Author Topic: Sex clubs (Read 1548 times)

loubyloo · « **on:** 22 January 2019, 08:40:33 pm »

I've been asked a few times if I would be interested in going to a sex club with a punter.

I've always said no as I don't normally work evenings but I'm curious what it would entail.

Have any of you ladies out there been to one and what did the client expect?

I've only been asked by email which is why I've never been able to ask these questions face to face.

Thinking I may give it a go one day as I understand that you don't have to participate in sex with other people if you don't want to, you're able to be there as an onlooker, but I guess that's something I'd have to discuss with client first.

saltysweet · « **Reply #1 on:** 22 January 2019, 09:37:48 pm »

Mostly I get wasters offering low sums for this, so generally ignore them. I used to help run one for years, it depends on which one. Clubs have different interests, swinging, BDSM, latex, piercing body modification, naughty sauna, stripper sex club etc. Ask him if he's been to any before and what he expects. Tell him your terms and conditions. I bet he'll secretly hope you'll loose control and do loads more. All clubs are different so I wouldn't jump in with both feet before you check it's rep. I'd also follow your personal security rituals strictly as this isn't a restaurant or hotel date.

Is it some get together at a mate's bedsit or an established club, well organised, security conscious organisation? We employed a proper council registered, trained security firm to make sure members were safe, unmolested, cameras removed, gatecrashers and pests ejected. You probably heard of Tudor Simionov security guard who was murdered by crashers on the door of a private Park Lane sex club this new years eve.

Consider that other clubbers won't know your boundaries so you'll have to deal with their expectations and interference as well.

Mirror · « **Reply #2 on:** 22 January 2019, 10:47:00 pm »

I've been to a swinging club with a regular, we established boundaries and what he wanted to see beforehand.

Staying up late through the night doesn't suit me and I found combined with the travel it was hard work. I charged a reasonable amount, which is was worth but probably wouldn't do it again.

Justine · « **Reply #3 on:** 22 January 2019, 11:35:10 pm »

Yes I did this once with a client and was paid for 4 hours at my normal rate.

The place was quite well organised and apparently very popular. Our agreement was that we "played" with anyone we wanted whether together or separate and it worked out well for me but he was very disappointed as he was an old bloke and I think he felt he had strong (nearly said stiff ha!) competition with some younger better looking men there and while he had a good ogle at the goings on he didn't get much fun himself. I wasn't bothered as I had my fee safely banked and I just went through the motions really for his sake.

Never had much interest in going back as my own thrills were satisfied with escorting. What I did notice at the club was how many posers and desperate looking people there were doing the deeds but in my professional eye I could see some of them had that dead face look and I felt sorry for them a little. Just telling it like it was for me but I am sure many people get a massive kick from these places.

Mirror · « **Reply #4 on:** 23 January 2019, 08:52:33 am »

Quote from: Justine on 22 January 2019, 11:35:10 pm

Yes I did this once with a client and was paid for 4 hours at my normal rate.

The place was quite well organised and apparently very popular. Our agreement was that we "played" with anyone we wanted whether together or separate and it worked out well for me but he was very disappointed as he was an old bloke and I think he felt he had strong (nearly said stiff ha!) competition with some younger better looking men there and while he had a good ogle at the goings on he didn't get much fun himself. I wasn't bothered as I had my fee safely banked and I just went through the motions really for his sake.

Never had much interest in going back as my own thrills were satisfied with escorting. What I did notice at the club was how many posers and desperate looking people there were doing the deeds but in my professional eye I could see some of them had that dead face look and I felt sorry for them a little. Just telling it like it was for me but I am sure many people get a massive kick from these places.

I found swinging clubs very clinical, and a sense of more excitement in the idea than actuality, also some partners were there to please the person they were with.

CurlsnCurves · « **Reply #5 on:** 23 January 2019, 10:00:43 am »

I've never been with a punter as I'm not into swingers clubs these days and they never offer enough money for my time and want me to fuck the whole club! However, I have had some great fun at swingers clubs when with a boyfriend and found them very friendly. Also been to a few rubbish nights where the place was dead or the people were just awful and that wasnt very arousing. Mostly I feel people there are there because they want to be rather than to please a partner although I did have one couple I played with have a barny straight after, I think about me, which was uncomfortable. That was a one off though.

There are lots of single men wanking in these places unless you go to a couples n single women only night. I enjoyed that as I had a very high libido at the time and they ensured lots of fun for me whereas you can't always rely on playing with couples. Some go purely for the social aspect and have no intention of paying. Anyway, overall I'd say if you're going to go then stick to the clubs and not the house parties which can be bloody awful. Make sure you have a solid agreement with the punter on what you will and won't do as most will expect you to be shagging everyone in the place, plus them all night. And get a good rate for the evening, don't negotiate and lose out, if anything you should charge more than you usual rate as it is public sex after all, you're not in a private room just the two of you and you may be screwing other people too. Unless you're an exhibitionist and love swinging anyway. If you've got a lot of energy, a high libido, an exhibitionist streak and enjoy dressing up provocatively and socialising it should be a lot of fun. If you prefer to only do 1-1 bookings and get them over with fast then avoid. And avoid if you don't get a good rate sorted with a deposit.

Justine · « **Reply #6 on:** 23 January 2019, 11:20:21 am »

Make sure you have a solid agreement with the punter on what you will and won't do as most will expect you to be shagging everyone in the place, yy

Exactly this! Which is what my arrangement was and whether paid or not or whoever you attend one of these places with no woman or man is expected to shag or interact with everyone there! No has always meant no and a swinging club is not exempt from this. On my (our) evening one woman was bad mannered and loud and approached me to do stuff with her. I said no thanks and gave her one of my looks, she buggered off.

