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mslilgirl87

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sexually transmitted diseases
« on: 13 August 2014, 11:06:27 am »
Hello all. I am new here, been escorting for just over a year now to help fund my education. so glad I found somewhere like this I can talk to other escorts because sady this kind of 'job' its hard to talk to others about what you go through.....anyway....my topic....

sadly its Sexually Transmitted Diseases! I myself I try so hard to look after myself as my health is paramount. no amount of money is worth putting your health and even life at risk. I insist on sex with protection and test myself regularly but at the moment I do offer sex without protection for oral. which overall I know it makes the risks higher but sadly I am worried it will affect my earnings. I sadly have caught an std which of course i am getting treatment for ASAP and accepting no work until i am in the clear.

I can honestly say I feel horrible and so disgusting but I am trying to learn from this and move on in a positive way, naturally now I am thinking for sure oral is with protection now but I would be so grateful for any advice or experences from other escorts please.

Thank you
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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #1 on: 13 August 2014, 12:20:45 pm »
Lots of girls including myself don't do oral without,  yes you might lose some client's but you will gain new ones who wouldn't have seen you before.

Remember you don't have to do anything you don't want to.
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mslilgirl87

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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #2 on: 13 August 2014, 12:24:01 pm »
yeah, Ive just answered a couple of calls today inquiring my services and have kinda tested the waters by saying 'oral with protection' and they didnt seem bothered. yes this bad mistake has made me realise need to change a couple of things.

thank you for your reply :)
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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #3 on: 13 August 2014, 12:34:14 pm »
I do owo and ow. To be honest it is a rare thing when asked for oral without. I always begin oral with unless they say different. Now am preferring it more oral with.
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mslilgirl87

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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #4 on: 13 August 2014, 02:39:56 pm »
yeah, ive had a few ask for without. But im just going to insist on protection for sex and oral and see how I get on.

Thanks for your reply :)
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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #5 on: 13 August 2014, 03:48:48 pm »
If you do a search here for 'OWO' you will discover that this is one of the endless debates, but it comes down to how you feel about the risk vs the costs.

As far as business is concerned, as well as those who don't want any form of oral, there are men who want OWO, men who want OW, and more men who don't care either way so long as their penis is in your mouth.

Quote from: mslilgirl87 on 13 August 2014, 11:06:27 am
I can honestly say I feel horrible and so disgusting

Stop doing that - you've been unlucky, not wicked.
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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #6 on: 13 August 2014, 03:55:51 pm »
Thank you. yeah its very true. its just a mistake ive learned while doing this kind of work. Theres no set rules, you have to learn for yourself. Ive made loads of mistakes and had bad experiences but ive learnt why it went wrong and improved this is just another one of those things. Thank you for the reply :)
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« Reply #7 on: 13 August 2014, 05:18:31 pm »
It wasn't even necessarily a mistake!

There is a risk attached to oral without, but the stuff you can catch tends to be easily curable - it was one of the bacterial ones, like chlamydia or gonorrhoea, wasn't it? If you like giving OWO and dislike giving OW, that can be a risk worth taking, for example, and there are lots of other reasons for people's choices. Sometimes it's fine, sometimes you catch something, but that doesn't make taking it a mistake.

You also have been testing, and that wasn't a mistake either.
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mslilgirl87

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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #8 on: 14 August 2014, 12:41:19 pm »
gonorrhoea :( well after the day ive had getting it sorted for sure will never let it happen again!!! sadly will lose at least a week of work due to this. But will stay positive and use the time to get down to the gym to try and get in better shape! lol
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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #9 on: 18 August 2014, 09:06:06 pm »
I do offer OWO, one of the main pro's is they come so much quicker!!!  ;) It does say on my profile 'to my discretion', so if a client
is particularly unfresh or just gives me the bulk for some reason I tell them I've got a wee cut on my lip pr in my mouth and I have
to use a condom. They're usually ok with that.
I do think I get a lot more clients because they're specifically wanting OWO, and so far I've been lucky enough not to catch anything..
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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #10 on: 18 August 2014, 10:22:25 pm »
Quote from: mslilgirl87 on 14 August 2014, 12:41:19 pm
gonorrhoea :( well after the day ive had getting it sorted for sure will never let it happen again!!! sadly will lose at least a week of work due to this. But will stay positive and use the time to get down to the gym to try and get in better shape! lol

be happy it was only that. once I read Amy's post she had a client who peed into her mouth... that is way worse.
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Re: sexually transmitted diseases
« Reply #11 on: 18 August 2014, 10:32:37 pm »
Quote from: bbwInLondon on 18 August 2014, 10:22:25 pm
be happy it was only that. once I read Amy's post she had a client who peed into her mouth... that is way worse.

It's really not, you know :). Nobody ever caught anything from pee, even though it doesn't taste great.
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