Hello girls!

I'm happy to join this forum where we can help and support each other!

I came in London last week and because I couldn't find any flat or studio, I was in the situation of booking a room (for the moment) in a hotel on Romford Road (Forest Gate) to be able to do incall meetings but I'm not happy at all about this hotel. It's not about the fact that is a hotel, this doesn't bother me as long as they know what I'm doing there because I do meetings only during the day but I really need your help - Can you please recommend me in private masage which area from London is better, what hotels do you know that are clean and serious and from where/who can I rent a nice flat?

Thank you in advance!
Xoxo, Amelia

Hello again girls! I'm going to start by saying Thank you @thickthighs for replying back!

For me, the word "serious" (when it's about a hotel and the manager knows the fact that I'm doing some meetings there) has several connotations.
First of all I'd like to mention the fact that my schedule of doing incall and/or outcall meetings is between 1pm until maximum 1am (depending if I know the person who wants to come at my place or wants me to come at his place at that late hour) - which means that I'll have around 3 or maximum 4 meetings per day wherever I'd be (hotel/flat/etc). This is the way that I chose to do this work because I also have a normal part time job (day and sometimes night shifts) and that's why I prefer to do it only with nice and polite and (most important!) discreet men.
This means that the staff of the hotel where I'd like to stay in (accepting what I'm doing in my free time) should be also discreet and obviously not come to knock on my door room whenever they want to - this is one of the things that I hate at this hotel where I'm staying now. I heard and then I noticed the fact that this hotel is kind of famous for accepting this kind of "traffic" and I have the impression that the staff looks at me in the same manner as they look at all the girls that do this here, which kind of bothers me - not because I judge the way that other girls manage their job but because I do this diffrent and I tried to explain this to them from the first beginning and feels like they didn't even bothered listening to me... They have a superior attitude and they treat me as a "slut", not like an escort who just wants to have her own private space without wanting to bother anyone and as well without wanting to be bothered by anyone for silly reasons!
Other thing that is not ok for me here is the fact that they asked me to change the room after 3 days invoking the reason that the other room is more private and so on. This turned out to be a big lie because the hotel is still very noisy at nights (due to the fact that the other girls in here work during the night) and I still can't sleep well plus that is a heavy smell of weed all over the halls. Tomorrow I'll have a week of staying here and Thursday morning I have to check out.
The third thing is that took me a few good hours to clean the real mess from the first room and again a few good hours to do the same thing at the second room where they moved me after 3 days. And when I say "real mess" trust me that I was about to throw up when I saw the bathroom (which in my opinion is the most important) - the toilet, the sink, the shower, the bathroom floor... disgusting! Didn't mention the hairy and dusty carpet on the floor, old spider webs hanging from the ceiling, the furniture was dusty on the interior and sticky all around... ough - this is not right for a hotel standards first of all - not to mention that the price was a little bit high in my opinion (comparing to other hotels)... but I said in my mind that I'll pay the price because they accept that I also work there - big mistake! I don't need them to come everyday to clean my room because they clearly don't do it proper and anyway I prefer to do it myself, as I know is better and as I'm sure is done how it should be! So I asked them to give me a vacum cleaner, I buyed a lot of cleaning products and I made the room clean and at least decent but all this situation made me feel sick and really dissapointed me!

The thing is that I'm new in England. I'm in London since last week and I don't know which are the good areas here and I'd love to have the opportunity of renting a private flat per week (where obvious the landlorder should know what I use his flat/studio for because I don't want problems or missunderstandings - but a serious one ⬆️ - no awkward calls or visits from him and so on) or a nice and serious ⬆️ hotel. That's why I thought that no one could give me a better advice than you and I'm sorry if you think that I've crossed the line by beginning my journey on this forum with this kind of post!

Thank you in advance and I'd be very grateful to find some advice/support from you, girls, on my issue! 

Amelia

Hello again girls! I'm going to start by saying Thank you @thickthighs for replying back! [...]

You are living in a dream world! Sounds like you are at [removed] and should have done your research.



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I think I would agree with thickthighs, what you're wanting sounds unrealistic to me

That's as maybe, but it's neither supportive, constructive nor helpful to tell her she's 'in a dream world' without offering any actual advice (and nor is posting hotel names on the public board).

Again, if for whatever reason the OP wants to work somewhere they know what she's doing I'd recommend having a look for a flatshare/room let either here or possibly on AW. She can always check the AW ads out with people on the forum too

Not sure what could entail post creators to be in a fantasy world.

I would give this advice for Amelia. If you experience problems as such, I would suggest booking apartment for 2 nights each and changing hotels, locations every week. To rent apartment could be good but also it will require you to pay upfront 6 months if you do not have a proof of income. So I would suggest work in hotels for next 4months, save money and then find a good area which can work for you.
Regarding hotels, the bigger, the better hotel, the more discreet they are. Don't book 2* hotels as you could face the same problems. That's god that you have other work, and your work hours are from 1pm because most hotels have check in from 2-3pm. I would strongly suggest not to try to work after 11pm if you face problems with reception.

Most of areas are good in London, look around 2-3 zone of London and try to work there, changing locations, after couple of months you will see which areas work better for you, which is worse. Try to look in locations near underground stations or overground, but you can avoid train stations as they can be a bit more dead. But currently have in mind that most people do not work from city of London, they work from home, so zone 2-3 can be very good too. Forest gate might not be bad location, but try others in east like Canning town, poplar. South such as New cross or Greenwich, Sotckwell, Balham, Brixton. SW/West such as Wimbledon, Clapham junction, white city, Bayswater. Or north like Finsbury park, stoke newington, Archway. Try these areas the next few months, see which works the best for you. Save up for deposit, then think about how safe you will feel having your own apartment. When looking to apartment look into block of flats, they are more discreet.

the point I was making was this whole “serious” hotel thing. I’ve yet to find a reputable hotel that’s happy for SW to be working out of there hotels, I know I don’t need to explain this further as we all know this. That’s what was unrealistic

For me I think it's way different experience. Of course we can't be open about whoring in hotels, but I found 3*-4* good London central hotels are very discreet and more seedy it is, smaller, more the receptionist are in your face