Sorry you had those experiences Chlo, that's horrible. Maybe worth posting a warning here on SAAFE and/or reporting to Ugly Mugs? I'm assuming the latter guy you refer to was after anal - I now have a rule that if someone asks for anal on the phone, I won't take a booking with them at all, far too many boundary pushers.
Do you have set hours and days you work? So would you want security all day or more on a "I'll ring if I need you" basis? I'm guessing your main problem in terms of recruitment is going to be guys who want to be paid with a shag
The problem is, some was 6 months ago -the speculum guy and some a few months ago so I don't have their phone number anymore as I took a brief break and got rid of the sim card. The more recent one was last week.
Basically atm, I CAN'T offer penetration, I've had a Pelvic infection since May (not related to an STI as have been tested 3 times since and clear) which I've started treatment for again. So ANY form of penetration, whether it's fingering or intercourse is PAINFUL as HELL. Even just a little slip of the finger is excruciating and very painful for days following. The no penetration is on my profile, on every tab of my profile, so excuses and I always ensure guys understand this before booking an appt. In fact, I TRIPLE check they're ok with this, even when they arrive.
So last Friday, this guy calls me asking for an hour .Yes fine, turns up late but hey. I told him over the phone NO penetration which INCLUDES FINGERING AND SEX -Some guys don't seem to understand this LOL. We were in the 69 position and I could feel his hands going towards my bum and vagina, I told him NO STOP MOVE YOUR HAND. Then he proceeds to slip his finger inside my vagina, I told him STOP IT, I TOLD YOU NO PENETRATION, he said sorry then he did it again and again. Yes it wasn't a full fingering session, it wasn't even the full length of his finger but it's STILL PENETRATION, his finger still WENT INSIDE ME. So I got off him and just gave him oral so he couldn't touch me. The pain was intense and the next day I could not move from the pain. This was not ok. He was rude throughout the session and disrespectful but I can deal with that.
I would offer sex but there's no point when it causes me unbearable pain and suffering, just for money.
I do work set hours but it varies, if I get an email, I'll work usually even if I wasn't going to, so it would be more a case of once the booking is confirmed, then make sure the guard is here before hand, ya know?
I hope you all understand why I don't offer penetration atm. Am quite worried about being judged. It hasn't made a difference to work as I find most guys prefer it anyway!
Chlo x