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ladyofthemansion

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Re: Repulsed by a client who wants to visit again
« Reply #15 on: 06 May 2025, 04:17:14 pm »
You could tell him you don't offer massage anymore because it causes tendonitis to flare up in your wrist.  Or something like that. Otherwise it just depends how much you need the money really.

That won’t work if he checks the ad.
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Ana66

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Re: Repulsed by a client who wants to visit again
« Reply #16 on: 06 May 2025, 04:39:21 pm »
In the multiple occasions where I didn't want to see a client again, I would tend to just ignore their messages if they text me again to book.

However in the few cases where they would insist with like "why are you not replying ?, we have met before blah blah blah", I would tell them I don't want to see them again without giving any further explanations (usually they would ask for the reason why and if that's the case I would just block them instantly)

no tolerance for poor hygiene !!! :-X

Tricia1

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Re: Repulsed by a client who wants to visit again
« Reply #17 on: 06 May 2025, 05:25:41 pm »
Some men repulse me and I won’t see them again, yet some escorts see these men and give them positive feedback. You have certain standards- he can’t help some things but other things he can.l Don’t feel guilty !

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Re: Repulsed by a client who wants to visit again
« Reply #18 on: 07 May 2025, 01:55:40 pm »
Sometimes it just isn't worth it.

A few weeks back, I had a guy that had a massive skin tag on his side.

It was revolting. The other day I had a guy whose stubble was so hard that I have a faint scab on my chin as it scraped on me when we were kissing.

I've also had the mole thing and bits of it scraping off on my fingernails  :FF

There is such a thing as a stupid question and there is not a first time for everything.

GucciGang

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Re: Repulsed by a client who wants to visit again
« Reply #19 on: 07 May 2025, 02:03:16 pm »
I had a client like this in Leeds he was about 20 stone and when he came out of the shower he had not washed and I could smell cheese and onion on the large folds of his stomach. That coupled with the fact he had no teeth and was the most revolting man I’ve ever seen. He was like I wish you did kissing. Not a fucking chance. I’m never seeing him again I would rather loose the money than put myself through it. Very obese men I can’t tolerate it.

OverTheHill

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Re: Repulsed by a client who wants to visit again
« Reply #20 on: 08 May 2025, 07:37:45 pm »
I had a client like this in Leeds he was about 20 stone and when he came out of the shower he had not washed and I could smell cheese and onion on the large folds of his stomach. That coupled with the fact he had no teeth and was the most revolting man I’ve ever seen. He was like I wish you did kissing. Not a fucking chance. I’m never seeing him again I would rather loose the money than put myself through it. Very obese men I can’t tolerate it.

I feel your pain.

I had a similar incident in Norwich about 18 months ago.

I vowed, never again!

I now have a disclaimer on my profile that I won’t see clinically obese men. I turned someone away at the door a few months ago.

I’m not having the fat, smelly thing. No money is enough. These men are truly repulsive!🤢 🤢

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Re: Repulsed by a client who wants to visit again
« Reply #21 on: Today at 08:06:08 am »
Normally, I’d suggest being honest and straightforward when something’s bothering you. But in this case, since he was a good client, it might be kinder to come up with a gentle excuse not to see him again, just to avoid hurting his feelings. That said, it could be tricky to pull off. Another option is to simply say you’re busy whenever he tries to book another appointment, he’ll likely get the hint and stop reaching out. If he’s persistent, then at that point, it’s best to be honest with him.
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