off bull.

Keep all your evidence.
I'd not engage in ping pong communications as this may be his free wank fodder.
I'd be tempted to pre-empt him and go to the police first if you feel he's harassing you.

You've don't nothing wrong. Block and report here and UM and CE.

exactly what she said. This is a grown up man (probably had a seizure before) who should NOT be doing coke AND engaging in s/m sessions. I'm not being judgemental here but these are two activities that take a big  physical toll on the body and are incompatible with people of certain age or health issues because they're too intense for the heart. As a grown up man he should know better, yet he chose to do it and not disclose to you he had seizures. How silly is that? On the other hand (this is a bit of a warning) the combo of s/m and coke is a very dangerous one and I've heard of too many accidents. I once saw a guy who was high on coke in a fetish club tied up in bondage shibari style pass out and it took a good 5 minutes to literally cut of all the ropes. The xperience scared the living lights out of me.
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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #5 on: 04 February 2021, 08:01:23 pm »
I also think this was a set up,  never ever do blackmail/findom scenarios like this, they always end badly.  Have you checked his number on any of the blacklists as there are a few people notorious for this, and they are coming out of the woodwork more than usual due to the pandemic and people not having as much work as normal.

He wont go to the police, if he did, his wife (if he really has one) would find out, but more importantly he would be admitting to breaking the lockdown and get fined.  He also wont want to admit to being on coke.

If he contacts you again, tell him you dont want to know, and not to contact you again, and leave it at that, dont be tempted to get into any conversations as that is what people like this get off on.

Please add his number to the blacklists and here, so no one else has any trouble with him.

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« Reply #6 on: 04 February 2021, 08:11:52 pm »
I agree UK Domme. There was another fin dom guy who's beat many escorts over the years dangling the financial incentive as a fat worm to attract providers. He also used the, 'take ££ as we go along' line similar to JB's client. He's been to prison a couple times for it.  This is partly why I describe them as 'dark'...generally.

Oh on the bright side JB, good job the fee was cash. If it was a card gig you'd be up the spout.
« Last Edit: 04 February 2021, 09:04:15 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #7 on: 05 February 2021, 11:07:06 am »
Jadebear is there any possibility it's the same guy from here:
https://saafe.info/main/reporting-(persistent)-timewasters-phone-text-pests/books-confirms-and-wants-a-dirty-text-convo-while-'on-his-way'/

or the other one who springs to mind is the "trick" guy:
https://saafe.info/main/warnings-wasters/strange-client-overstayed-an-hour-and-wouldn't-pay-bristol/

Regardless, I would suggest you don't reply or engage in any further conversation with him whatsoever, and make sure your duo partner is on the same page. Wait and see if you get any police involvement - I strongly suspect you won't, and that he is looking for some kind of thrill from threatening you, he may also be looking for you to blackmail him more, for free, by saying for example "Don't threaten me or I'll tell your wife about the sex/the police about the coke". Don't fall for it! Just completely ignore any further comms from him.
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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #8 on: 05 February 2021, 01:59:53 pm »
Jadebear is there any possibility it's the same guy from here:
https://saafe.info/main/reporting-(persistent)-timewasters-phone-text-pests/books-confirms-and-wants-a-dirty-text-convo-while-'on-his-way'/

I don't think it was this man. JB's based down south in Cambridge.

Edit: Sorry looking at the newer posts on this, it does look like it a lot!
« Last Edit: 05 February 2021, 02:08:34 pm by Josie_Fleur »

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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #9 on: 06 February 2021, 01:00:56 am »
I don’t think there’s really much he could do with this if it puts your mind at ease. If he has a wife and kids like you said I doubt he’d want to involve the law in this or bring it to the courts as to do so would probably mean they’d find out and I doubt he’d want that. On top of this I doubt there’s really much he could do in terms of where the law would be involved. He gave you that money willingly and I’m sure if he were to bring it to the police he would have to prove that he didn’t have the mental capacity at the time to make a coherent decision and I’m sure that would also be difficult to prove for him too. I think he’s just trying to scare you in hopes you’ll return the money. I don’t think you have anything to worry about really. Just blacklist him and don’t see him again. He sounds like an arse

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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #10 on: 06 February 2021, 11:14:43 am »
Thank you all for the replies! Thankfully, I haven't heard from him from yesterday. I didn't want to block in case he went psycho. He did pull the I had a seizure and you took advantage multiple times and do not use the photos or ill go to the police. And, do not come over to my house and tell my wife - this was weird as I would never intentionally go to a clients house (other than we dropped him off). However, he did ask for this. He said marry me and ruin me. I want to be your slave. Take my house. He even gave me his car keys at one point and said take them, I said no, as I could be done for theft and I'm not interested but he continuously insisted. Freaking weird. And then when he's sober, his tune changed. Duo partner and I, are not interested and as you're replies have helped confirm that we will not go to jail for blackmail. I can thankfully shut the door on this weird experience!

He also had transfers going into my business account which he stopped, although it's annoying as he repeatedly said that he wanted to give us the money. And while, we were predominately paid in cash, at least we both didn't lose out but such a weird experience!


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« Reply #11 on: 06 February 2021, 01:35:53 pm »
And, do not come over to my house and tell my wife - this was weird as I would never intentionally go to a clients house (other than we dropped him off).

Oooooh, I REALLY think it's the blackmail wanker guy now. Interesting that he's moved onto in person after so many years of phone and text time wasting. If it's him.
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Re: Weird Overnight - Worried
« Reply #12 on: 06 February 2021, 03:06:44 pm »
What a toxic toxic individual... I'm so sorry you had to deal with this. Close the door of this situation (metaphorically speaking) and put a big lock. The problem here is that at some point down the line he will meet a dominatrix who loves drama as much as him and we will read about the outcome in the Daily mail. It has all the potential.
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« Reply #13 on: 06 February 2021, 04:11:13 pm »
Yeah i think anyone asking for this type of service usually turns out to be toxic and crazy. They usually turn the blackmail onto the sex worker in the end. There not right in the end.

Had 3 contact me this year all of them i just hung up on and blocked as soon as i heard the bullshit come out of there mouth. I have known 2 other women get involved with this type of service and both ended up with blackmail themselves and harassment.

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« Reply #14 on: 06 February 2021, 05:34:38 pm »
I've got Bree Runway's 'ATM' music vid spinning in my noodle now!

I did have one client gave me his PIN and chilled at mine while I got the cash for his extension. He didn't say that was his perve but I got feels that he was secretly thrilling. A couple more wanted me to top up but I told them to put their knickers on and do it themselves. The ATM fetish was 'unspoken'.

Jade, I like your idea of filming consent. Not sure how I'd use it but you never know!
« Last Edit: 06 February 2021, 05:47:04 pm by saltysweet »