Is anybody else and how do you deal with them?  

I had one idiot who wanted to fuck me solid for half an hour and held off cuming til the very last second of the booking because 'I'm paying for you, you're a whore and I want to get my moneys worth out of you.'

I had one who was giving me RO and fingered my ass.  I said he could finger me then he tries shoving as many as he can in me til I could feel my skin being stretched and had to say stop.  Then he put all his weight on my inner thighs with his hands and stretched my skin as far apart as he could.

Then I had one who kept fucking me really hard then stopping, then manipulating me saying he couldn't cum and having me adjust the condom and saying 'thats better I'll cum now' bang bang bang and he didn't.  He wanted to rag me for ages til I took the condom off and said enough.

 Just want to ask how you guys deal with the ones who always push for more and are basically abusive wankers.

I had one idiot who wanted to fuck me solid for half an hour and held off cuming til the very last second of the booking because 'I'm paying for you, you're a whore and I want to get my moneys worth out of you.'

Did he really say that verbatim? He should have got his ass thrown OUT!

Abusive clients get dealt with by either complying, or getting thrown out without a refund. I dont run into many abusive clients, but the times I did were a bit unnerving. I also hate the ones who try to flip you over and fuck you non-stop and rough. I dont fucking play that shit...fuck me gentle or dont fuck me at all! (Its actually quite rare that I get fucked at all...but on the off-chance I do, I expect respect)

And if they keep doing it, I'll stop and tell them to resort to jerking off and oral. You paying me does not grant you the right to inflict pain fucking MORON!  

With the penetration, hard banging the whole time ? Jayzus. The condom would have been whipped off after 25 mins in my case, and a handjob to finish! If they complain, or say they want their moneys' worth, make it a really hard hand job!

That's interesting - so it's not just me that pretty much goes numb down there after the first 10 mins of banging away? And then just starts to get sore? I wondered if I had a latex thing and I definitely always use lots of lube, but it's always the same - numb after a bit, then eventual soreness.

Nothing makes me sigh inside more than that special grunt and wheeze a man makes when he's forcibly holding his orgasm back (for the 10th time - getting his money's worth). I need to think of a sexy way to say, "I can't feel anything down there now except mild discomfort so how about we switch to almost anything else, er, you big hunk of hot man meat?" Or is this just the crux of the reason why we're getting paid so shouldn't be complained about?

If I were in a parlour, I'd feel happy to prod the guy hard in the face and say HEY! STOP IT YOU BASTARD! It's not like they're recognizing you as a human being so they wouldn't take it personally.

In fact, all these men mentioned above appear to have a bad case of Raging Misogyny and need to be taken to a secure mental institution, ASAP. I'm sickened and this thread is reminding me of the clients I've had who've just taken and taken and tried and pushed to get the maximum 'thrills' possible from a booking, the leg-splitting thing for example, where they hold you wide open til it actually hurts. I never see a client like that more than once but being treated like that makes me feel unpleasant inside; I always react with surprise and anger but they always pretend like they had no idea they were hurting you and then I get scared they'll do worse so spend the rest of the booking trying to appease them. Hard to motivate yourself to work when you're just not sure who's going to turn up and give you the worst surprise of your life next! Argh, and I haven't even had breakfast yet. Here's hoping for better clients for everyone soon!

Hi Joanna
I'm sorry to hear about the knobhead clients you've had in recently. I can totally empathise as I'm an agency girls who has had more than my fair share of lowlifes in the last few weeks. I know how much it can drag you down and make you feel like your nothing more than a selection of usable holes

My own personal advice for the situations you found yourself in would be thus.

For starters the guy who called you a whore would have been out the door faster than his feet could touch the ground. Yes i know when its a parlour who are answerable to other people and it makes you reluctant to do so but you need to protect yourself from that's sort of abuse! You are not 'a fucking whore' and if your parlour is int willing to support you in a decision to chuck an arsehole like that out then they don't deserve to have you working for them.

