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amy

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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #15 on: 22 April 2012, 10:42:02 pm »
The abusive texts and pestering calls will be on the work phone, so the police will need to see that one, not the OP's personal phone - records can the checked with the man involved's phone company even if it's a cheapo PAYG. It's also an offence in itself to give false information to the police.
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #16 on: 22 April 2012, 10:48:51 pm »
If i go to the police  i will definitely be telling the truth, just not good at lies at all 
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #17 on: 22 April 2012, 10:51:56 pm »
I really hate liars with a passion! Normaly I would say be honest. But on somthing like this I would want to protect my name that's all.
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #18 on: 22 April 2012, 10:55:01 pm »
Teenkylie i totally understand x
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #19 on: 22 April 2012, 11:16:15 pm »
It's you're decision. I really feel for you because I know I would be going out of my mind with worry. I really hope it works out x
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #20 on: 22 April 2012, 11:26:18 pm »
If you do contact him to warn him off, try your best not to sound upset or angry, if he knows he has had an effect on you he may well carry on! Telling him to 'fuck off' is likely to do much more harm than good.

I would send him a matter of fact text informing him that you will not be seeing him again and if he continues to contact you, turn up at your place or cause you any problems you will not hesitate in passing the matter on to the police.
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #21 on: 22 April 2012, 11:42:43 pm »
If you do call the police honesty is the best policy they will only find out anyway and then wonder why you didn't tell them.  Tell it straight as it is and they will help you, twist the truth and things get complicated. 
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #22 on: 22 April 2012, 11:51:02 pm »
Quote from: BBW_Cora on 22 April 2012, 11:26:18 pm
If you do contact him to warn him off, try your best not to sound upset or angry, if he knows he has had an effect on you he may well carry on! Telling him to 'fuck off' is likely to do much more harm than good.

I would send him a matter of fact text informing him that you will not be seeing him again and if he continues to contact you, turn up at your place or cause you any problems you will not hesitate in passing the matter on to the police.

Definitely think this is the best course of action.

I went to police with abusive texts I was receiving from another escort and they actually told me I had enough to take her to court if I chose to go down that path.

I just let her know the police had been informed and apart from stupid minor things like bitching on blogs then I get no bother.  Police do not stand in judgement so long as there are no children involved.
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #23 on: 23 April 2012, 12:05:07 am »
Sent the text clear simple and to the point , he rang after reciving the text and i just restated  what i had said in my text , said he was sorry , couldnt remember coming twice as if once would be ok, said can he come tonight, he will treat me nice, wheres my boyfriend, i repeated  again a few times why i couldn't see him then said good night and hung up, he rang back i ignored it.
Want to go to bed now but worried he will knock the door, if he does i will definitely report to the police, never had to do this before do i have to go to the local police or can i ring someone ? heart is pumping ten to the dozen and i feel really upset now.
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #24 on: 23 April 2012, 12:08:41 am »
You should be able to find the number of your local force online - have a Google. If he actually turns up again after all that's gone on, don't be afraid to call 999 though - being forcibly removed by a couple of burly officers will do him the world of good. Try and get a picture of him on your mobile if this happens, just in case he scarpers (even from an upstairs window will do).
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #25 on: 23 April 2012, 12:20:41 am »
Quote from: Hot Pepper on 23 April 2012, 12:05:07 am
Sent the text clear simple and to the point , he rang after reciving the text and i just restated  what i had said in my text , said he was sorry , couldnt remember coming twice as if once would be ok, said can he come tonight, he will treat me nice, wheres my boyfriend, i repeated  again a few times why i couldn't see him then said good night and hung up, he rang back i ignored it.
Want to go to bed now but worried he will knock the door, if he does i will definitely report to the police, never had to do this before do i have to go to the local police or can i ring someone ? heart is pumping ten to the dozen and i feel really upset now.
Did he actually think you would still see him let alone tonight especially when it's gone midnight! What is wrong with these people? Makes me so mad!
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #26 on: 23 April 2012, 06:39:53 am »
Am sure when reporting a crime you can give whatever name you like. X
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #27 on: 23 April 2012, 06:52:54 am »
I have PM'd you, I do hope you are ok.
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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #28 on: 23 April 2012, 07:15:11 am »
Thanks everyone for your advice and support . I had very little sleep and feel angry. He did not turn up, he is on my reject list now and i will definitely be calling the police if he turns up

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Re: should i be worried
« Reply #29 on: 23 April 2012, 07:41:44 am »
Quote from: ladyofthemansion on 23 April 2012, 06:39:53 am
Am sure when reporting a crime you can give whatever name you like. X

Of course you can. You'll just completely scupper your case and possibly be prosecuted yourself when they find out.
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