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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #15 on: 03 June 2017, 01:28:36 pm »
I wonder that too. Or if their wives demand things those men are useless at and don't enjoy in their private lives, so they want to live their fantasy of what sex is like. It's actually a joke guys like that want a GFE yet their idea of a girlfriend experience is that we do everything and they make no effort.

Some men have been told they are past it, and incapable by their partners.  :FF Others simply want the pressure taken off and why not?

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« Reply #16 on: 03 June 2017, 01:37:31 pm »
I wonder that too. Or if their wives demand things those men are useless at and don't enjoy in their private lives, so they want to live their fantasy of what sex is like. It's actually a joke guys like that want a GFE yet their idea of a girlfriend experience is that we do everything and they make no effort.

Yes i offer a full gfe with mutual satisfaction so sucking a cock for half hr or something even an hr is not my idea of a gfe. When i have been a gf to a guy there is no way i wld put up wth that in bed lol x

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« Reply #17 on: 03 June 2017, 01:55:02 pm »
I prefer it if they are selfish and want all the attention on them I will happily give oral for up to an hour, I wont shag for an hour though as I find it boring after the first 10 minutes.

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« Reply #18 on: 03 June 2017, 02:37:25 pm »
These bookings are hard work but I agree with PPs that after all the guy is paying for a service and as long as he's not pushing boundaries then it's fair enough.

I always wonder if the reason they pay for sex is because they're so selfish and crap that their wives won't shag them 😂

I would bet a week's takings on that one.  So that's 2k (I wish)

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« Reply #19 on: 03 June 2017, 03:10:56 pm »
While I think they're perfectly entitled to be 'selfish', I also think it depends on compatibility. No way could I suck a cock for an hour - I'd feel nauseous and be in physical discomfort, whereas conversely I'd be more than happy to fuck for an hour. So, if in comms it becomes clear that the man is mainly looking for oral, I suggest he look elsewhere.
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #20 on: 03 June 2017, 03:53:28 pm »
I neither like to be banged for an hour or suck cock for an hour but I don't mind if they want a mix of that for an hour.So quite happy for them to be just into getting their rocks off rather than mine but I won't do just one thing for the entire time and I think that's fair enough.

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« Reply #21 on: 03 June 2017, 03:57:51 pm »
About half of my clients are like this which is fine for a half hour. But much prefer if it's a jointly and mutual encounter and really enjoy this with the right client. Also it's nice to have a chat and laugh with these ones as its not really like work and time flies by.

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« Reply #22 on: 03 June 2017, 05:31:10 pm »
Luckily it's fairly rare anyone wants their cock sucked for a whole booking and whilst boring at least a) I don't have to think of what to do and b) they aren't pawing at me!

I also think they are entitled to it seeing as they are paying and it's within my boundaries.

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« Reply #23 on: 03 June 2017, 07:18:00 pm »
These bookings are hard work but I agree with PPs that after all the guy is paying for a service and as long as he's not pushing boundaries then it's fair enough.

I always wonder if the reason they pay for sex is because they're so selfish and crap that their wives won't shag them 😂
Agree with everything you've said VC. I do also wonder about the latter. Sometimes I think they just want to enjoy themselves but other times, they do give off the vibe that they are just plain selfish in general  ::)

But back to the point!!! You're not really you're in a position to expect the client to pleasure you when it's your job to service him. Simple as. As long as he's being respectful then he's not in the wrong. Even if it is admittedly very hard work!

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« Reply #24 on: 03 June 2017, 08:13:04 pm »
I personally don't mind if as in my opinion they're paying for an experience and if they want to be selfish that is fine with me. I would much rather that than those clients who will are adamant they are going to make you orgasm!
I've done cock worship bookings before which is basically sucking for the duration and j don't mind to be honest, as long as they aren't hurting me, pushing the boundaries or being unpleasant it's all good.

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« Reply #25 on: 03 June 2017, 10:53:15 pm »
Also- I think the variety of types of bookings does us good- if they were all the same whether about them wanting hour long blow jobs or giving us pleasure or just cuddly or just PSE style we'd go mad much quicker. Variety makes it interesting and/or variable.

I think for those 'easy' bookings or those who pay for an hour and leave leave after 20 mins we have to expect a few that are hard going where we *really* earn our money!

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« Reply #26 on: 04 June 2017, 12:27:06 am »
My best friend worked in this industry 6 years ago and we were comparing notes.. she tells me how the calibre of clients was different back then.. . Girls had professional pics and websites done, charged good rates and the calibre of clients was very different and there was no such thing as 15 min quickies and half an hour bookings.

Client treated the ladies well and vice versa. Directories and forums didn't allow WG's  to be called whores and prozzies.. unfortunately AW has changed all that.. bathroom selfies with cum shots all over the face is now acceptable and the more vile and derogotary words you use to describe the better.. this attracts those kinds of punters unfortunately and usually it's a case of let's pay less and ram in everything we can and if doesn't go our way let's give her a online bashing. Or in your case sod making any interaction or making sure she enjoys this let me just get sucked off for half an hour.....

Also the above isn't directed at anyone it's just a general observation of how the market has changed.

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« Reply #27 on: 04 June 2017, 10:33:29 am »
Most of my clients seem to scared to touch me & I like it like that, I'd rather they come in & just lay there & not touch me.  ;)

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #28 on: 04 June 2017, 11:08:10 am »
My best friend worked in this industry 6 years ago and we were comparing notes.. she tells me how the calibre of clients was different back then.. . Girls had professional pics and websites done, charged good rates and the calibre of clients was very different and there was no such thing as 15 min quickies and half an hour bookings.

Also the above isn't directed at anyone it's just a general observation of how the market has changed.

Actually it isn't, it's your friends opinion of how and why her market has changed which is not the same thing. And her frame of reference sounds narrow, to say the least :).

The idea that short/quickie bookings as well as low rates never existed before AW is about as bizarre as the idea that good/bad punters are a new thing. Does your friend not know about parlours and working flats, walkups, street prostitution? If her clients aren't treating her well then that's down to her screening - blaming other women and how/where they advertise (and you can tell her I don't have a professional website or pictures and I have virtually no problems with unpleasant punters ever) is not the way forward.

You could also point out that pre-internet, anybody wanting to get into prostitution for whatever reason had to largely rely on a pimp of some kind to do so unless they wanted to spend a lot of time on the phone and a lot of money on newspaper/contact mag ads. Now, virtually anybody can put up their own ads very easily and with little cost, and control their own business including how and where they're marketing - Adultwork has been a huge part of that. Why would you care if other people want to have porny pictures - nobody's making you have them if you don't want to - I don't have them either?

Back to the topic, and I'm with the people who would far rather punters came along wanting stuff done to them for an hour, even if doing the same thing the whole time would be boring. They're paying to get what they want, and if that means avoiding being rubbed raw or the 'but I just want to please yooooou!' stuff then I'm all for selfish :D.

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« Reply #29 on: 04 June 2017, 11:16:03 am »
Back to the topic, and I'm with the people who would far rather punters came along wanting stuff done to them for an hour, even if doing the same thing the whole time would be boring. They're paying to get what they want, and if that means avoiding being rubbed raw or the 'but I just want to please yooooou!' stuff then I'm all for selfish :D.

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