Fingers up the bum is a no no for me basically for the reason of what you found happened to you. Guys in my experience do not know in most cases how to be gentle and they will just  keep trying to shove as many digits in there as they can. I would advise that you just don't let clients put their fingers back there at all. It always amazes me how many guys will try and do it without even asking Then when you tell them to stop they are all apologetic and shocked as if to say 'What you mean my unlubricated finger up your ass is int turning you on?'

Guys who bang away for ages trying to hold back cumming are just the most horrible clients. I bloody hate them! Basically i will let them bang away for 15-20 Min's tops. When its clear that is int going to work i say very sexily 'I want to suck your cock again' or something to that effect. Then i will go back down on them with lots of porn star moaning and sighing and eventually turn the bj into a handjob that makes them come. Even of worse comes to worse and they ask for sex again at least you've given yourself a break from the constant shagging!

Don't be afraid to be harsh with clients who are pissing you off. Sometimes you breaking out of the sweetness and light routine terrifies them so much they start behaving themselves. Plus you will feel a lot better for letting them see your displeasure. Don't let them get away with shitty behaviour,men like that need to be put firmly back in their place.

Anyway big big hugs and i hope some decent clients come along for you very soon.

I always find that when I am with a pounder if I say oh god You turn me on so much I need you to come all over my tits, they stop what they are doing, whip the condom off push me back on the bed and wank themselves off over me Result!!!

As for fingers up my arse, they got told not to do it once. The 2nd time I am off the bed putting my clothes on and telling them to leave. Same if they call me a whore.
I guess being an Indie it is easier for me as I state on my website disrespect in any form will NOT be tolerated.

Having never worked in a parlour or for an agency (Over 30 and fat when I started out) I cannot say whether being Indie is better but from what I have learnt over the past year it does seem you get far more freedom of choice.

At the end of the day sweetie, IT IS YOUR BODY and you have the right to stop anyone disrespecting it.

Quote from: Danielle_xx on 15 July 2010, 10:44:38 am

I always find that when I am with a pounder if I say oh god You turn me on so much I need you to come all over my tits, they stop what they are doing, whip the condom off push me back on the bed and wank themselves off over me Result!!!

I am practicing making that announcement with the correct levels of sincerity right now! I do think it's partly my own fault, if I try to think of something like that to say I instantly think, No, why the hell would be believe that?! But actually if I just make myself sound truly convinced I'm sure it'll work.

Emily trust me the level of suspension of disbelief men reach when they are seeing escorts can enable you to get away with almost anything.
Some of the things i come out with i expect the client to go 'oh come on now that's just ridiculous' but they never do
I find the more porny etc you make it the quicker they get turned on,quicker they finish and the quicker you get to shower and get on with your life.
You can make yourself 'filthy' just by your words and general behaviour. I'm actually really vanilla in the services i offer yet get reviews saying how 'dirty' i am. Which is a bit of a let down for subsequent clients who come looking for a levels,cim etc and find none of it is on the menu
A girl at my agency will get the guys to wank off on her tits and actually tell then she can 'feel it coming' A single client has never to this day stopped mid stroke and said 'hang on,that's actually a physical impossibility' They will believe anything you tell them when they are 'in the moment'

I can't find it now, but there was a extremely funny article a few years ago by someone in the US about how she got clients to come quickly when necessary. The only part I can remember involved using the word 'daddy'. Ewww, but it did apparently work.

I'm just so sick of some of them abusing you, I work in a parlour and just want to ask how you guys deal with the ones who always push for more and are basically abusive wankers.

If your parlour will not support you throwing people abusers like this out without any penalty to you, it's time to look for one that will.

I had one who wanted to try a whole bunch of extra things just to "get his money's worth". We'd had a conversation earlier so we had a bit of rapport. When he said that to me, I just looked at him like he was insane and laughed and repeated "You want to get your money's worth?" (As in, what do you think this is?)

He looked rather sheepish.