I also have spanking on my profile and apart from the odd bellend asking me if I'm submissive on the phone I don't get blokes taking the piss.I make it clear when they ring up or when they arrive that I only like light to medium spanking.Maybe have it in your faqs that you only enjoy spanking as part of a fun gfe and that you do not offer any sort of sub services.If they start with the domme stuff and asking you to count etc just move away,smile and say you aren't a submissive and you only like a fun spanking rather than as a submissive act.Guys will always push boundaries regardless of what you offer either because they don't read or don't check or mention what they are really after.

I love to give it out  But I don't receive it. I've had idiots coming round and think it's okay just to do it without asking if I mind. I'm not comfortable with it at all if I've only just met them, but I let my regulars do it.  I say this on my AW page 

I used to advertise on spanknet as a pro spankee. Make it clear you dont offer sexual services and only like otk hand spanking, you can always offer sexual services to guys afterwards. There's good money to be made if you can host.