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Lisa.Leeza

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Should I return to SW?
« on: 17 December 2016, 02:34:11 am »
I am thinking of returning to escorting. I retired 10 years ago. I am a bit older 50. I am recently separated and thinking of ways to get myself self supporting. I look better now than I have in a while. Got in shape and lost weight. Any mature escorts have any advice?

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Re: Should I return to SW?
« Reply #1 on: 17 December 2016, 08:45:58 am »
Hi

I am in the same age bracket and was new to escorting 3 years ago but I have been surprised at how many bookings I get even though I do not see men under 35 I still have at least one booking every day I work so I would say go for it

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« Reply #2 on: 17 December 2016, 09:16:13 am »
Go for it and good luck x

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« Reply #3 on: 17 December 2016, 09:19:46 am »
There is work for ladies of all shapes sizes and ages. I'm 'mature' for want of a better word some ladies start marketing themselves like that in their late 20s!

I don't think there's any specific advice just market yourself the way you want to and take the plunge.

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Re: Should I return to SW?
« Reply #4 on: 17 December 2016, 12:25:44 pm »
In my experience, the men I have met prefer older escorts but they like them to be in good shape so sounds like you are going to have a good response x

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« Reply #5 on: 17 December 2016, 12:33:31 pm »
In my experience, the men I have met prefer older escorts but they like them to be in good shape so sounds like you are going to have a good response x
I was on AW and a friend of mine just at 47 only got into SW 1 year ago & she didn't do so well in the sauna but she's doing amazing on AW & gets alot of overnights & alot of guys prefer the more mature lady, as said already there is work for ALL women, I say go for it xx

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« Reply #6 on: 17 December 2016, 03:44:06 pm »
My friend is 55 and is still very very busy. She could easily pass for late thirties - early forties and she look fabulous op
We were both in London 2 weeks ago for a photo shoot as we were sharing the shoot and she cleared over a grand working till 7pm and she charges ?80 / ?130 in one day
age is irrelevant i think personally it's down to how you feel &  look


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« Reply #7 on: 17 December 2016, 03:51:45 pm »
My friend is 55 and is still very very busy. She could easily pass for late thirties - early forties and she look fabulous op
We were both in London 2 weeks ago for a photo shoot as we were sharing the shoot and she cleared over a grand working till 7pm and she charges ?80 / ?130 in one day
age is irrelevant i think personally it's down to how you feel &  look
Yes because not all guy's want a young 'un, alot of older lonely gentleman have said that they can't get the same kind of conversation with a 25 year old SW that they could get from a 45+ year old, you'll probably also get alot of young guy's wanting a MILF type.
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Re: Should I return to SW?
« Reply #8 on: 17 December 2016, 06:10:47 pm »
as  women there is nothing we cant do we can move the moon and the stars if we want its confidence all the way u go girl an work it! best wishes xx

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Re: Should I return to SW?
« Reply #9 on: 17 December 2016, 08:09:23 pm »
Yes because not all guy's want a young 'un, alot of older lonely gentleman have said that they can't get the same kind of conversation with a 25 year old SW that they could get from a 45+ year old, you'll probably also get alot of young guy's wanting a MILF type.


I agree ,  my friend markets herself as a milf she has gorgeous photos both professional and selfies  and a well written profile ans she  is generally always pretty busy wherever she goes including places that a lot of people say are dead , would never go back , she absolutly cleans up. she gets the odd crap day but generally she is on the ball
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Re: Should I return to SW?
« Reply #10 on: 17 December 2016, 10:30:38 pm »
Go for it. I was around 53 when I started whoring and worked till I was in my 60's.

There is work for everyone and many guys prefer the more mature lady. I know I was never short of work.
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Re: Should I return to SW?
« Reply #11 on: 18 December 2016, 02:45:40 am »

I agree ,  my friend markets herself as a milf she has gorgeous photos both professional and selfies  and a well written profile ans she  is generally always pretty busy wherever she goes including places that a lot of people say are dead , would never go back , she absolutly cleans up. she gets the odd crap day but generally she is on the ball
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My friend mentions nothing about Sex in her AW profile, she has obviously ticked sexual services on likes list, and everything about 'a sensual time with a nice chatty woman' and she hardly gets timewasters whereas my profile had alot of sex mentions & I had a fair few timewasters; it just goes to show much marketing yourself really works. After seeing her success for dinner dates & overnight's I was tempted to put my real age (35) on my profile rather than the 31 I used; in saunas I desperately wanted to be younger & on AW its the complete opposite!!
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Re: Should I return to SW?
« Reply #12 on: 18 December 2016, 04:03:47 am »
Go for it. I was around 53 when I started whoring and worked till I was in my 60's.

