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sukhjinder

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Worried About A Friend
« on: 09 October 2022, 02:10:15 pm »
Hi,
I believe a friend is being forced into escorting/Pimped.
 
Basically since she met this other friend, she has become distant to everyone. Argues with family, doesn't meet other friends etc.
Now I have seen a Adult Work profile registered, that's seems to have her pictures on it.

I believe her flatmate manages bookings, and just sends her out.

The other evening i met for drinks, and she was sharing a live location with this flat mate, only stayed out for two hours. I said lets extend go out more. Her response was i told my flat mate ill be home by this time etc. She is never on Instagram any more.
Im really worried and dont know what to do. She has fallen out with most friends. I presume because of this.
She wont listen, im worried for her.
« Last Edit: 09 October 2022, 08:32:30 pm by sukhjinder »

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #1 on: 09 October 2022, 11:57:43 pm »
I would suggest you contact National Ugly Mugs for advice, you could also talk to the police about your concerns, every force has a safeguarding team.

Make sure you keep in touch with her are let her know she can always talk to you without judgement.

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #2 on: 10 October 2022, 06:34:22 am »
I would suggest you contact National Ugly Mugs for advice, you could also talk to the police about your concerns, every force has a safeguarding team.

Make sure you keep in touch with her are let her know she can always talk to you without judgement.

I second this, NUM have always been very helpful and supportive whenever I have phoned them for advice. I am sure they will listen and suggest ways forward.

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #3 on: 10 October 2022, 09:04:40 am »
Does she know you're a sex worker?
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
The undiscovered continent for you to undress

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #4 on: 10 October 2022, 06:48:19 pm »
sukhjinder
Do keep in touch with her . She may be really struggling financially and depressed also .

sukhjinder

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #5 on: 10 October 2022, 11:44:09 pm »
Does she know you're a sex worker?

No, She does not.
I can recognise the signs etc. Yes the cost of living is hitting. She did say her rent and bills take most of her wage. Ill pass details on

VoluptuousCurves

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #6 on: 11 October 2022, 08:25:01 am »
No, She does not.
I can recognise the signs etc. Yes the cost of living is hitting. She did say her rent and bills take most of her wage. Ill pass details on

I would suggest the most obvious way to get her to open up is to tell her that you're a sex worker. If she's being forced (whether by a pimp or through financial hardship) then she may be carrying a lot of unnecessary shame which is preventing her from seeking help because she thinks she'll be judged. If you can let her know where you're coming from and won't be judgemental it could open the door for her to confide in you.
And me, I am not a mess, I am a wilderness, yes
The undiscovered continent for you to undress

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #7 on: 11 October 2022, 10:47:51 am »
Was this the same friend that you previosly posted about saying a nother sex worker had stolen your friends pictures and was using them on Adultwork?

sukhjinder

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #8 on: 12 October 2022, 12:56:48 pm »
Was this the same friend that you previosly posted about saying a nother sex worker had stolen your friends pictures and was using them on Adultwork?
Yes, but after meeting her for a drink after. Im convinced its her after her behaviour

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #9 on: 16 October 2022, 02:38:49 am »
ask her directly whats wrong and make it clear that she can trust you with any secrets
why have cotton when you can have silk???

sukhjinder

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #10 on: 01 December 2022, 09:09:40 pm »
So this continues, my friend is not happy. I have noticed she drinks more and also was nearly crying yesterday we met.
I'm stuck with what to do now.

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #11 on: 21 December 2022, 11:31:35 am »
Ok, So my friend wants to quit, She hates it. She's admitted it to me now.
She is doing cause she feels down about herself and work is stressful. But now hates this one.

Where can she go, is their counselling etc

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Re: Worried About A Friend
« Reply #12 on: 21 December 2022, 02:11:20 pm »
Where can she go, is there counselling etc

She can come here, for starters. Please encourage her to sign up and post for herself.