Well, it might be a bit difficult to detect people whose first language is something else, but who are fluent in English! But presumably you'd be happy with them.

Because yes, bookings with people you can't communicate effectively with can be a nightmare. This is one reason for screening: you can be brutal in your screening, declining anyone you can't understand on the phone, for example.

thank you!!
i just wanted an opinion from someone else

i had a call from a guy just last week and trying to ask him for the booking ref number for his hotel was like trying to explain pavlovs dog to a todler. i had to stop answering his calls after a while because we were going round and round in circles!!!
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I don't think you're being unreasonable at all. I have recently had to stop seeing guys who don't speak very good English after one was hanging around at my buzzer not pressing the right number/loitering, when I tried to contact him he was unable to understand the basic 'walk away and I'll come down and find you', needed to get him away because I could see residents in my block coming towards the entrance, and they are a bit nosey (but lovely and friendly) and would've probably asked which flat he was looking for etc, and it'd be obvious if they spoke to him that he wasn't a friend or relative of mine, plus he wouldn't know my real name to tell them who he was looking for. Had a few incidents like this so just best not to see them anymore. I know girls who have had negative experiences with guys from certain races and it's entirely our prerogative in this job who we choose and choose not to see for whatever reasons . X

I personally think it's bigoted to refuse to see men of a certain race, but a good command of the English language is important. I need to be able to communicate easily and quickly with my clients - if they start doing something that's unacceptable they need to understand me telling them to stop, etc. And it is a total pain in the ass trying to give instructions about confirmation, getting to your incall location, etc when someone doesn't understand you or you can't understand their questions. I can't see that anyone could be offended by you not seeing people who aren't fluent in English (although as xw5 said, you probably won't know if it's their second language as long as they speak it well).

I've heard a few ladies say that, and while I can completely respect that people need to protect their anonymity in this line of work I think maybe this is a bit paranoid? Most non-prostitute/client types don't think about sex work all the time, and most people wouldn't want to challenge someone on the basis that "ooooo you have NON WHITE people visiting you" because it would make them sound like a racist asshole. Unless you're planning a constant stream of them every day (which would draw attention no matter what) I can't see why anyone would assume that it was anything other than normal friends/work collegues/people doing work on the house etc. If you do have racist neighbours then they might not like it but I still can't see them making the jump that non-white visitors = WHORE. Plus you could have a white guy turn up dressed or acting in a way that is out of character for the neighbourhood (I'm thinking chav in the kind of street my parents lived in when I was a kid haha - someone would have probably called the police before he got to the front door!).

There are no black/asian people living on my estate that I'm aware of, and I've never seen any in the immediate surrounding area. It's a very white part of town, but I've never had a neighbour challenge me on this basis. I've been found out (I think) but that's because I'm a quickie escort and sometimes see quite a lot of people in a day, and also I dress like a street walker for nights out (cos I'm classy that way ) so they've seen me coming and going looking trashy. So uh, the moral of the story is avoid doing that lol, but I don't really see that the race of my clients makes a difference either way.

Sorry that's rambly. You're not a bigot if you're wanting to have a certain type of client to protect your anonymity and stuff, not at all. I think it's bigoted when you see escorts refusing non-whites or one particular race when it's obviously a racism issue (like if they're offering outcalls) as there is no other business where that kind of thing would be allowed and there is no logical reason why a white client will be better than any other (believe me I've met some pasty white dickheads who deserve a slap!).

It's a tricky line to walk to be honest, I don't have any restrictions on language/race etc but sometimes I think about it.

I had a gent with a heavy accent visit recently who thought he could have a 3some for the same prices as a one on one just because my buddy was there, it took half his booking to explain that she would need to be paid too lol!

He also decided he wanted anal while I was in a compromising position, I told him it cost extra so he said nevermind and then tried anyway! I don't know if it was a genuine language barrier of if he was just using it as an excuse to be an ass hat.

Oh Jodie, one of my lovely lady friends here in Australia has experienced much the same problem on the odd occasion, whereby a client didn't have English as a first language and didn't understand what a TG was.
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Here in Australia, it's very common for escorts to turn down Indian/Pakistani and African American men, as the majority of rapes and sexual assaults on escorts are by these races. Racist - yes, but protecting your safety - more paramount then being accused of racism.

L xx