Most of my clients are Trans-virgins. This means I need to lead everything
or they would just sit on my sofa like a scarred rabbit caught in a cars headlights!
I always Ice-break. Talk about the journey, their industry and hows business, anything of normal chat.
Then I ask them a bit of the sorts of things they are looking for? {usual answer subtext: No idea at all}
I then tell them about my favourite thing, the thing I love the most. Money!
After that I go with the flow but usually me leading. Putting their hand on me, encouraging exploration. A revealed breast or two helps no end to moving things along! Sometimes I caress their increasing bulge and ask if they brought that for me and how did they know as it's my favourite! Then, things almost always flow, with me directing.
There is no set template as everyone is different and it's far easier for me to just go with what feels right, rather than some formulaic Set piece. They get an individualised service and we both enjoy our time together.
I do feel that as the Professional person in the engagement, I am there to act as a guide, where needed. A bit like a a motorcycle tour guide. We ride together and the client is to varying degrees competent and don't need me to look after every tiny thing involved in the journey. But I keep things on track, offer general direction and point out the really big attractions, that they may have missed without my guidance.
Part of this involves the post orgasm climb-down. Maybe a shower or a cuppa. Really just to bring them back into normality before they leave. The right head-space. Hopefully so they are chilled and, fingers crossed, want to come back to see me again.