Author Topic: Sex work and the menopause (Read 20624 times)

Ellie B · « **Reply #105 on:** 31 January 2018, 11:59:52 pm »

Quote from: SimplySinful on 30 January 2018, 06:56:07 pm

So folks I haven?t had a proper period since that awful one in Nov; I?ve had every month faint spotting and it never gets fully started.

Now just this last one I feel I may have developed hot flushes, but since I?ve also had a nasty virus unsure if it might be to do with that too.

Anyway its like I get hot for no reason, it comes over me, often when I?m just sitting down doing nothing physical, then it goes, am I describing a classic hot flush?

During my first couple of bookings since being sick its happened as well which hasn?t helped my comeback! I suppose I?m concerned its going to affect work more and more, I never know if I?m going to get a period, and I dread another really painful one which incapacitated me for a week basically.

I have gone through a nightmare of peri menopause last 3 years. If you want to get the cycle going again and speed up the full menopause you do not need drugs - just acupuncture. (in lower back) With me it seemed to unblock everything that was blocked, so am hoping am near the end as lost a lot money through unexpected times of the month happening. When you are younger you recognise pmt and the onset of a period but with peri menopause you do not - one minute you are ok - next minute it starts out of nowhere - and with me can last 3 days or 12 days - hence loss of bookings and income. But work hard during the good days where my hormones are normal again!
Try to explain that to a man! They look confused and embarrassed.

SimplySinful · « **Reply #106 on:** 01 February 2018, 12:05:00 pm »

Quote from: Ellie B on 31 January 2018, 11:59:52 pm

I have gone through a nightmare of peri menopause last 3 years. If you want to get the cycle going again and speed up the full menopause you do not need drugs - just acupuncture. (in lower back) With me it seemed to unblock everything that was blocked, so am hoping am near the end as lost a lot money through unexpected times of the month happening. When you are younger you recognise pmt and the onset of a period but with peri menopause you do not - one minute you are ok - next minute it starts out of nowhere - and with me can last 3 days or 12 days - hence loss of bookings and income. But work hard during the good days where my hormones are normal again!
Try to explain that to a man! They look confused and embarrassed.

It?s so frustrating. I had acupuncture a couple of years ago for something totally different. I am allergic to nickel which is in the needles in small quantities. Even tho she used special coated needles I came out in hives all over my body!

I just don?t know whether I?m coming or going, its difficult to schedule appointments as I never know if or when I will get my period; and I dread another one like Novembers which put me totally out of action for bookings.

Guiltypleasure · « **Reply #107 on:** 01 February 2018, 01:13:10 pm »

Well I'm supposed to be away but am literally sitting waiting on one , sore boobs etc , daren't book as last time ( they do come roughly the same time ish but they're not predictable) it ended up pouring in the first couple of days from the start , where usually they start slow and build up !

Plus it always first week of the month because I have long cycle, but it's so frustrating if I book it'll start if I don't it could be next bloody week , especially as had spotting two days ago , now nada Rrrrrr

Rosesugar · « **Reply #108 on:** 02 February 2018, 09:37:08 am »

Finally something has worked I started taking sage leaf capsules from Holland & Barrett I can't believe the hot flushes have reduced .

Now just got to keep on using lube to stay wet for these clients as that passed in my late 30 s lol

GG · « **Reply #109 on:** 02 February 2018, 09:56:50 am »

Quote from: Sugar xxx on 02 February 2018, 09:37:08 am

Finally something has worked I started taking sage leaf capsules from Holland & Barrett I can't believe the hot flushes have reduced .
Now just got to keep on using lube to stay wet for these clients as that passed in my late 30 s lol

I suffer badly from hot flushes. It?s awful in bookings. In fact it?s just awful full stop! No point in wearing make up as it just slides off. My hair gets soaking wet I look like a drowned rat then I get embarrassed so I take an even bigger redner. I had heard about sage and tried the tea but I could not drink it so I?m definitely going to try the tablets thanks xx

Rosesugar · « **Reply #110 on:** 02 February 2018, 10:45:29 am »

Good luck hope they help too Gina
It is apparently for many things as well as perspiration .excessive sweating .
I did get a big 3 speed oscilsting fan for the summer just this week in preperation for a summer to keep clients and I cool at my in call flat as last year was unbearable .
Get fan b4 they sell out in summer lol

SimplySinful · « **Reply #111 on:** 02 February 2018, 03:15:18 pm »

Quote from: Sugar xxx on 02 February 2018, 09:37:08 am

Finally something has worked I started taking sage leaf capsules from Holland & Barrett I can't believe the hot flushes have reduced .
Now just got to keep on using lube to stay wet for these clients as that passed in my late 30 s lol

Damm I?ve just been in there. I am going to try this as the hot flushes are getting worse. It also makes me feel self conscious in bookings as I go really red!

Rosesugar · « **Reply #112 on:** 03 February 2018, 10:15:46 am »

It gets. Unbearable with clients I get too hot and can't wait to jump in a cool bath .
Hope you find it works for you its two capsules morning with fluid and also in evening too.

