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Title: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: justgee84 on 29 July 2013, 03:09:03 pm
Hi,

I've tried searching for this, but can't seem to find much info. Am I right in assuming all sex is banned during Ramadan? Only, I've just had one of my regulars (who is muslim) for an oral-only booking and he was frantically cleaning himself after. He didn't touch me or say anything like he normally does, but was his normal chatty self afterwards? He's also been begging me for a late-night booking (which he has never done before). I haven't seen him since June so I can only assume it has something to do with Ramadan??

I've also noticed all my usually Muslim clients have gone quiet over the past few weeks.

Cheers
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Sassy Slapper on 29 July 2013, 03:16:29 pm
Hi,

I've tried searching for this, but can't seem to find much info. Am I right in assuming all sex is banned during Ramadan? Only, I've just had one of my regulars (who is muslim) for an oral-only booking and he was frantically cleaning himself after. He didn't touch me or say anything like he normally does, but was his normal chatty self afterwards? He's also been begging me for a late-night booking (which he has never done before). I haven't seen him since June so I can only assume it has something to do with Ramadan??

I've also noticed all my usually Muslim clients have gone quiet over the past few weeks.

Cheers

Hi,

People observing the fast during Ramadan are nil by mouth and no sexual contact between sun rise and sunset when they can break their fast. This is why your guys are asking for late night bookings, its after the fast as the sun is setting rather late in the evening due to it falling in the summer this year. Really and truly the guy shouldnt have had the booking if he is fasting and thats why he was more observant of his cleaning afterwards too.
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: justgee84 on 29 July 2013, 03:44:57 pm
I didn't think he should have made the booking! I only work day times and he knows this. At least I know now. Guess the rest will have to wait until August :)

Thank you!!
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Lady_Lust_XXX on 29 July 2013, 04:03:26 pm
Muslims are also meant to wash/shower each time they have penetration  :o 

Kinda makes it a passion killer but that's how they go  :(
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: GinnieHazel on 29 July 2013, 04:08:00 pm
This is all assuming that they decide to stick to all the rules. I find many don't.
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: xw5 on 29 July 2013, 04:47:03 pm
If everyone stuck to society's rules, this board would be empty :)
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: London2012girl on 30 July 2013, 12:10:11 am
explains why i just had british people since a few weeks
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: amy on 30 July 2013, 12:12:03 am
explains why i just had british people since a few weeks

I don't understand what it explains - all of my Muslim clients are British ???
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Aliya on 30 July 2013, 02:10:10 am
explains why i just had british people since a few weeks

I don't understand what it explains - all of my Muslim clients are British ???

 ;D ;D ;D

Ive got one Muslim client who's fasting and has booked me as an Eid Present once its over.... So no doubt they'll be back with a bang in a few weeks.
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: BevOsteen on 30 July 2013, 09:45:07 pm

Oh that explains why one of my Muslim clients wanted to see me after midnight 00.30hrs. Thanks Chloe kisses. Makes more sense now.



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Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Hadley on 31 July 2013, 08:38:58 pm
Hi, I can answer this as someone that has lived in a muslim country, and who has been married to a muslim man.

During Ramadan sex is not allowed during daylight hours, even between husband and wife. However sex is permitted after sunset, between husband and wife only.

Ramadan is a time of being good - even if someone is not a good muslim, or as good as they should be the rest of the time, during Ramadan all muslims try to be the best and most holy that they can be for this one month of the year. Sex outside marriage is not permitted in Islaam, therefore muslim men will not visit prostitutes even after dark during this time. (You will have the occasional muslim man that will visit a girl after sunset; that is down to their own conscience and their own interpretation of the Koran. It is for them to make their peace with Allah for doing this)

Eid marks the end of Ramadan and is a day of celebration. This is the day all the punting muslim men will want to visit ladies again (whether in the day or night!) so make sure you have plenty of space in your calendar!!

Hope that helps

Hadley x x
Title: Business before, during, and after ramadan.
Post by: Meme10 on 22 May 2017, 05:20:34 pm
Hello there,

I was just wondering, all those who have been doing this for long. How is the business during the time?
Cause my phone has been dead since the past 2 days.

Does it normally go slow?

Meme :)
Title: Re: Business before, during, and after ramadan.
Post by: ParisB on 22 May 2017, 08:37:13 pm
Hello there,

I was just wondering, all those who have been doing this for long. How is the business during the time?
Cause my phone has been dead since the past 2 days.

Does it normally go slow?

Meme :)

It's not ramadam till Sat 28th
I worked last year in a prominently Muslim area and it was crazy for the two days before and the day of Ramadan till about 8pm the day of Ramadan my work dropped by half

I've also worked in Dubai where it's very similar as well in the run up to Ramadan
Title: Re: Business before, during, and after ramadan.
Post by: Kendall on 22 May 2017, 09:29:39 pm
It's not ramadam till Sat 28th
I worked last year in a prominently Muslim area and it was crazy for the two days before and the day of Ramadan till about 8pm the day of Ramadan my work dropped by half

I've also worked in Dubai where it's very similar as well in the run up to Ramadan

I'm always busy in Leeds the few weeks before some book longer than normal it's great  :D
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Licketysplitz on 23 May 2017, 01:38:57 am
This why I don't get Religion! It's ok to commit adultery, but as long as you do it at the right time of day, exclude certain practices and wash correctly!
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Lushblossom on 23 May 2017, 06:23:35 am
It doesn't affect where I live there is barely any diversity I am in the middle of the country lol.  Am meeting a rare Chinese guy tomorrow it is highly unusual everybody is white British as a rule.
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Moonlight on 23 May 2017, 03:24:27 pm
Usually they stop visiting escorts around a week before, although there will always be some visiting until the last few days before it begins. Although they are allowed to have sex during the night, it is usually with their wives. Some will visit some escort during the night, but very few.
In an area with a Muslim population the decline in business is notable.
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Adele7 on 23 May 2017, 04:18:15 pm
If everyone stuck to society's rules, this board would be empty :)

Totally agree!
Title: Re: Rules of Ramadan
Post by: Naughtyforty on 23 May 2017, 09:14:13 pm
What I have experience off is that people will meet up at 10pm ish / sundown to have a communal meal.
It maybe doesn't apply to married with young kids guys who need to do the "kids to bed" routine but for everyone else the sundown meal is very social so single guys might have trouble making excuses to disappear from friends/ parents etc for a late booking even when they are allowed/ or chose to be a bit  more relaxed from the religious rules.
They could be looking for midnight time for a meeting which not many of us seem to work