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Sexymilf

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Selfish in bed clients
« on: 03 June 2017, 10:16:31 am »
Do you think its unreasonable if a client books for half hour and basically all he wants is his cock sucked for the whole time. For me its very boring and dragged out. If theres interaction both ways its more than enjoyable for me and time goes by much quicker. How do i approach this as i have a regular who always books but lately im just sucking his cock the whole time or fucking his ass wth a vib. Its all him him. Or am i being unreasonable. I just prefer mutual stimulation which i put in my profile xx
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #1 on: 03 June 2017, 10:18:51 am »
I sympathise, these bookings do drag out and I also much prefer mutual stimulation.

Unfortunately though I think punters have every right to be selfish in bed. That is, after all, what they are paying us for.
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« Reply #2 on: 03 June 2017, 10:32:16 am »
As long as I'm mentally comfortable and not in pain, clients can be as selfish as they like. I don't do this job for my own sexual gratification. Besides, I would much prefer a booking where the focus is getting than the client off than a booking where the client is obsessed with my own "enjoyment".
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #3 on: 03 June 2017, 10:34:45 am »
I think some guys book and pay to not worry about stimulating their partner and that is absolutely fine as long as you are willing to just pleasure them the whole time,if not then don't see this client anymore.
Personally if I was a punter then yes I'd love to have someone going down on me for my whole time it would be great lol!I'd be paying to be pampered and totally selfish! ;D
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #4 on: 03 June 2017, 10:35:43 am »
Quote from: Quinn on 03 June 2017, 10:32:16 am
As long as I'm mentally comfortable and not in pain, clients can be as selfish as they like. I don't do this job for my own sexual gratification. Besides, I would much prefer a booking where the focus is getting than the client off than a booking where the client is obsessed with my own "enjoyment".
Yes agreed!I sometimes find the bookings where they spend the whole time trying to get me to come for them more of a ballache!
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #5 on: 03 June 2017, 10:48:22 am »
Quote from: BibiofLeeds on 03 June 2017, 10:34:45 am
I think some guys book and pay to not worry about stimulating their partner and that is absolutely fine as long as you are willing to just pleasure them the whole time,if not then don't see this client anymore.
Personally if I was a punter then yes I'd love to have someone going down on me for my whole time it would be great lol!I'd be paying to be pampered and totally selfish! ;D

I agree with this, however I really don't like cock-focused bookings to I make that clear in my advertising and at point of enquiry. I actually say if you want 59 minutes and 59 seconds (or however long they book) of pure shagging, please go elsewhere.
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SheilaStar

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« Reply #6 on: 03 June 2017, 10:52:24 am »
I much prefer mutual stimulation too but as you said sometimes it can be as dreadful as an overly selfish client.

Sadly I agree that it's all about them and they're the paying customer. Still though it would be nice if they were a bit more like 'normal' humans.
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Sexymilf

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #7 on: 03 June 2017, 10:53:17 am »
Quote from: Mirror on 03 June 2017, 10:48:22 am
I agree with this, however I really don't like cock-focused bookings to I make that clear in my advertising and at point of enquiry. I actually say if you want 59 minutes and 59 seconds (or however long they book) of pure shagging, please go elsewhere.

That how i feel. Esp when they are regulars and know i dnt like this but then insist on it i shld shut up and put up wth it or refuse to see really. Me just havinf a moan. Xx
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #8 on: 03 June 2017, 11:31:12 am »
I am being paid so they are entitled to use that time any way they want if it is within my own boundaries. Non stop shagging or oral on them is fine with me but if it is longer than a half hour booking I will be thinking this is only mechanical sex and if I get nothing pleasurable out of it myself I have to try harder to appear to be enjoying it as despite some men being totally selfish they still like to think we are having a good time too.

The majority of clients aim to please too and this is what makes my work good. If a new man books an hour or more and it is horrendously boring for me to just be there while he pumps away or lie there while I suck for Britiain and he pays me not even a bit of attention, he will probably go into the *OSIQ list as I would not look forward to another booking from him.


* only see if quiet  :)
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #9 on: 03 June 2017, 11:36:45 am »
I cannot abide the bookings where they want a non stop blowjob for most of the time. I find it exhausting but I usually just grin and bear it as I'm being paid a lot of money for my time.
If it's longer than 30 minutes though then I'd have to politely but firmly tell them I'm tired and need a breather for 10 mins as my jaw is aching. They usually get the hint that I'm no longer enjoying myself and they are happy to move onto something else like sex or wanking themselves off whilst I play with myself
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SheilaStar

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« Reply #10 on: 03 June 2017, 11:57:09 am »
Quote from: Justine on 03 June 2017, 11:31:12 am
he will probably go into the *OSIQ list as I would not look forward to another booking from him.
* only see if quiet  :)

 ;D

I like that. I call these 'FILLERS'
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Sexymilf

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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #11 on: 03 June 2017, 12:21:36 pm »
I will put that at the end of some of my clients names "OSIQ" good idea xx
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #12 on: 03 June 2017, 12:51:35 pm »
Oddly enough I can suck cock ad infinitum I find it very relaxing and much easier to cope with than clients who want a bit of everything and we have to keep changing positions and doing different things.

At least cock sucking helps me switch off!  I don't have to keep thinking what to do next/ask client what they want all the time etc.
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #13 on: 03 June 2017, 12:57:34 pm »
These bookings are hard work but I agree with PPs that after all the guy is paying for a service and as long as he's not pushing boundaries then it's fair enough.

I always wonder if the reason they pay for sex is because they're so selfish and crap that their wives won't shag them 😂
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Re: Selfish in bed clients
« Reply #14 on: 03 June 2017, 01:22:02 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 03 June 2017, 12:57:34 pm
I always wonder if the reason they pay for sex is because they're so selfish and crap that their wives won't shag them 😂

I wonder that too. Or if their wives demand things those men are useless at and don't enjoy in their private lives, so they want to live their fantasy of what sex is like. It's actually a joke guys like that want a GFE yet their idea of a girlfriend experience is that we do everything and they make no effort.
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