Hello
Im kind of new here and thought i join and see if i can an answer.

Last march 08 i stopped escorting due to being bored with timewasters, i did meet some nice guys and the odd ones when i did incalls at hotels for 3 yrs.
I just re joined on adultwork with a different name and pics this time without my face on show but in some pics my eyes are covered.
I know i promised myself i wouldnt go back to it again but i thought i give it a go hopefully it be better and different this time.
Im not looking to meet guys every hour every day just maybe one or two once a week if im lucky
But i rather except bookings via aw for outcalls.
I dont have my number on my profile either just in case i get the timewasters or guys who call and pester me when im not available like i use to have.
The thing is i now offer less of what i use to offer like deep throat, cim, swallow.
I rather meet guys who are looking for companionship cuddles, kiss and maybe protected sex but knowing my luck most of the guys i met want owo, cim and swallow and to be honest i wouldnt want to do all that again.

Im really nervous just in case i do get a booking i think to myself can i really go through all this again letting some stranger touch me its just i miss chatting to people and having fun.
Not sure if escorting is for me again just hope someone out their can advise me on this.

Thanxs

Hi Impulse,

The most important thing to remember with regards to only wanting to meet people who want the services you are now prepared to offer is to stick by your rules and do not let the money or pressure sway your mind. There are plenty of men out there who are more interested in the cuddles and affection side of meeting an escort, and if you market yourself to these by coming across as a girlfriend experience type, find the rate that those in your area are charging for such a service, and advertise accordingly, you will attract enough of the right client I am sure of it.

If you don't offer CIM and someone offers to pay you double to do it, you tell them politely to bugger off. Of course, we all get the timewasters and those we don't really cater towards contacting us, and sifting them out is part of the job, but I am certain that those who want a GFE will come if you make sure your advert really speaks to them.

Good luck and welcome back to the biz!

xx

Stick to your guns Impulse, what you say you do is what you do, don't be persuaded or you will start feeling used etc. Some guys will always try & push our boundaries, I don't even offer OWO never mind CIM & swallow I have been offered stupid amounts of money to do these but always stuck to what I say I offer!! I get the impression you're coming back into the business cos you need to not cos you want to, or not really thrilled with the idea.

Luv Kate xx

I know a few girls who do owo & cim just as standard but they're not necessarily busier than me. I know 1 girl personally who does BB with a couple of her clients!!!! She has known them a long time & really likes them, but to me that is just a deffo no no!!!

xx