There is work for everyone and many guys prefer the more mature lady. I know I was never short of work.

Hear hear. I know quite a few young 'uns who either like the mature lady OR the EVEN MORE mature lady. As in they are actively seeking age 60 or 70+ ladies.

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« Reply #13 on: 18 December 2016, 06:27:58 am »
My friend mentions nothing about Sex in her AW profile, she has obviously ticked sexual services on likes list, and everything about 'a sensual time with a nice chatty woman' and she hardly gets timewasters whereas my profile had alot of sex mentions & I had a fair few timewasters; it just goes to show much marketing yourself really works. After seeing her success for dinner dates & overnight's I was tempted to put my real age (35) on my profile rather than the 31 I used; in saunas I desperately wanted to be younger & on AW its the complete opposite!!

Actually thinking about my friend doesn't either . She also gets a lot of overnights. And dinner dates
Her profile mentions nothing overly  obvious  about sex , more stuff like stimulating , sensual erotic fun filled time. 
She uses  words like  chatty friendly relaxed  interesting, imagine indulge yourself,  escape  , she has no topless photos either hers are either very glamourous looking lingerie,  fur coats and stockings & high heels or natrual by the swimming pool on holiday in a bikini
I think it helps that she talks like Eliza Dolittle so totally at odds with her profile but it really works for her .as she comes across warm and funny on the phone 

I don't think I  mention the word sex ( I think ) will need to check 😄  but although it's obvious that I do offer sex  I don't say stuff that's  majorly OTT stuff 
I had new photos of me in some latex dresses and boots and I only put them up last week and I have been in and out of that dress & boots like a yo yo 3 times yesterday by 2pm lol
but like my friend I rarely get a time waster or no show
My last proper no show was in September although im in heathrow this week so bound to get some 😄
So preparing myself for them .
 
Another lady said to me the other day she removed the word naughty from her profile and it instantly cut down on a type of client she didn't want to see .

 interesting how a few words can change the clients  perception of you and the type of client you get

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« Reply #14 on: 18 December 2016, 06:49:32 am »
Actually thinking about my friend doesn't either . She also gets a lot of overnights. And dinner dates
Her profile mentions nothing overly  obvious  about sex , more stuff like stimulating , sensual erotic fun filled time. 
She uses  words like  chatty friendly relaxed  interesting, imagine indulge yourself,  escape  , she has no topless photos either hers are either very glamourous looking lingerie,  fur coats and stockings & high heels or natrual by the swimming pool on holiday in a bikini
I think it helps that she talks like Eliza Dolittle so totally at odds with her profile but it really works for her .as she comes across warm and funny on the phone 

I don't think I  mention the word sex ( I think ) will need to check 😄  but although it's obvious that I do offer sex  I don't say stuff that's  majorly OTT stuff 
I had new photos of me in some latex dresses and boots and I only put them up last week and I have been in and out of that dress & boots like a yo yo 3 times yesterday by 2pm lol
but like my friend I rarely get a time waster or no show
My last proper no show was in September although im in heathrow this week so bound to get some 😄
So preparing myself for them .
 
Another lady said to me the other day she removed the word naughty from her profile and it instantly cut down on a type of client she didn't want to see .

 interesting how a few words can change the clients  perception of you and the type of client you get
Sounds much like my pal's profile although admittedly I don't like overnights because I can't handle giving a client my undivided attention for that long, the money of course is great but there are more disadvantage's in overnights in my personal opinion; You never get a proper sleep as they end up touching you up and this is even if sleep was arranged pre-booking!!

When I get back on AW (had a break so feel better) I'm going to amend my profile because I actually prefer more 'therapy/counselling' type bookings to sex, sex, sex although just don't want to be a Therapist ALL night!! 1 hour is quite enough thanks x
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