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Nell2

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Rough kissing.............................
« on: 09 October 2008, 11:35:50 pm »
Gosh I dont know how to phrase this...............

Recently (and in particular often with one regular) I have had a few clients who are quite passionate in kissing........... as a result this I think brings on a cold sore of sorts (which incidentally I am prone to when run down).

I noticed the cold sore seemed to disappear and then had another client who was well into deep french kissing (or prolonged snogging to be precise!) and lo and behold I feel the bump come up again and it is quite painful.

It's almost like having a bruised lip combined with a cold sore !

Does anyone else suffer from this?  Or have any tips? 

Alex xxx

Lydia

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #1 on: 10 October 2008, 12:54:52 am »
I don't think I've had a cold sore, are you sure it's not his teeth having caught you?

Why not just not kiss like that then it's no longer a problem.

I've found a link to something about cold sores.. According to this you can get cold sores on your fingers too, I've never heard of that before.

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #2 on: 11 October 2008, 05:53:42 pm »
i hope it is ok saying this, what you are describing sounds like it could be herpes,
a very large population has it, and it appears like a cold soar and generally breaks out when run down, or being stressed. besides getting those cold soars symptoms and being highly infectious its completely harmless,

most people get it from kissing a person where the its broken out or by drinking of a glass of a person where it is broken out.

i would be careful to kiss a client who appears to have a cold soar

i might would get checked out,
so far i know when it breaks out i think it has some yellowish filling and i think it stays a few days until it vanishes, and i think it can appear as a cold soar without breaking open and vanish after a few days again, and it is not infectious when it is not broken open.

i hope that helps and i hope i don't cause any fear if so i am sorry

amy

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #3 on: 11 October 2008, 06:34:22 pm »
i hope it is ok saying this, what you are describing sounds like it could be herpes,
a very large population has it, and it appears like a cold soar and generally breaks out when run down, or being stressed. besides getting those cold soars symptoms and being highly infectious its completely harmless, 

i would be careful to kiss a client who appears to have a cold soar

Cold sores are herpes (I think Alex knows that already  ;)). I would NEVER kiss a client showing signs of a cold sore or let him perform RO on me - I have never had one, and to the best of my knowledge do not carry this strain of the herpes virus. I would not be prepared to risk my health or my livelihood; if I was to have a cold sore I would not work until it had gone. I don't think it can be caused just by being rough though - I do agree with Lydia that it could just be bruising and tenderness left over from the kissing although I don't know whether 'injuries' such as this can turn into cold sores or not.

UrbaneAspects

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #4 on: 11 October 2008, 07:01:55 pm »
well if its happening right after u meet the client it could be 1 of 3 things.

1) you may be getting stressed during the 'rough courting' enough to trigger a breakout...

2) you may have an allergic reaction to the guy's saliva

3) You may have a strand of the herpes simplex, or herpes virus.


lexienight

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #5 on: 12 October 2008, 05:26:07 pm »
i get weird itchy lumps sometimes around my lips and spoke to my doctor about it a while ago.  he said its not a cold sore its just where a gland is blocked so it starts to develop as a spot but then just fades away before really doing anything.  apparently it feels itchy just because the skin is more sensitive.  Maybe its a similar thing you have.

celebate

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #6 on: 12 October 2008, 09:50:30 pm »
i get weird itchy lumps sometimes around my lips and spoke to my doctor about it a while ago.  he said its not a cold sore its just where a gland is blocked so it starts to develop as a spot but then just fades away before really doing anything.  apparently it feels itchy just because the skin is more sensitive.  Maybe its a similar thing you have.

It's just stubble rash sweetie, i used to get it a lot which is why i tell them now! xx

lexienight

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #7 on: 13 October 2008, 07:25:02 am »
i get weird itchy lumps sometimes around my lips and spoke to my doctor about it a while ago.  he said its not a cold sore its just where a gland is blocked so it starts to develop as a spot but then just fades away before really doing anything.  apparently it feels itchy just because the skin is more sensitive.  Maybe its a similar thing you have.

It's just stubble rash sweetie, i used to get it a lot which is why i tell them now! xx

I wish i could say it was stubble rash but its not.... Frankly there hasnt always been enough kissing action going on befor hand!!!!

Lydia

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #8 on: 14 October 2008, 02:42:53 pm »
Could it be an allergic reaction? Do you have a new lipstick that you've only used with them but because the kissing is rough it only shows with them? I don't know just wondering..

« Last Edit: 30 October 2008, 04:59:09 am by Lydia »

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Re: Rough kissing.............................
« Reply #9 on: 14 October 2008, 05:15:37 pm »
I've read that abrasive contact can cause genital herpes to flare up, so maybe it has the same effect on cold sores. It was only a magazine article, though, so I'm not sure how reliable the info was.