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Jessiegirl

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Request for sex in the shower
« on: 11 January 2021, 03:30:02 pm »
Hi all. A client wants to have sex with me in the shower but have not done this before.

Can anyone give any advice or tips.

Are there any issues with the condom getting wet.

I'm aware I need to watch out if he rubs his cock against me as he gets quite intimate and there will be less space than usual.

Also any recommended positions. He has this idea he wants to lift me up against the wall. I'm worried if he will drop me.

Thanks in advance

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #1 on: 11 January 2021, 03:44:20 pm »
How will it work with condom in the shower unless you offer bareback I can’t see how it works

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #2 on: 11 January 2021, 03:48:50 pm »
How will it work with condom in the shower unless you offer bareback I can’t see how it works

You just put it on as usual and get on with it - condoms are not water soluble? It's no different standing up sex anywhere else apart from being shit because it's wet and cold for at least one of you; silicone lube is good because it doesn't wash away :).

I would advise against letting a punter pick you up in the shower if you're talking about both feet off the floor type of picking up. It's slippery and if he loses balance or drops you, it's going to be even less sexy than it is in the first place.

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #3 on: 11 January 2021, 05:24:03 pm »
I wouldn't have PIV sex in the shower unless it's one with a seat - then he could sit down and you could sit on him, facing either way.

Or if you covered the floor with heavy duty shower mats (the ones with rubber suckers to keep them secure) and wore proper sailing shoes with grip. SEXAY! :D

I do a shared shower service if I'm somewhere with a walk in shower, but I just do a slow teasing body wash, lots of kissing and stroking, brief oral if requested.
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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #4 on: 11 January 2021, 06:00:12 pm »
I do showers with a bit of oral maybe and body to body but not sex. I don't let punters pick me up, as they always tried that in blue shows and don't realise how feeble they are.

I'd especially not let some dude pick me up on a slippy wet shower floor as I don't want to break my back and pricey chiropracter visits for the sake of his wetroom fantasy. I don't have BUPA :)
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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #5 on: 11 January 2021, 06:14:57 pm »
I've done it on the odd occasion in my early days with a handful of regulars when I had a shower over bath, which gave a bit more room, but knocked it on the head as being too much hassle, getting wet hair and ruined makeup.
It's not nearly as sexy as it seems in their heads, for us anyway, and no way would I let anyone lift me off the floor in a shower.
If you have decent facilities and you fancy it and trust the guy not to try anything sneaky then give it a go with an enhanced price tag for your inconvenience re hair/makeup and stipulate no lifting.

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #6 on: 11 January 2021, 09:41:54 pm »
They have these ideas in their heads (I blame porn!) and then they have to ruin their fantasies by finding out the hard way that balancing another humans weight whilst thrusting away on a wet and slippery surface is really uncomfortable, and not at all like it looks on TV, same as in the car- they don't show you how you have to bend at an impossible angle to straddle him, the gearstick tries to dp you and the center console is always in the way...
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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #7 on: 11 January 2021, 09:45:34 pm »
It’s a lot of frigging effort & I refuse to do them, personally. For 1, the shower’s🚿never big enough for both of us so there’s a lot of, “Oops, sorry! Ok so, if you put your leg here ... mmm, I can put my arm here; wait, that’s not going to work...”

Then as others have mentioned, there’s the whole hair/makeup thing, which I used to tack on an extra charge for the time it’d take me to redo all that after they left .... then they’re wanting to bend you over while the water’s pouring all over you & it’s like some sort of Brooke Shields Blue Lagoon fantasy come to life🙄🙄.

It’s just A LOT of effort that I’m not willing to go through. I’d definitely suggest an up charge for repairing your hair/face. It WILL get fucked up.
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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #8 on: 11 January 2021, 09:59:26 pm »
I've used the hair/makeup excuse with clients who have asked for a booking in the shower. Quite often they say "Oh you don't need to wear make up, I don't mind you without it "... Mate, thats because you haven't seen me without it before...
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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #9 on: 11 January 2021, 10:03:39 pm »
I don't wear makeup or only very little, but if my hair gets wet then it's going nowhere near my bed until it's dry. And I have a lot of hair ;D.

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #10 on: 11 January 2021, 10:06:50 pm »
I have naturally curly hair which is straightened into submission, so there is absolutely no way on earth I am getting in the shower with a client. Heck, I've never even shared a shower with a boyfriend!

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #11 on: 11 January 2021, 10:11:21 pm »
Oh god this is my least favourite thing... I just end up shivering and being cold for the rest of the booking

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #12 on: 12 January 2021, 12:06:59 am »
THanks for all the feedback. He wants to pick me up with my legs wrapped around him but I'm not sure he's big and strong enough to maintain that position so will suggest he fuck s me standing up with me against the wall. I have quite a spacious shower. I'm not sure if he's got the idea from porn as he comes up with lots of ideas that don't just work out in practice and end up just having sex normally.

Will let you know how it goes.

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #13 on: 12 January 2021, 07:46:16 am »
Good luck Jessiegirl, hope all goes well.

(PS. If you don't already have a rubber shower mat, I'd definitely buy one to eliminate any real harm should either of you slip. I would ask the client to reimburse me for the cost of the mat too.)

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Re: Request for sex in the shower
« Reply #14 on: 13 January 2021, 03:10:44 pm »
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