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samcas

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sex headaches - anyone else?
« on: 29 March 2019, 10:25:17 pm »
I've always been easily aroused - either by civy partners or clients who show some sensitivity. As I have got older, I have definitely ended up being more sensitive to simple penetration to the extent that with most clients with any sex skills and indeed sex with my bf makes me climax ... just with a few minutes penetration and no clit stim. It is different to the orgasms I got when I was younger which were more clitoris based. I now get what I can call vaginal contraction and even spasms in my bum when I cum (very pleasurable at the time) - but 5 mins afterwards, I get a really sensitive vulva clit and anus (to the point I can't be touched) and then one minute later an intense, head splitting headache that lasts for 3 to 4 hours. I have had to cancel later appointments because of it after client visits and bed time sex with my BF wrecks my sleep because of the sheer pain. Has anyone else had this - is it a sign of a health problem. I'm worried that I have some sort of fitness problem. I do go to the gym and do aerobic work outs and generally don't have problems but once a month or so workouts do give me the same headache. Has anyone else had this and know what it is. I'm loathed to go to my GP and explain that I'm a sex worker who has sex several times a day.

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« Reply #1 on: 29 March 2019, 11:07:41 pm »
Sounds likes it maybe triggered by a raise in blood pressure! I used to get it all the time after a run, vigorous sex or sudden rise in temp. It also made me dizzy and tired.

I reduced my salt intake, changed my contraception and have figured out when to stop before I get too worked up. I still suffer from it every now and again though.
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« Reply #2 on: 30 March 2019, 08:12:09 am »
I have this occasionally, last week I woke up with a mild headache, after I had sex and had an orgasm it escalated to a really bad headache that made me feel sick.  I put it down to a raise in blood pressure at point of orgasm.  However many years ago I worked in a hospital and remember having patients admitted for investigation if after sex they have a "thunderclap" headache, ie an intense headache that comes from nowhere.

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« Reply #3 on: 01 April 2019, 07:38:57 am »
However many years ago I worked in a hospital and remember having patients admitted for investigation if after sex they have a "thunderclap" headache, ie an intense headache that comes from nowhere.

And then what happened?

Seriously. "Thunderclap" was always a euphemism for a CVA aka a stroke in my day.
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« Reply #4 on: 01 April 2019, 08:04:01 am »
Lol sorry, investigations, as in some rare cases it could indicate an aneurysm.
• "A dull ache in the head and neck that begins before orgasm and gets worse as sexual arousal increases. It is similar to a tension headache.
• An intensely painful headache that begins during orgasm and can last for hours. This so-called thunderclap headache grabs attention because it comes on like a clap of thunder. Dr Biller said patients describe this headache as “all of a sudden, there was a terrific pain in the back of my head. It was like someone hit me with a hammer.”
A headache that occurs after sex and can range from mild to extremely painful. This headache gets worse when the patient stands and lessens when the patient lies back down. The cause is an internal leak of spinal fluid, which extends down from the skull into the spine. When there is a leak in the fluid, the brain sags downward when the patient stands, causing pain."
This is from Neurolgy times.  I think it is extremely rare so don't want to worry OP.


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« Reply #5 on: 01 April 2019, 09:47:47 am »
I'm such a hypochondriac!

But thankfully the only serious one there sounds like it applies to men.
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