Ok, I'll probably get my ass chewed for this, but here goes.
Cece - if you go back over the posts, UA did say that he had contracted an sti and later said it was only pubic lice the time before.
UA - I share Cece's concerns, which is what they are, she is not belitteling you or saying you can't do the job and you are not as silly and naive as some of the young girls or boys who get into this business.
There is no getting away from it though - you are young, but what is more to the point you are very sensitive, giving, honest and trusting and like me you are what experts term a 'pleaser'.
This is just my opinion and you may totally disagree, you believe in the good in people and are constantly surprised that people don't mean and stick to what they say, because you do. You want everyone to like you and seek their approval, it makes you happy to make others happy and you find it hard to say no. If I'm right, it makes life tough for you, especially as escort, why - because it makes you vulnerable. I'm not saying it's a bad thing to be like this, but you need to toughen up, sweetheart, fight those instincts and be a litlle more suspicious and mistrusting until you have been proven otherwise.
I know you were dissapointed with the reaction from your date, I think he reacted like any man would by initally denying it was his fault and shoving the responsibility back onto you instead of supporting you.
Talking of responsibility, I agree with what the other ladies are saying here, because, admit it you are making excuses for yourself. It was your choice to trust this guy and it backfired, learn from it, toughen up.
I don't mean change who you are, but question yourself more often as to whether you are doing something because it is expected of you or because you want to be liked or please and ask yourself if you are putting yourself at risk emotionally or physically before deciding to do it.
And if you are rejected by someone, because you won't do what they want or they don't approve - stuff them, their's is a friendship/aquaintance you don't need.
Ok, I've said my piece, take it on board, dismiss it as amateur psychobable it's completely up to you
But above all nobody here is having a go at you, so don't get tied up in defending yourself, think about it ask yourself if an outsider is seeing something you haven't realised or wanted to acknowledge in you. We are all genuinely concerned, trying to understand and wanting to help with advice. Which may come over a little harsh, since we are too far away to pop round for a cup of tea, a shake and a hug.
Right that's it! I'm shutting up now!
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