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eastkate

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Slaves/ Sissies
« on: 04 February 2021, 02:03:49 pm »
Hi Ladies,

Sorry not sure if this has been asked before but how much do you adapt your rate for slaves/ sissies doing chores?

Also with threesomes with another escort what's best practise fee wise? I've been partnered with a girl who fee wise is higher than me but she hasn't got any experience, I dont mind the difference in rate just don't know what's acceptable?

Thoughts please! Thank you <3 Hope everyone is staying well I feel like I'm going mad xxx

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« Reply #1 on: 04 February 2021, 02:37:54 pm »
I don't adapt the fee.
I worked as a dom and BDSM provider and would charge sissies and chore slaves the same general BDSM rate as my other punters. You may find a lot of chore slaves who approach you are wankers so vetting is important.
The fact they are doing chores isn't relevant to my fee. They often suggest they're doing you a big favour and it should be free or reduced. I disagree. They can be needy and draining.

Sissies- if it involves me assisting preening, dressing up, wigs and makeup I charge a higher fee as more involved.

(Sissies and chore slaves as pretty much my least favourite clients and I'd rather not entertain them.)

« Last Edit: 05 February 2021, 02:38:37 am by saltysweet »

Jessiegirl

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Re: Slaves/ Sissies
« Reply #2 on: 04 February 2021, 04:37:31 pm »
I have some guys who will  happily just do chores for me for free. If they want a session they still have to pay my normal rate. They may get some extra treats.

amy

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« Reply #3 on: 04 February 2021, 05:12:26 pm »
I have some guys who will  happily just do chores for me for free. If they want a session they still have to pay my normal rate. They may get some extra treats.

It's up to you, but they should be paying you and I'd charge my normal rate too. If a punter is in my flat then that means no other punter can be, so it makes no odds to me whether he's shagging or cleaning the oven :D.

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Re: Slaves/ Sissies
« Reply #4 on: 05 February 2021, 12:11:17 am »
In 8 years of independent escorting I have never had one of these enquiries be genuine. I've had a lot of these types who want to come and do housework etc but they seem to think that I shouldn't be charging them as they're coming to clean the toilet and not for a booking. I obviously can't have another client in whilst they're getting their rocks off scrubbing the grout between my tiles so he should be paying for the time regardless.
I'm not marketing myself towards that group of clientele however which is likely the reason I haven't had any genuine enquiries from that sector. I wouldn't mind someone actually paying me my incall rate to clean my house though!
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eastkate

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Re: Slaves/ Sissies
« Reply #5 on: 05 February 2021, 01:09:57 am »
I've usually charged half rate, I've had a few of them and they were all genuine, some young some old.

Thank you for all the feedback tho really helpful xx

saltysweet

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« Reply #6 on: 05 February 2021, 02:37:58 am »
Glad it's working for you EK. :)
« Last Edit: 05 February 2021, 02:43:33 am by saltysweet »

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Re: Slaves/ Sissies
« Reply #7 on: 05 February 2021, 09:11:27 am »
I stopped doing doubles with other providers that didn't quite meet my standards. That sounds awful but I have had MANY doubles where the other provider was chosen by the client and more likely the set up wound up like this  and I got fed up with it: the SW was inexperienced to what the session required (always elements of BDSM), I would have to orchestrate the whole session, the session would normally take place at my incall and more than once the SW showed up without even bringing her own resources meaning she used my condoms, lube, toys and even my towels to go for a shower before and after.

Now, I don't mind some of that if it is a SW I know and know they aren't purposefully taking the piss. But when I don't even know the SW and she shows up doing all of that AND I know she's been paid more than me, that doesn't sit well with me.

I no longer allow doubles on those basis and if I did, for some obscure reason, I would double my rate.

For domestic slaves, I don't waste my time unless they are paying my full rate like others have said. Aside from the reason stated above of not being able to have a client in whilst they are in, they generally want for me to stand over them, fully made up and ordering them about. That is a session to me. I deserve to be paid. If not, I'd rather just roll my sleeves up and do the cleaning myself.

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« Reply #8 on: 05 February 2021, 09:59:59 am »
As many have already said, slave applications have always been at their convenience, and unpaid often involving coming across as doing me a favour.

Now I am advertising BDSM services this has not changed. If I take on a slave it has to be either in exchange of skills I need, for equal value of services or they pay me at my usual full rate.

eastkate

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Re: Slaves/ Sissies
« Reply #9 on: 06 February 2021, 02:22:52 pm »
Thank you ladies all very helpful advice xx