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Lucymay

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Rimming - Do you do it?
« on: 27 August 2009, 04:49:00 pm »
I was put off rimming when i read something about catching worms from it, I may consider it if a dental dam is used but won't without.  I've noticed alot of men asking about it, is it something most people do or do not do?


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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #1 on: 27 August 2009, 06:32:21 pm »
I don't do OWO, so it wouldn't make sense for me to do unprotected rimming. I think it's possible to get hep C from it (also B, but you should have had your shots for that).

I've done it with a dam, but only twice. The first time was my very first booking and I'd brought a full kit with me including three kinds of lube, so I suggested it. He was underwhelmed.

The second time was a guy who liked it. He was sceptical of the dam but I gave it a try. He said it didn't feel any different physically, but didn't work for him psychologically. He was a Dom ::).

It feels weird to do it through latex, but if you put lube on both sides it'll work. Pasant? make little dams in lollipop packages, just like condoms. It's worth keeping a few in your bag.

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #2 on: 27 August 2009, 08:27:58 pm »
Not if my bloody life depended on it! Rimming an Irish man? Who are notoriously aquaphobic!? AAAAARRRRGGGGGG! I have to drag some of them kicking and screaming into the bathroom just to get them to wash their hands! And I will then, in my right mind, stick my tongue up their ass? Where the definition 'just having showered', when asked on a Thursday, is referring to having a courtesy rinse on  a Sunday? HELL NO, SHIT NO, FUCK NO WAY!!!

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #3 on: 27 August 2009, 09:30:04 pm »
I occasionally get asked but I won't do it. 


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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #4 on: 27 August 2009, 09:49:52 pm »
Never in a month of Sundays!!! But I don't do OWO either.

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #5 on: 28 August 2009, 08:49:23 am »
Not if my bloody life depended on it! Rimming an Irish man? Who are notoriously aquaphobic!? AAAAARRRRGGGGGG! I have to drag some of them kicking and screaming into the bathroom just to get them to wash their hands! And I will then, in my right mind, stick my tongue up their ass? Where the definition 'just having showered', when asked on a Thursday, is referring to having a courtesy rinse on  a Sunday? HELL NO, SHIT NO, FUCK NO WAY!!!

Laugh my ass and dick off!  :D

Whew...wow. I cant believe it. Men actually ask women to rim? I havent even seen pornos on that. Or maybe Im just too gay  :P My take on rimming is very strict. I will swallow cum, suck with no condom, kiss...ANYTHING but I refuse to rim without a dam, and that is IF I am asked to rim. I am not the rimming type of guy, but I dont mind getting it done  :-[

Reason being, alot of people dont understand the amount of effort needed to clean the anal area. I dont know about worms, but I do know 'back there' can contain harmful bacteria that takes more than soap and water to get rid of. I wouldnt feel comfortable doing it unless the guy sat in a hot bubble bath for atleast 30 minutes, and then scubbed and showered prior to that!

Alot of people do rim. I was amazed when my X boyfriend wouldnt dream of doing it 3 years ago, but he gladly did without my consent just a few months ago. Its pretty popular, but I would use a damn. The smooth latex feel may even enhance the pleasure.

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #6 on: 28 August 2009, 09:05:03 am »
I don't do it and funnily enough, it's one thing I've never been asked to do. But I do sometimes have a go at the perineum, the bit inbetween the balls and the anus, which customers do seem to find sensitive and love it. Massaging it as well sometimes helps a client to cum.

Lucymay

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #7 on: 28 August 2009, 09:06:31 am »
Joey - What do you consider to be the ultimate anal cleaning ? I have a douche but havn't used it much, i don't offer anal I just like to be clean.

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #8 on: 28 August 2009, 09:46:09 am »
Joey - What do you consider to be the ultimate anal cleaning ? I have a douche but havn't used it much, i don't offer anal I just like to be clean.

Douche mostly cleans the insides, but does some outside. And some still dont know how to do that! It takes 2-3 squirts to get the job done, not just 1. (thankyou to a member here who instructed me, shall remain annoymous LOL).

Ok thats hardcore. To me, ultimate anal cleaning invloves 3 douching reps, anti-bacterial soap, fragranced body wash gel, hot water, and a shower head with 'jet' setting.

For extreme cleaning, one would need to do all the above, and then soak in a hot bubble bath for 30 minutes. By then, Its sparkling clean and taste just like cock, yummy LOL....
« Last Edit: 28 August 2009, 09:47:49 am by JoeyR »

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #9 on: 28 August 2009, 05:58:53 pm »
I don't do bottoms!  :o

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #10 on: 28 August 2009, 07:25:29 pm »
The main nasties you can get by doing it seem to be Hepatitis A (there's a vaccine, but unless you're a gay man, clinics typically won't be offered it unless you make it very clear rimming homosexually active men is part of your sex life) and assorted poo-loving bacteria.

Someone may not have the former, but the various sorts of the latter are going to be around wherever there's poo, so it's advisable to make sure their bum is very, very clean. And then use a barrier anyway, even if it does make it a bit odd.

One bout of dysentery is enough for most people...
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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #11 on: 28 August 2009, 11:00:22 pm »
One bout of dysentery is enough for most people...

Dysentery (formerly known as flux or the bloody flux) is a disorder of the digestive system that results in severe diarrhea containing mucus and/or blood in the feces. If left untreated, dysentery can be fatal.

Symptoms of dysentery include frequent passage of feces and, in some cases, vomiting of blood. The frequency of urges to defecate, the volume of feces passed, and the presence of mucus and/or blood depends on the parasite that is causing the disease. Once recovery starts, early refeeding is advocated, avoiding foods containing lactose due to temporary lactose intolerance, which can persist for years.


Source: Dictionary.com

I had to look that one up, but ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, that sounds horrible! We need to implement a mandatory ultra anal cleaning!


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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #12 on: 29 August 2009, 12:16:41 am »
I don't need to know about dysentery amoebic or otherwise, to know that sticking your tongue up some ones nether regions is just plain ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, as Joey so eloquently puts it. :D

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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #13 on: 29 August 2009, 01:33:56 am »
my my, a bum for me is just a exit and that is that....no thank you
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Re: Rimming - Do you do it?
« Reply #14 on: 29 August 2009, 09:06:44 pm »
Just a correction, they are not only aquaphobic, they are also ablutoanalphobic!