GG · « **Reply #113 on:** 03 February 2018, 08:25:44 pm »

Quote from: Sugar xxx on 02 February 2018, 10:45:29 am

Good luck hope they help too Gina
It is apparently for many things as well as perspiration .excessive sweating .
I did get a big 3 speed oscilsting fan for the summer just this week in preperation for a summer to keep clients and I cool at my in call flat as last year was unbearable .
Get fan b4 they sell out in summer lol

Ive already got one and I would be using it now if I could get away with it unfortunately I am having to put the heater on for the men

mySecret · « **Reply #114 on:** 11 March 2018, 10:48:15 am »

i have severe bad effect being in menopause...chronic insomnia , sweaty night, tired all time and i am just confused mentally because i do not sleep.
these symptom do not allow me to work more harder and i am not happy with my self! so i really need to find a solution!
I am feel so tired..that i am able only to work in daytime as i m waking up at 430am...so actually i do not accept booking at 8pm and i really regret it as i need to make money to reach my goal. I would like to work more but i can not control it!
if i take a nap between booking is worst, then i do not sleep at all.
i am not stressed, depress...just tired because i do not sleep! i am a happy early bird and i enjoy to wake up at 430am but i am not happy to refuse evening booking as i m having requests.
i have 36y old, i feel so much older in this moment...in the same time i feel that i am lazy so guilty and absolutely not happy what i am doing about work. i am not able to be a hardworker anymore and i was so work alcoholic before!

if i am taking a booking late...i tried..i am feel so hyperactive afterwards that i do not sleep! even i go to sleep at 1 or 2am i am still waking up at 430am.

so, i m wondering if somebody is taking ST john wort....i started since 3 days to take magnesium but seems need to wait to work!
i writing on here because i really need help! i went to my GP but seems that can not help with insomnia!
i stopped to take melatonin as after 3 days i cry without reason! i am eating a healthy diet, drink lot of water, do sport 3/4 time a week for 1hr each time. do you think that hormones remplacement could be the cause?
if somebody can help or let me know how i can try to deal with these issues above i will be grateful.
thank you so much!

sultress000 · « **Reply #115 on:** 11 March 2018, 11:10:10 am »

Quote from: mySecret on 11 March 2018, 10:48:15 am

i have severe bad effect being in menopause...chronic insomnia , sweaty night, tired all time and i am just confused mentally because i do not sleep.
these symptom do not allow me to work more harder and i am not happy with my self! so i really need to find a solution!
I am feel so tired..that i am able only to work in daytime as i m waking up at 430am...so actually i do not accept booking at 8pm and i really regret it as i need to make money to reach my goal. I would like to work more but i can not control it!
if i take a nap between booking is worst, then i do not sleep at all.
i am not stressed, depress...just tired because i do not sleep! i am a happy early bird and i enjoy to wake up at 430am but i am not happy to refuse evening booking as i m having requests.
i have 36y old, i feel so much older in this moment...in the same time i feel that i am lazy so guilty and absolutely not happy what i am doing about work. i am not able to be a hardworker anymore and i was so work alcoholic before!

if i am taking a booking late...i tried..i am feel so hyperactive afterwards that i do not sleep! even i go to sleep at 1 or 2am i am still waking up at 430am.

so, i m wondering if somebody is taking ST john wort....i started since 3 days to take magnesium but seems need to wait to work!
i writing on here because i really need help! i went to my GP but seems that can not help with insomnia!
i stopped to take melatonin as after 3 days i cry without reason! i am eating a healthy diet, drink lot of water, do sport 3/4 time a week for 1hr each time. do you think that hormones remplacement could be the cause?
if somebody can help or let me know how i can try to deal with these issues above i will be grateful.
thank you so much!

Just a note about magnesium.. Its actually absorbed much more easily through the skin than by taking via mouth. Magnesium flakes in the bath work really well, and you can make a spray to rub on your skin using the flakes mixed with water in a bottle

Nora batty · « **Reply #116 on:** 11 March 2018, 05:52:24 pm »

So I have been trying CBD oil to help with my menapause whilst working. It's amazing, I have only had 1 hot flush so far, the night sweats have stopped. My anxiety has vanished. I feel kind of "normal".

Now I only been using it about 10 days but I am impressed.

There are lots of different brands but I was told not to use the Holland &Barret one as that's so diluted it's not worth using. So I went for a mid strength legal one I got online.

mySecret · « **Reply #117 on:** 12 March 2018, 06:22:59 am »

thank you for replies.
Yesterday i was really frustrated about that.
I find out my mistake and today i wake up at 6am, so happy!
dinner at 830pm with spinach, magnesium tablet and i hidden my phone, all technologies.
2 camomila tea with peppermint!

wow, i came back to normal life! i hope that going to work every night it!
feel refreshed!
Thank you so much

Ellie B · « **Reply #118 on:** 12 March 2018, 11:37:31 pm »

Quote from: Nora batty on 11 March 2018, 05:52:24 pm

So I have been trying CBD oil to help with my menapause whilst working. It's amazing, I have only had 1 hot flush so far, the night sweats have stopped. My anxiety has vanished. I feel kind of "normal".

Now I only been using it about 10 days but I am impressed.

There are lots of different brands but I was told not to use the Holland &Barret one as that's so diluted it's not worth using. So I went for a mid strength legal one I got online.

Forgive my ignorance but what is CBD oil? I need something to help me.
Time of the month and peri menopause has caused me so much grief and a massive loss of income - I sometimes feel helpless. Have a couple of regulars that have been ok with unexpected hormones and effects of menopause on my body and mind but the rest have just disappeared. They were my regular income and now they are not! Any advice much appreciated.
E x

Ellie B · « **Reply #119 on:** 12 March 2018, 11:45:27 pm »

Oh have googled CBD oil now so know what it is. Does Holland & Barrett sell it? what is the best strength to use and how? How long does it take to work?
My GP is useless with anything menopause/sleep deprivation related.
The advice above about magnesium flakes is very useful - thank you!

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