Hi Jessie and often in any relationship it's important to pay attention to how the person acts and treat you in the beginning and this is the Honeymoon stage and your guy already doesn't like that you escort, Interrogated you over a booking running over. Unless you set your boundaries and your boyfriend accepts them then things could get worse or end up stressful and mess with your head. Ask yourself why you need to escort and if it's for financial gain and your lifestyle and future, Can this relationship supply you with more and will you be happy and financially independent. Also think how he may try and sabotage you working, Loads of sex in the beginning is great but if your too sore to work then that's uncomfortable for you may have to pass up on bookings making a loss. Ideally a partner in crime would understand and you could hold back on too much sex with your well endowed partner and save it for a time you can have a days break from escorting.

Other ladies may have more experience with relationships and escorting, I have avoided it and wouldn't date a guy who knew I was escorting, From the guys I have dated they would not want me having sex with anyone else.

It's a tough one, I'd like a relationship and to keep escorting but not the complications or someone just happy to have me give them a nice lifestyle.

I was also going to comment that - as well as you being into him - he may be demanding a lot of sex in a territorial way. Only you will know the answer to that, but combined with his previous negative attitude it is a bit of a red flag.

My take would be enjoy it while it lasts, but perhaps don't get seriously attached any time soon...

At what point did you do the big reveal of being a sex worker? First time meeting? Second date? A few months in?
Just looking for some advice and experiences with it, I’ve never dealt with it but I want to branch out to dating someone and fully aware it’ll be hit and miss as they won’t know what I do at first.

Unless you're out to family and friends, I would never risk it. Huge risk to take if things go south.

That's why for the time being, I can't let myself get that close to someone and the only way for things to change is if I move away from my area or people die!

You will get guys that are okay with it but they are few and far between, and when you argue “you’re a prostitute” may get thrown at you, my last boyfriend did this like it was a put down, I said back to him “you’re just a fucking postman”🤣🤣

Heya ladies, I was hoping to see if I can get any advice on a situation with a guy I've started to see. He's definitely not you're average guy, he lives on a Greek island. So therefore I feel like that's made him a bit close minded or inexperienced in this sought of area.

Mediterranean culture is a pretty patriarchal and traditional and men are a tad.. a tad chauvinistic. Culturally greek men are closer to Turkish culture than lets say... south of France. This man may like you a lot but he's fighting against his culture and upbringing, so good luck with that. I mean... it's difficult for a western European man to accept a sex worker GF let alone a Greek man. I would give it a go and see how this pans out, and like you say: put a time limit to it, meaning, if in a few months he hasn't come to terms with it... find greener pastures. I know first hand of an ex sex worker who left the industry to marry a very straight traditional type and 4 years into the relationship (they're still together) her ex job is still an "issue" he keeps throwing against her like some deadly weapon.

You will get guys that are okay with it but they are few and far between, and when you argue “you’re a prostitute” may get thrown at you, my last boyfriend did this like it was a put down, I said back to him “you’re just a fucking postman”🤣🤣

Yea and this will happen even if you quit. One ex was found of tell me to 'get back to the brothel, whore' during arguments. He ended up getting done for sex crimes years later. Just a rank, hypocritical misogynist basically, and misogynists will use anything to throw at women - whore, fat, old, loud, ugly whatever. Fuck 'em.

I started escorting about  ten years ago, while being in a relationship back then and told my bf. Back then I thought that I would never be with a man if he is ok with this job... I only told him, because he was involved in this business himself and I was already emotionally involved in our relationship. Yes He was ok but but eventually we ended up calling police after a domestic accident all because of this job. So after him I promised to myself to stay single if I am working.

Two years later, maybe because I was lonely... I fell for a client who was lonely too and we just had some instant connection. Me who was so strict and saying things like I would never ever date a client... But then it happened to me... When thinking now I wasnt even attracted to him as a man, but he was more like friend. It was the biggest mistake ever that I stopped working because of him, he was very clear if I date him I have to stop... and because I had some other good income back then I agreed. But he never really trusted me and I know it was because of what I did for a living. I left him after 3 years.... Best decision ever!

Again, I promised never to fall for a client no matter how he makes me feel... how great sex is etc.... BUT one of the things I learned in my life is never sa never... I am in love with a client.... He first came to visit me earlier this year and he knew from our first meeting that I fancied him, then we met few more times. He started asking me out but I was strong and declined. But one day after his another attempt I agreed to go out just to have some fun. And we agreed that if he wanted sex he would pay. Things didnt as planned, after just one night together and since now I cant stop thinking about him... its even harder because he is so nice to me, just the man I always dreamed about.... he is fine with what I do but I guess its because he is married/ separated. So we are now in sort of friends with benefits type of relationship but exclusive ( he insisted) of course that in personal life, as work is work. I am in love, and wonder if he is telling me the true about his marriage being dead and his plans to get divorce.... he was the one starting talking about us as a couple, future plans, feelings and I am really stuck...

Its definitely great to have someone who accept what you do....and treats you nice,gives you all the love, attention, cuddles, intimacy even if he is not really yours...

Its definitely great to have someone who accept what you do....and treats you nice,gives you all the love, attention, cuddles, intimacy even if he is not really yours...

I hope you're charging him properly for all those cuddles otherwise if you're doing it "pro-bono" it's going to be a very tough cookie to digest once you find out he's never going to divorce his wife. Not that you won't get hurted or feel less used (you will, being mislead in the love department is painful for anyone) but it's less painful and you will feel less used  with a million pounds extra in your bank account.