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KittenCandy

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #30 on: 04 June 2017, 11:19:11 am »
As long as I'm mentally comfortable and not in pain, clients can be as selfish as they like. I don't do this job for my own sexual gratification. Besides, I would much prefer a booking where the focus is getting than the client off than a booking where the client is obsessed with my own "enjoyment".
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #31 on: 04 June 2017, 12:37:05 pm »
As long as I'm mentally comfortable and not in pain, clients can be as selfish as they like. I don't do this job for my own sexual gratification. Besides, I would much prefer a booking where the focus is getting than the client off than a booking where the client is obsessed with my own "enjoyment".

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« Reply #32 on: 04 June 2017, 05:42:27 pm »
My best friend worked in this industry 6 years ago and we were comparing notes.. she tells me how the calibre of clients was different back then.. . Girls had professional pics and websites done, charged good rates and the calibre of clients was very different and there was no such thing as 15 min quickies and half an hour bookings.

Client treated the ladies well and vice versa. Directories and forums didn't allow WG's  to be called whores and prozzies.. unfortunately AW has changed all that.. bathroom selfies with cum shots all over the face is now acceptable and the more vile and derogotary words you use to describe the better.. this attracts those kinds of punters unfortunately and usually it's a case of let's pay less and ram in everything we can and if doesn't go our way let's give her a online bashing. Or in your case sod making any interaction or making sure she enjoys this let me just get sucked off for half an hour.....

Also the above isn't directed at anyone it's just a general observation of how the market has changed.

I generally agree with Amy. IMO internet, mass media, the porn industry and the evolution of our culture affected ways of advertising and communicating online but by no means things were better in the past with respect to caliber of clients, treatment of SWs etc. If anything at all it was the opposite. Now it is just more transparent what some people think and expect. Porn has also affected client expectations to an extent.

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #33 on: 05 June 2017, 11:44:23 am »
Most clients are selfish any way, now expecting them not to be is a miracle. We are whores don't all get respected and never will be. Expecting all clients to be saints I think is being unrealistic.

I see they pay for the time but if the 15 minute mark has passed during oral I offer fun alternatives.

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #34 on: 05 June 2017, 01:09:52 pm »
Why would you care if a client is selfish in bed? He isn't your boyfriend so I don't get it. Unless you were Totally reliant on this job for sexual release? Sounds like what a woman will say about her partner  ::)

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #35 on: 05 June 2017, 02:24:33 pm »
I found out that getting my vibe out onto the tip of these guys cocks and getting them to shoot their load after about 20 minutes made them want to just get up and go. Saves in getting lock jaw 😂😂😂
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #36 on: 05 June 2017, 04:03:20 pm »
Well I think that they pay for their own pleasure so as long as they don't hurt me or get too pushy I dont mind them being selfish. Of course I really enjoy clients who actuay please me and make me feel happy for the rest of the day  :P but you can't expect this from everyone even in your personal life :)

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #37 on: 05 June 2017, 05:10:23 pm »
I would rather they just lay there aswell. Example.. this morning I had someone want to 'pleasure' me and soaked me in slobber from head to toe. He kissed every part of my body and left a snail trail everywhere I had to grit my teeth til they nearly snapped.

For me a perfect client will come in, be clean polite, chat for 5, accept a massage for 5 and just lie there. Nothing worst than an octopus  >:( especially one that hasn't got a clue.

KittenCandy

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #38 on: 05 June 2017, 10:21:41 pm »
I would rather they just lay there aswell. Example.. this morning I had someone want to 'pleasure' me and soaked me in slobber from head to toe. He kissed every part of my body and left a snail trail everywhere I had to grit my teeth til they nearly snapped.

For me a perfect client will come in, be clean polite, chat for 5, accept a massage for 5 and just lie there. Nothing worst than an octopus  >:( especially one that hasn't got a clue.

Same here. That sounds disgusting. Poor you :'( I had one client today ask me what I like. "NOTHING" I like NOTHING.

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #39 on: 05 June 2017, 10:27:28 pm »
Same here. That sounds disgusting. Poor you :'( I had one client today ask me what I like. "NOTHING" I like NOTHING.

Haha! When they ask me what I like to do I usually respond 'Oh I wouldn't mind a game of scrabble'

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« Reply #40 on: 05 June 2017, 11:48:52 pm »
I had one client today ask me what I like. "NOTHING" I like NOTHING.

One of these days I will actually tell them.

Just leave the money on the side and go away.

Quicker.

KittenCandy

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #41 on: 06 June 2017, 12:36:09 am »
Haha! When they ask me what I like to do I usually respond 'Oh I wouldn't mind a game of scrabble'

lol ahaha

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #42 on: 06 June 2017, 12:36:52 am »
One of these days I will actually tell them.

Just leave the money on the side and go away.

Quicker.

I was Very Very tempted to say, "I like money, got anymore?"

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #43 on: 08 June 2017, 06:46:19 am »
lmao  ;D

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #44 on: 08 June 2017, 06:50:23 am »
I don't mind if they are selfish they are with us for a personal service and their wishes have to come first as that is customer service.  To expect to be gratified endlessly is setting ourselves up to fail and is expecting too much.

For as long as they show up on time don't waste our time and are clean and polite that is all that counts for me.