As far as anyone was concerned that night I was a civvy and not a wg. People have told me that anyone attending a swingers club and known to others as a wg is likely to encounter jealousy and spite. I made sure that was not the case with me.

Wailing Banshee · « **Reply #7 on:** 23 January 2019, 11:30:49 am »

I would only go with a client I knew well and trusted and have done this, I would never go somewhere with an unknown man, what if he started telling everyone there you were an escort, what if he had a group of men there he expected you to shag or left you there alone. So many things could go wrong. When I go with my partner his main role is keeping me safe, making sure any man I might go with is wearing a condom and no one being a pest or pushing boundaries.

If you do go to a club with a client you do need to agree what is wanted. The client I went with just wanted to experience a club so it was very much about him looking around and watching and then we had time in a private room together. He wasn't interested in being watched or me interacting with other men so it was really easy.

Also, in my experience these places are hit and miss. You can go and it not be busy, just a load of single men wandering about or busy but cliquey with groups of people who knew each other being sociable together and not interacting with others. So even if you have grand ideas about being in a giant gangbang or picking up a women to play with it might not happen and he should be aware it might not go as planned!

But yes, as you have said, you'd have to discuss with a client what he wants, but I would be super cautious about going with an unknown.

Yorkshire Lass · « **Reply #8 on:** 23 January 2019, 01:23:25 pm »

I was asked to go to a club. I said no, but had a look at the website for the place out of curiosity. You needed to bring ID in order to get membership to go in.

If you do decide to go ahead make sure you do not have to reveal your real name and address.

Dynamite Doll · « **Reply #9 on:** 23 January 2019, 02:02:05 pm »

I do get such requests to go swinging and as I enjoy it in my personal life with my boyfriend as it is a treat not work I only go for female pleasure. So when I am contacted and I make it clear on terms and conditions that if they want me to be shagging men the fee increases as I feel that a guy to fuk me that is not a client still needs to pay me so least I should be compensated by having dick at the swinging.
Plus I make it clear that I will be with my boyfriend as me and him are experienced swingers and we can meet up for pre dinner drinks so atmosphere between the 3 of us is genuine not awkward. Then go in but my fee is sorted way before reaching to the club and we only attend nights where it is couples as I have my other half be with my girlfriend whose an escort too (she does her thing inside disappears.) as he wont be allowed entry single guy on Sat.

Time-wasting dicks who want a wank or just idiots run a mile. True legit bookings are fine with it and we have a great time.

I get all the necessary information out in one email with break down of fee and duration of time. Who is responsible for taking care of the entry costs etc which is the client who approached me for such outing. Plus that my prepaid taxi travel still applies where me and my other half will arrive meet client at cocktail bar then we all go together in another taxi to venue. My girlfriend meets us at swinging club venue.

CurlsnCurves · « **Reply #10 on:** 27 January 2019, 04:37:34 am »

Yes I forgot they do ask for ID, so you'd need to be really aware of the fact that your real identity would be known to the client.

Sarah72 · « **Reply #11 on:** 27 January 2019, 08:28:21 am »

I done this several years ago but I set strict boundaries with my client what I would, wouldn’t do. I also agreed a specific higher fee to take into consideration this was an out of the ordinary booking. I also laid down I picked the club (one I was familiar with). This was with a regular Client who in all fairness stuck to my set rules. Basic parameters were although you have to be social in clubs, don’t expect me to play with every tom dick and Harry. It’s you who have hired my services not the whole club. I will lead the way, set the expectations.

In the end it worked out fine. My client was a little nervous anyway. These places are always full of wannabes and fantasists who do get the hump when you politely tell them to P*** off! but I did end up having a lovely unexpected interaction with a female which I thoroughly enjoyed! That was on my instigation, not the clients. And I did pleasure her partner too breaking my set rule. That was my prerogative. And it took place in a private room.

Was well paid for that meet! Not something I’d overly do all the time as in my private life occasionally I have visited clubs for my own satisfaction with my own friends. and play generally with my own sex as I am bi. I don’t want to join the two and blur the separation of the private things I like to do sexually.

Dynamite Doll · « **Reply #12 on:** 27 January 2019, 07:38:10 pm »

Quote from: Sarah72 on 27 January 2019, 08:28:21 am

I done this several years ago but I set strict boundaries with my client what I would, wouldn’t do. I also agreed a specific higher fee to take into consideration this was an out of the ordinary booking. I also laid down I picked the club (one I was familiar with). This was with a regular Client who in all fairness stuck to my set rules. Basic parameters were although you have to be social in clubs, don’t expect me to play with every tom dick and Harry. It’s you who have hired my services not the whole club. I will lead the way, set the expectations.

In the end it worked out fine. My client was a little nervous anyway. These places are always full of wannabes and fantasists who do get the hump when you politely tell them to P*** off! but I did end up having a lovely unexpected interaction with a female which I thoroughly enjoyed! That was on my instigation, not the clients. And I did pleasure her partner too breaking my set rule. That was my prerogative. And it took place in a private room.

Was well paid for that meet! Not something I’d overly do all the time as in my private life occasionally I have visited clubs for my own satisfaction with my own friends. and play generally with my own sex as I am bi. I don’t want to join the two and blur the separation of the private things I like to do sexually.

I totally agree with you in all that you have written. Also On your last (I don’t want to join the two and blur the separation of the private things I like to do sexually.) That is why I have to have my boyfriend with me to get true enjoyment or else that person will have a shitty time and so will I as swinging is my personal private enjoyment but if there is a request then it is how Its to go down. Yes club I choose too. My rate higher as I won't be working taking incalls etc.. x

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loubyloo

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Justine

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Wailing Banshee

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