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SuperCheese

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #30 on: 06 May 2017, 02:13:28 pm »
I've contacted AW more than once. So actually, I did follow the advice!! They don't give a crap, so what can I do? How do I contact the police without drawing their attention to the fact I am an escort?

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #31 on: 06 May 2017, 02:27:17 pm »
There's a difference between putting up a fight in a discreet and dignified way and publicly ranting on your advertising about somebody who most punters won't even have noticed and a situation they don't know about and have no interest in. At best you look stupid and unprofessional, at worst a bit unhinged (as well as negative and defensive, which isn't going to bring punters flocking to your door).

I had similar years ago from some silly bitch (telling punters I drank, had herpes and did bareback on the sly, that sort of thing - it was just after I stopped doing OWO and I guess her business must have got quiet so she blamed me for making people think about their health) and I ignored it completely, although I suppose I might have been tempted to contact her and ask what the fuck she was playing at privately. She's now long gone.

In the end if it came up in a booking I'd just roll my eyes and point out that she was obviously struggling if she was getting that desperate that badmouthing other women was getting her more repeat business than her service. If she'd mentioned me on her AW page I would have reported it, but that's it.

Yes, that's what I was thinking. Personally, I think her 'naming and shaming' me with false rumours makes her look bitter and unhinged. I've been asked about it various times and I either ignore it or put them straight.

Would it be helpful to put an 'addressing the rumours' tab, without actually mentioning the claim?

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #32 on: 06 May 2017, 03:00:35 pm »
I wouldn't write anything in response to it as that might provoke her further. If she has mentioned your name in her profile then report her to adult work. I'd be upset if a client hasn't left me feedback because of her nasty rumours and not pleased that he would choose to see despite what she said  me then not leave me feedback to please her? If she has a telephone number listed or a email address outside of adult work then I would contact her to ask if shes said it and also ask why. It's your decision though sorry your having to go through this x

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #33 on: 06 May 2017, 04:24:27 pm »
I've contacted AW more than once. So actually, I did follow the advice!! They don't give a crap, so what can I do? How do I contact the police without drawing their attention to the fact I am an escort?

Are you in the UK? Escorting isn't illegal here.

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #34 on: 06 May 2017, 04:30:42 pm »
Here's how to report for this issue (remember, you have to click to submit TWICE otherwise AW don't get the report). remove spaces: www. adult work.com/dlgKBArticle.asp?TargetURL=https%3A%2F%2Fwww%2Eadultwork%2Ecom%2FdlgFAQsNew%2Easp%3FSectionID%3D930%26PreviousSectionIDs%3D0%252C900&ArticleID=87

And here's the specific Terms she's breaching and that you need to point out to AW:

"Acceptable Use

    We support the free flow of information and ideas over the Internet and do not actively monitor use of the Site, including the Members' areas under normal circumstances, although we reserve the right to do so. We seek to balance this aim with Our obligations to other Members and the law. We therefore reserve the right to review all profiles entered onto the Site. We will also comply with and help, in relation to the site, any enforcement agency or police request or complaints. We also therefore require that you do not:
     
       say, write, transmit or do anything that would cause annoyance, inconvenience, harassment or needless anxiety to others;
       
       make insulting remarks to or about other users of the Site;"
         

         

SuperCheese

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #35 on: 06 May 2017, 04:33:17 pm »
I know it's not illegal, but I certainly don't want it against my name. I have a young baby, so it wouldn't look good around here.

I'll follow those instructions and keep doing it until they deal with this. Thank you

losthope

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #36 on: 07 May 2017, 01:22:38 pm »
You could put on your profile something like...

It has been brought to my attention there is a local escort has been spreading malicious rumours that I have previously offered bareback sex and I have STI's. I consider this to be a pathetic attempt by this escort to manipulate clients not to visit me.

One can only assume this escort is so scared of competition she has resort to malicious lies.

I HAVE NEVER OFFERED AND WILL I NEVER OFFER BAREBACK SEX. I TAKE MY HEALTH SO SERIOUS THAT ANYONE ASKING FOR BAREBACK WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE BARRED FROM BOOKING ME.
I AM A RESPONSIBLE ESCORT I HAVE UP TO DATE SEXUAL HEALTH CHECKS WHICH I CAN SHOW.


I agree with this....

losthope

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Re: Other escort issues
« Reply #37 on: 07 May 2017, 01:25:32 pm »
I think what helen suggested is a good idea, failing that get a male friend to book her and turn up and confront her face to face, if a woman did this to me I most certainly would be confronting her.