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caylee_k

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NOT seeing certain types of clients?
« on: 15 June 2014, 12:12:05 am »
Hey ladies,

So now that I have seen more clients I'm realizing that I'm not as open-minded as I thought I would be.

It's not that I expect every client to look like the 90s version of Jared Leto or be super sweet and charming, I had a client today who was unattractive and overweight, but he was fun to talk to, tipped me, and very respectful and complimentary so it was fine. But I really don't like the idea of seeing married clients, nor do I like the idea of seeing Indian/Hispanic clients.

Does that make me horrible and racist?

I've been stripping for years and it's never bothered me to have married customers in the club, I mean I had a regular for years who was married and his wife knew me and actually used to tell him "go visit Caylee I'm sick of dealing with your shit" on a regular basis, that wonderful woman helped me make thousands of dollars. But giving someone a lap dance and fucking them are two totally different things, and it really bothers me to think of some poor woman sitting by herself at home while I sleep with her husband.

As for the Indian/Hispanic thing, I'm just not attracted to them at all and have never had good experiences with either of them when I've worked in strip clubs. I very rarely approach them as they usually want to nickel and dime me with my prices and then get as much bang for their buck as they can which annoys me much more in strip clubs than in escorting because in the SC it's boundary pushing. But once again, it's a much more personal experience to sleep with someone than give them a strip tease and I can't get into it.

I've seen girls post on AW saying they don't see certain clients, usually black guys, but I just always read it and thought "wow you're really racist." Do any of you ladies not see certain clients based on ethnicity/martial status/whatever?


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Re: NOT seeing certain types of clients?
« Reply #1 on: 15 June 2014, 12:25:35 am »
Yes - we know you're new Caylee, but this has really been done to death and if you use the Search box to look for things like 'racism', you'll see exactly what I mean.

1: Discriminating against (or for) anybody solely on the grounds of their ethnic background is the dictionary definition of racism, and the question really being asked is whether racism is acceptable in some circumstances (like deciding with whom you're prepared to have sex - nobody should or would ever expect you to have sex with somebody you're not comfortable with).

2: If you don't want to see married punters (and can think of a reliable way to distinguish between them and the single blokes; I can't) you're going to find yourself making very little money. You're not responsible for how punters conduct themselves or what they do when they're not with you, and you're not paid to judge them - apart from anything else, they could have all sorts of reason for visiting you.

3: Being a prostitute is nothing to do with having sex with people you're attracted to. You're having sex with people because they've paid you to, and if you're expecting to be attracted to all your punters then you're in for a nasty shock.

4: See (1) for why this is now locked, even if Daisy got to it quicker than I did :).