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Gypsy

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Security
« on: 13 November 2017, 05:26:44 pm »
For those with security alarms, panic buttons etc - do you advertise that you have them? In other words, do clients know you have security before they see you? Or don't you mention it at all?

I haven't got anything that will record potential attackers like CCTV, but I am going to have a panic button installed next week that links with the emergency services. If you advertise the security it may put off undesirables from contacting you in the first place  :) Thoughts?
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Re: Security
« Reply #1 on: 13 November 2017, 05:43:27 pm »
personally I think it's fine to say you have security measures in place (I sometimes lie and say I do - they won't know any different) but definitely do not tell anyone what the security measures are or where they are otherwise they can plan around it or prevent you using it

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Re: Security
« Reply #2 on: 13 November 2017, 06:37:58 pm »
Occasionally, I get some weird message(s) asking "what's your setup is like. hotels and you'll be gone?"   ::)

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Re: Security
« Reply #3 on: 13 November 2017, 06:46:23 pm »
It can be a good idea to pop a security system sticker up in your window or on a visible shelf. I wouldn't feel the need to go into any explanation, perhaps if mentioned in conversation I'd say I take my safety seriously, have security measures in place.

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Re: Security
« Reply #4 on: 13 November 2017, 06:54:36 pm »
I don't advertise or inform clients about my security measures, one of my self defence teachers is an ex male escort and he told me it's best not to let a client know how you can defend yourself. Clueing them in can mean they can act to subvert it.

If something goes wrong you actually want that element of surprise. Only had to pull it once on a client, most of the time they came in handy during my civvy dating life.

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Re: Security
« Reply #5 on: 13 November 2017, 06:57:01 pm »
It can be a good idea to pop a security system sticker up in your window or on a visible shelf. I wouldn't feel the need to go into any explanation, perhaps if mentioned in conversation I'd say I take my safety seriously, have security measures in place.

this is great! good idea! even you do not have it!
on my website and AW profile  i mention that there are CCTV in my building.

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Re: Security
« Reply #6 on: 13 November 2017, 08:13:49 pm »
It's a difficult balance, as you don't want to deter genuine, decent clients, but you also don't want the chancers to think you're an easy target. If I'm alone, I put a pair of men's shoes somewhere visible and have the TV on upstairs, for noise.

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Re: Security
« Reply #7 on: 13 November 2017, 08:48:30 pm »
I have never worked anywhere that doesn't have CCTV, Luckily their is CCTV  as they enter my building and on the street where I ask them to call me from and they just wouldn't get in unless there is a clear view of them.

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Re: Security
« Reply #8 on: 18 May 2018, 05:19:00 pm »
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Rosesugar

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Re: Security
« Reply #9 on: 18 May 2018, 05:21:25 pm »
I often tell clients & caller's that I don't stay the night at hotel as I get asked how late I'm working until.
I've also said I've moved rooms too

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Re: Security
« Reply #10 on: 18 May 2018, 05:30:04 pm »
https://www.gov.uk/data-protection-your-business/using-cctv
"Data protection rules do not apply if you install a camera on your own home to protect it from burglary."

So you would not have to explicitly tell clients about it, but maybe put an FAQ to say "Will there be anyone else in your property? Can I feel safe?" and answer "I have several security measures in place for both your safety and mine. You won't see or hear anybody else during your booking." This should put off shady characters without giving them enough info to circumvent your security, as Mirror mentioned.
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seraphine

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Re: Security
« Reply #11 on: 18 May 2018, 05:44:15 pm »
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Gypsy

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Re: Security
« Reply #12 on: 19 May 2018, 09:01:18 am »
I think that having this security measure is one of the best things I have done in this job. If anyone is thinking about it I can thoroughly recommend AMCO security systems  :)
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Re: Security
« Reply #13 on: 19 May 2018, 09:21:38 am »
I think that having this security measure is one of the best things I have done in this job. If anyone is thinking about it I can thoroughly recommend AMCO security systems  :)

Gypsy

I so wish I'd gotten a system BEFORE something happened to me, your recommend might help someone else.

seraphine

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Re: Security
« Reply #14 on: 19 May 2018, 11:21:45 am »
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