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scarlett45

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returning refund
« on: 15 November 2018, 09:16:20 am »
hi can anyone help me ,i was meant to see a guy last week but wasnt well he had paid a deposit of 60 pound but i emailed him and said i was ok and can do the booking any time this week ,got up this morning had a email from him saying he has to stop all this and grow up blah blah and would i return his deposit ,what would you girls do i wouldnt have as i was willing to do it this week at any time thanks not sure what to say to him x
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scarlett45

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #1 on: 15 November 2018, 09:56:59 am »
would really be grateful for some advice on this one please as i haven't replied to his email yet ty
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Lucie268

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #2 on: 15 November 2018, 09:59:12 am »
Do you think you can easily fill the time he's lost you with another booking? If no, I would keep the deposit since it's him who's changed his mind, not you. That's the whole point of a deposit in the first place!
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hollyrose5

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #3 on: 15 November 2018, 10:01:22 am »
I'd personally refuse as depsoits are non refundable with me, however if you were unwell and have offered him another time slot.

Email back apologising again, explain the situation again and say you've offered him another booking at his convience, Maybe over a little discount if you really need the work xxx
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April Showers

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #4 on: 15 November 2018, 10:05:09 am »
He booked for a specific time and duration he paid a deposit for that space if he hadn't showed you would of kept it.

You couldn't make the booking  so you owe him the deposit back  i would of transfered it back the minute I couldn't honour the

booking he may contact you another time  again.

edit as cant spell lol
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scarlett45

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #5 on: 15 November 2018, 10:06:16 am »
thank you yeah i emailed him sunday said i could do the booking anytime this week but he didnt reply ,just this morning had an email from him saying he didnt want to do this anymore as it was not just his money he was wasting but his familys and can you refund my money back just worried incase he contacts the bank etc x
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scarlett45

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #6 on: 15 November 2018, 10:10:14 am »
thats true april didnt think of it like that but he has messed me about in the past but normally never pays a deposit but i wouldnt discuss are reply to all his emails this time unless he paid a deposit
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April Showers

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #7 on: 15 November 2018, 10:11:52 am »
that's different then lol  :)  i would of just blocked him have a few like that myself :)
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scarlett45

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #8 on: 15 November 2018, 10:11:57 am »
dont like them knowing my real name that's also why am not keen on sending a refund x
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April Showers

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« Reply #9 on: 15 November 2018, 10:13:26 am »
you just go into the bank and put cash into the machine you dont need to put your name then i have had to do it :) just get his bank details and sort code
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scarlett45

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #10 on: 15 November 2018, 10:13:46 am »
lol so what do you think am hopeless like this but don't want to do the wrong thing
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scarlett45

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #11 on: 15 November 2018, 10:15:30 am »
truthfully i don't think he would of turned up anyway x
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April Showers

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« Reply #12 on: 15 November 2018, 10:17:32 am »
i'd give him it back and not see him again  but tell him once you have sent it him back you wont see him again  but dpends on how much you feel he has messsed you around before
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scarlett45

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« Reply #13 on: 15 November 2018, 10:22:54 am »
could give him half as i often thought he was just getting off on all the emails he sent will say that to him thank you x
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April Showers

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Re: returning refund
« Reply #14 on: 15 November 2018, 10:28:49 am »
well tell him you have started to charge to send emails if he's not booking as it is just like camming or phone chat :) with him

good luck with what ever you decide it will be right for you
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