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Lollilou

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Relative newbie on the bdsm scene after some advice xx
« on: 17 June 2019, 07:12:23 pm »
I’ve been discussing scenarios with a new client who wishes to be my sub. He’s out forward the idea of a an event where I would pimp him out. He’s into rape fantasy and so forth. Whilst I’m anxious to make sure I do things he wants. I also don’t want to do anything that would do harm so I guess I’m looking for advice from ladies who are in the world/lifestyle? I’m interested in it and I’m looking forward to exploring it in more depth. I’m not as experienced as him, our sessions have been very positive and a great success. He’s been really happy and I’ve learnt. I’ve never had  clients that are so involved but more those who just want to play for an hour. This gentleman is eventually looking to enter fully into the lifestyle once he feels a point where he can in his life due to current family commitments. So he currently suffices once a month with a day of play. I would like to state that I am very conscious of safety I am very conscious of his well-being and I am very vigilant to make sure that he’s okay I’m exploring other things to try with him that he likes the idea of  but I do feel that he is a little bit more experience for me. I guess I just need the benefit of those with more experience than me and the different things you can do with a sub I’m not just playing at this it is something that is not part of my daily life but it is something that has genuinely caught my imagination  and I would like to enter more into... Although my other half would never ever be a sub bless him!

I’m exploring responsibly and carefully but want to explore other scenarios that my new play friend has said about so any advice welcome! Thanks guys xx