That comment brings up red flags to me,

You as the professional should ALWAYS insist on be treated with respect. Conduct yourself on the phone and in person as a SW that doesn't tolerate bad behaviour, be in charge of the booking and be an experienced prostitute not a sexual doormat who thinks verbal and/or physical disrespect is acceptable.

Heighten your screening so they know you are not a pushover prepared to take BS treatment for cash. EVER!.

High screening will weed out lowlifes with bad attitudes.

If you carry on accepting this kind of lowlife punter you may well find yourself in all sorts of uncomfortable predicaments, I may sound harsh but I'm coming from a place of concern.

Regarding your dilemma with penetration if I were you I'd offer a BJ and HR I'd not offer 69's as its too compromising so I'd work with knickers that way they couldn't touch my vag or slip a snide finger in.

Yeah I've changed my profile around and they now know I won't stand for no shit, I don't normally allow it to slide but it was 3am and I didn't particularly want neighbours hearing anything, if it came to it. I would rather just continue the booking at that time than wake people up, regardless of anything. I don't want to attract attention, I don't think he would've been the type of guy that would be happy to leave.. now I tell guys if they try and penetrate me or touch me in an aggressive manor, they will be told to leave.

I don't think you're harsh, honesty is best. Guys have to book me online now also, still get some arseholes obviously but I haven't had any since I changed it.

sounds to me like op has been assaulted no means no simple English  hope your OK xxx

The trouble with making it sound as if the height/size/build of the other person there is relevant is that you're already implicitly stating that there might be physical violence (or at least intimidation) and this not only puts off people who mean no harm at all, it can come over as a 'challenge' to some of those who do which at worst might lead them to decide they need to bring a weapon with them.

There is no reason for a punter to know anybody else is there at all unless they misbehave. The function of an in-person security buddy should be raising the alarm if something goes wrong and letting a wrongdoer know about it, not playing Billy Big Bollocks and threatening to hit people.

Having a buddy is also a good idea, I have someone who knows where I am, when my bookings are due to start and finish. If they don't hear from me by a set time they will take action, which will be in the form of calling the police.

Yeh I 100 percent agree we need to go with our guts ladies that's the best way if we get the slightest feeling then we shouldn't accept the booking but you can't be 100 percent sure no ones screening can be 100 percent many nutters slip threw the net all we can do is do a best but we are never going to be 100 percent sure  . They could sound lovely on the phone but in person try and attack you you can never be sure .

All we can do is go with our gut but if hiring a security makes you feel safer than do it Hun . I only work in hotels even tho I make more money in apartments I just don't feel safe in them working .

You do need the point stuff out to them make it perfectly clear what you do and what you don't if they try it then there out . I mean they will some times try take the mick it's just saying it straight what you Do and what you don't .

Take care babe stay safe xx

I do go with my gut, but sometimes guys can be weird on the phone but nice in person. He was horrible the whole time.

I did point out several times. I told him before he booked the appt, when he arrived and when I could feel what he was about to do. Didn't stop him, told him again after he'd done it once and he didn't care, he did it again and again. I always ensure clients know the deal. Because they do try and push it, I have not had any issues since I have changed it to book online ONLY.