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EvelynWho

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Shorter time on arrival
« on: 14 January 2022, 01:39:36 pm »
Hey folks, what do you do when they arrive and ask for a shorter booking than arranged for?
Eg they book an hour, turn up and say oh is half hour okay, etc.

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #1 on: 14 January 2022, 01:48:10 pm »
If they want to leave early that's up to them, but they booked an hour and that's what they'll be paying for since that's the time I set aside for them. If they don't want to pay then they can leave immediately, and they'll be blocked - ditto if they cut it short because they were late.

It's the same principle as anything else - if I booked an hour long piano lesson, or a yoga class, or a cinema ticket and then had to leave halfway through for whatever reason I'd still have to pay for them, and rightly so because the universe doesn't revolve around me :).

saltysweet

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #2 on: 14 January 2022, 02:22:17 pm »
Same here. If he didn't ask my permission to swop and change beforehand.
I expect the full fee or he can leave. I don't argue, I just give him that choice and will open the door for him.
« Last Edit: 14 January 2022, 02:26:46 pm by saltysweet »

Maz

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #3 on: 14 January 2022, 03:07:49 pm »
Maybe I should be more strict about this, although I feel I'd rather take some of their money than be left with nothing.

If they're late though, they can still pay in full or get lost.

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #4 on: 14 January 2022, 03:11:15 pm »
Long stare.

“But that’s not what we agreed on. When were you planning on telling ME that?”

Client: “I couldn’t get the $$ out of the ATM/don’t have the time/have to get to work/whatever.”

“But that’s not what we agreed on. We agreed on X time.” (Important: monotone.)

Then I perk up & say, “There’s an ATM in the LOBBY! Let’s go there & try THAT!” Of course they don’t want to. I’ll suggest Cashapp, Apple🍎Pay, Venmo, Zelle….you get the idea. Basically, I’m being as difficult as I can be, because they decided to dick me over.😡

So if they want to do a hhr instead of an hour, fine, but you’re only getting a blow & go & im not getting undressed.

Yeah. Sucks for you, doesn’t it? Well, I was expecting a lot more $$. You were expecting a lot more sex. Looks like neither of us is getting what we wanted today. *Crosses arms.*
An American on a British site, still learning the slang😉

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #5 on: 14 January 2022, 03:16:04 pm »
I've set time aside and likely turned others away.

Occasionally I've refunded to the minimum or rounded down all but I think one then proceeded to be awful on their next contact. One even came back to rob me.  ::) :o

saltysweet

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #6 on: 14 January 2022, 03:29:54 pm »
I agree with Mirror. I feel discourteous requests like this is a red flag for more edgy, negative behaviour in the session.
It's a ploy to test how pliable I am at the start. I've agreed in the past and experience taught me that they push for more services than the 30 minutes includes.


Also some come with the intention to eye you up then request a shorter session this if you don't greet them how they imagine, or dress at the door like they fantasise etc and I'd rather have a cup of tea and biscuit rather than have a grumble-ass evaluating my every move negatively. Good vibes only welcome.
« Last Edit: 14 January 2022, 03:38:57 pm by saltysweet »

English Green

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #7 on: 14 January 2022, 03:38:48 pm »
I have had this a couple of times and i hate it. I try and insist they pay the full rate as it's unfair but one i remember said he only had the half hour as was going to walk without compensating me and i already lost 2 bookings because of the scumbag so i did it but he got a real basic service with no enthusiasm. It's very disrespectful.

Even worse when they are late and they think they can change it so they get the full time. I had a argument with one as he was 20 mins late for a hour booking and said he wants to change to half hour as he has lost 20 mins we got into argument as he said no way am i paying for a hour if i get 35 mins etc he had a attitude so i told him to get out. Obviously the prick don't understand it's a business and normal businesses you get less time if late thing is if i had nobody straight after i don't mind making up a extra 10 or 15 mins if there nice and told me there running late but ones like this are just rude.
« Last Edit: 14 January 2022, 03:44:50 pm by English Green »

saltysweet

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #8 on: 14 January 2022, 03:40:08 pm »
I have had this a couple of times and i hate it. I try and insist they pay the full rate as it's unfair but one i remember said he only had the half hour as was going to walk without compensating me and i already lost 2 bookings because of the scumbag so i did it but he got a real basic service with no enthusiasm. It's very disrespectful.

Yes....like others have said in the past, you could go... off-menu and 'Give them your best shit service'  ;D
« Last Edit: 14 January 2022, 03:49:45 pm by saltysweet »

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #9 on: 14 January 2022, 04:13:00 pm »
Yeah. Sucks for you, doesn’t it? Well, I was expecting a lot more $$. You were expecting a lot more sex. Looks like neither of us is getting what we wanted today. *Crosses arms.*

Hahah love that response actually. Stealing that one 😂 Thankyou for the replies!

Need to be more confident in my approach for sure! It’s just always nice to know others would have the same or similar responses to such a situation,
Xx

saltysweet

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #10 on: 14 January 2022, 05:52:02 pm »
 ;D onward brave soldier!

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #11 on: 14 January 2022, 08:17:57 pm »
I'm so bad at this. I always think well some money is better than none, plus I worry that they will get annoyed and cause trouble with hotel reception.

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #12 on: 14 January 2022, 08:51:22 pm »
"I'll get there in another minute" another 10 more like  ::)

Kay

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #13 on: 15 January 2022, 03:35:02 pm »
In general, I don't think this would bother me too much if it seemed like there was a genuine reason, but if I didn't like the look of them it would be a good excuse to get rid of them.
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KBP

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Re: Shorter time on arrival
« Reply #14 on: 15 January 2022, 04:28:58 pm »
It depends on my mood tbh.
If I'm happy enough to do the half hour I will but it's only happened a couple of times in 8 years.
On one of those occasions I told the client he could stay for the hour or leave but he had pissed me off beforehand.
I did have one client who paid for an hour, came in 15 mins and then wanted money back.
I was fuming. I told him I'd give him 50 back but he'd better get his arse out my door ASAP.
So, I suppose it depends on my mood but generally speaking I would rather remain in a zen-like state these days so would take the path of lease resistance and make the money up.  8)