Yes I completely agree. If they have stubble I will ask them to please be gentle with it. If the stubble is starting to get painful I tell them and try to move things round to them. They are usually understanding. It can be so painful when they rub their stubble on my sensitive skin and I sometimes end up with red skin from that

Yes, I've stopped one quite recently. I'd rather not have my fanny sandpapered!!

Clean shaven, trimmed clean nails and showered are a standard prerequisite of mine. I mention this during the booking, the ones that ooh and aah about it - fine, I shall show up in last weeks trackie bottoms, hoodie and not been in the shower or washed my hair as it seems to be the daily unkempt I couldn't give a fuck look.  (Really amazes me how I get bookings in the first place never mind regulars lol. Although the couldn't give a fuck look is what some go for and request jeans/trackie bottoms, trainers and hoodies with no makeup.)