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missbabyrose

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safety tips
« on: 03 November 2024, 06:01:25 pm »
So I am new to escorting and I'm a bit confused about what I should and shouldn't do.

I am signed with 2 agencies.

One of the agencies says that I have to do BJ without a condom, but the other agency I am with says always use a condom.

What are the rules nd what should I do to stay safe.

Also extras I want to make sure I am not giving the men extra stuff without charging

amy

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Re: safety tips
« Reply #1 on: 03 November 2024, 06:17:44 pm »
The only rule here is that you make your own rules; everybody is different and there is no 'should' or 'shouldn't'. If you don't want to offer unprotected services then don't - if the agency pimp doesn't like it then sack them and move on (preferably to independent work, but that's up to you). Never forget that agencies are a) illegal and b) need you FAR more than you need them.

Have you read the main SAAFE site? There are a lot of general safety tips on there, and if you have specific questions the search box here will turn up a lot of stuff too :)

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Re: safety tips
« Reply #2 on: 03 November 2024, 07:27:25 pm »
Yep, pimp 1 is doubtless advertising OWO ('oral without') for other people to do and pimp 2 wouldn't personally want commercial oral that way. (Cynical? Moi?!?)

It's up to you. Read more here - OWO is a good thing to look for - and you will see different people have different thoughts on the risks and benefits either way.. but it's yours that count when it comes to what you do.
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lora

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Re: safety tips
« Reply #3 on: 09 November 2024, 11:25:54 pm »
A decent agency should not insist you do OWO. I'm surprised any agency would not allow it because that is likely to limit their clientele and subsequent income.
  I work for a few agencies that have let us choose which services we want offer( not including Bareback sex). Some charge extra for some services. Some are all inclusive. That depends on the agency.

Unfortunately anyone can set up an escort agency and they are not regulated. So the vary wildly in how they treat their workers and how much money they will make you. Some are run by people who genuinely care about your safety and well being and others by money grabbing  pimps who just want to exploit vulnerable and often inexperienced women.

They shouldn't dictate what services you offer.
They shouldn't take more than 30%(maybe more if incall is provided)
They should let you work when you want and not pressure you to work more than you want to.
They shouldn't allow "party bookings"(using drugs like cocaine)
They should allow you to choose not to see a client again if you do not want to( for any reason)

That's a few tips off the top of my head.

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Re: safety tips
« Reply #4 on: 10 November 2024, 12:05:34 am »
I see your in London so unfortunately there are so many that it can be very hard to determine the good from the bad. Don't presume that the higher priced agencies will earn you the most money. Whatever they tell you will probably not get many bookings from high priced agencies. Most "high class escorts" need to work for multiple agencies and often also independently. And need an expensive incall in central London. Also for safety reasons I wouldn't work at night. And don't drink or take drugs with clients.