Not too sure how to pose this question but a few posts and threads have got me wondering does it actually pay to put up and shut up and offer the yucky services? I don't do owo anymore or pse, anal, dfk etc. a lot of girls here and who work for the agency I do seem to think if you don't offer those what's the point. So I guess I'm wondering from anyone whose seen both sides is it worth it?

No job is worth "gritting your teeth" - there are people in all sorts of jobs who are miserable and it can wreck your health.

I sometimes think there's something wrong with me because I really, really don't like servicing the very repulsive. I don't mean guys who are unattractive - I mean the very obese or the very old. I wish I could somehow screen them out but I can't really figure out how to do it without coming across as a bitch in my marketing.

Yesterday, an 80-year-old man with bushy white beard and hair and the most fucked-up snaggle teeth showed up and I wanted to sink into the ground and disappear. He wasn't very clean, either. (Urged him to shower and he went and had "a wash" - God knows what he washed.)

I grit my teeth and paint a smile on for some jobs, like with a client that likes being fisted for an hour and half! I felt like a vet x

This thread is really similar to Naked Chef's about reducing services so sorry if this post fits there a bit better!

I sometimes think there's something wrong with me because I really, really don't like servicing the very repulsive. I don't mean guys who are unattractive - I mean the very obese or the very old. I wish I could somehow screen them out but I can't really figure out how to do it without coming across as a bitch in my marketing.

Yesterday, an 80-year-old man with bushy white beard and hair and the most fucked-up snaggle teeth showed up and I wanted to sink into the ground and disappear. He wasn't very clean, either. (Urged him to shower and he went and had "a wash" - God knows what he washed.)

Absolutely resonate with all of this.

I usually really like my clients, don't necessarily find them attractive but perhaps amusing or they might actually be really good at sex or simply quite charismatic. After those clients I've had recently that were truly unpleasant, gruesome experiences I am beginning to get paranoid at the prospect of most of them being like this.

I know the people that don't offer the common services like DFK and OWO like to say that it makes no difference to their income, and I certainly believe that can be true of those only doing OW (I am one of them), but DFK? I'm 18, vanilla, quite new to everything and I really don't think there's any way in hell that I could get away with taking that off the list. I'll have almost nothing to market myself on after that, everything good about me is the whole natural/GFE malarkey. I also think that your area is a big part of it, in my area I'm already not ever going to be one of the favourites because the most popular girls are the PSE kinds. (I don't mind this because I'm so part-time.) Removing DFK makes me stop appealing to the only clients left.

Maybe I'm just wrong, and to be honest I don't hate DFK but I really, really did with some of the recent clients I've had. I actually came out of the booking with a couple of them thinking I would rather have not taken the booking and went without the money. You know it's bad when I say I'd rather not have the money! But again, scrapping DFK would probably not be worth it for me. I wish there was an easier way to screen these types but there just isn't, so I'll continue the way I am and hope to god this isn't going to become the norm from now on.

I've cut down on my services over time and whilst I've lost a few clients, I've also gained incredibly nice ones who specifically see me because I do not offer certain services (eg. owo). 

However, whilst we can all advise and support each other as we do on here, a lot of this boils down to what YOU are personally comfortable with.  For example, I offer a strapon service which I love doing whereas a friend of mine thinks that's horrible, so it swings in roundabouts.  She offers owo, whereas I don't. 

I think also it's how you feel about the job and whether you feel that you're giving away too much of yourself or not.  It's an individual choice completely and we all work in unique ways. 

I've had many clients hint that I might bend my rules a little just the once but I know damn well that if I gave in I'd feel crap after, purely because I'd feel that the lines have been crossed and boundaries pushed...............

You also can't compare to other girls and what they do/don't do as I've found that a good bunch of my clients just want me, regardless of services, over time it's Me they want...........  I think I'm making sense, maybe not! 

Remember also, just because your phone might not be ringing, don't for one minute think it's because the girl up the road is offering anal and you are not!  It's all down to timing/luck/availability etc and whether you have popped up on a search on the internet or not! 

Not every chap wants it all you know! 

Good luck, and don't listen to others.  Do what feels right for YOU. 

I provide what I'm happy with, in my way.
I don't provide services that I am not happy with.
Client's shouldn't be blamed for requesting
advertised services.

If a restaurant advertises steak I expect to see
a nice fat, juicy, mouth watering steak on my plate.
I don't expect smouldering resentment from the chef.

But....If the client abuses my good will I get
up, get dressed and leave. Or enable him to leave.