I'm pretty happy being single, I have lots of intimate and loving friendships, my own income, my kids, and my cats
Recently I've been really missing having sex, like not with clients or even casual fuckbuddies, the kind of sex you have when you're really into somebody. I do get the odd pang and wonder if I'll ever meet anyone who would fit the bill but it's really not on my priority list right now.
I know lots of sex workers in relationships, but most of them are poly or open in some way. I'm sexually adventurous and I like to share on my own terms (like at sex parties etc) but essentially I am monogamous, and I want a mostly monogamous relationship. It seems an impossible dream to ever find a guy who was not only supportive of my work, but who understands fully that it is work, and is happy to stay monogamous with me.